Why do men run from a single parent? (473)
babyvixonEdmonton, Alberta Canada1 Threads 1 PostsWhat I am wondering is why men run from a single parent? I am a strong willed independant woman, I am not understand????
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babyvixon: What I am wondering is why men run from a single parent? I am a strong willed independant woman, I am not understand????
Well then those men who do...aren't worth it...so just let em keep on runnin...some day the right man will come along who won't run from anything and then you will really know he loves you...acceptance of you also means love and acceptance of your kids...
Good Luck....
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I love kids!!
Because I never had any....
Because I never had any....
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I don't.............I dated a single woman once,and helped support her kid that the father didn't.
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babyvixon: What I am wondering is why men run from a single parent? I am a strong willed independant woman, I am not understand????
Because they are still boys and cant handle the responsibility of a child. When the right one comes along he will love you and your kid or kids because they are apart of you.------ This thread is Archived ------
Because an Instant family... especially for a guy that don't already have kids.. is on hell of a huge leap. stop and look at it from his angle also.. not just from a mothers viewpoint.
Women do exactly the same thing.!! especially if they don't already have kids.
I know first hand because I raised my son alone.. and just about all of the women ran real fast.
Thats just reality,
For many wanting to start a family in a normal fashion they are just as right to feel that way.
and when kids are already involved from the beginning...a hell of a lot of extra stress is added to what a normal start of a relationship would or should be.
But I never blamed the women.. because I understood how much it was asking of her/them.
some just want to start a relationship in a normal fashion..
nothing wrong with that.
but now will go a bit further.
I did my time, raised my kids, got fixed so I can't produce more.
More than paid my dues and have pretty good kids as a result.
but since I have already done it all, I don't plan on doing it all over.
Know this view bothers some people.. mostly the younger people that haven't finished raising their kids yet.. why.....because they don't want to face the truth, the reality that there is also a life after raising the kids.
Funny how most people understand this concept afterwards.
Now it is my turn to have a life.
Women do exactly the same thing.!! especially if they don't already have kids.
I know first hand because I raised my son alone.. and just about all of the women ran real fast.
Thats just reality,
For many wanting to start a family in a normal fashion they are just as right to feel that way.
and when kids are already involved from the beginning...a hell of a lot of extra stress is added to what a normal start of a relationship would or should be.
But I never blamed the women.. because I understood how much it was asking of her/them.
some just want to start a relationship in a normal fashion..
nothing wrong with that.
but now will go a bit further.
I did my time, raised my kids, got fixed so I can't produce more.
More than paid my dues and have pretty good kids as a result.
but since I have already done it all, I don't plan on doing it all over.
Know this view bothers some people.. mostly the younger people that haven't finished raising their kids yet.. why.....because they don't want to face the truth, the reality that there is also a life after raising the kids.
Funny how most people understand this concept afterwards.
Now it is my turn to have a life.
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the children play an important role in a relationship the most popular thing i hear is the woman saying that the man doesn't whip my children that takes away his authority right there that doesn't settle too well with most men they feel that is him being unaccepted into the family unit . then you got guys that just aren't ready for a family just yet i just realised i could go on all night with this but rest assured your true love is out there looking for you just as you are looking for him . that doesn't mean the road won't be long and ruff but it does mean there is a road .
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Personally i dont run at all if somone has children although i know some do, maybe partly because of the extra responsibility sometimes because there is another man who will always have some link and some just because they are a**hole,there are probably other reasons too but its 5.39am and i've just decided to retire from doorwork so i'm tired and cant think of any others at the moment.
I dont understand the reasons as i have no problem at all with being with somone who has children so i just tried to think why somone else would have a problem.
I dont understand the reasons as i have no problem at all with being with somone who has children so i just tried to think why somone else would have a problem.
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Sorry so blunt,
I am not good at sugar coating.
Funny thing is.. many of the same women that ran when I had my young son at home... wanted to date me after My son grew up and moved out
Just ain't happening
I am not good at sugar coating.
Funny thing is.. many of the same women that ran when I had my young son at home... wanted to date me after My son grew up and moved out
Just ain't happening
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rasgumby: Because an Instant family... especially for a guy that don't already have kids.. is on hell of a huge leap. stop and look at it from his angle also.. not just from a mothers viewpoint.
Women do exactly the same thing.!! especially if they don't already have kids.
I know first hand because I raised my son alone.. and just about all of the women ran real fast.
Thats just reality,
For many wanting to start a family in a normal fashion they are just as right to feel that way.
and when kids are already involved from the beginning...a hell of a lot of extra stress is added to what a normal start of a relationship would or should be.
But I never blamed the women.. because I understood how much it was asking of her/them.
some just want to start a relationship in a normal fashion..
nothing wrong with that.
but now will go a bit further.
I did my time, raised my kids, got fixed so I can't produce more.
More than paid my dues and have pretty good kids as a result.
but since I have already done it all, I don't plan on doing it all over.
Know this view bothers some people.. mostly the younger people that haven't finished raising their kids yet.. why.....because they don't want to face the truth, the reality that there is also a life after raising the kids.
Funny how most people understand this concept afterwards.
Now it is my turn to have a life.
Women do exactly the same thing.!! especially if they don't already have kids.
I know first hand because I raised my son alone.. and just about all of the women ran real fast.
Thats just reality,
For many wanting to start a family in a normal fashion they are just as right to feel that way.
and when kids are already involved from the beginning...a hell of a lot of extra stress is added to what a normal start of a relationship would or should be.
But I never blamed the women.. because I understood how much it was asking of her/them.
some just want to start a relationship in a normal fashion..
nothing wrong with that.
but now will go a bit further.
I did my time, raised my kids, got fixed so I can't produce more.
More than paid my dues and have pretty good kids as a result.
but since I have already done it all, I don't plan on doing it all over.
Know this view bothers some people.. mostly the younger people that haven't finished raising their kids yet.. why.....because they don't want to face the truth, the reality that there is also a life after raising the kids.
Funny how most people understand this concept afterwards.
Now it is my turn to have a life.
I agree
and to the OP. you say you are strong willed, and very independent..
which are good qualities, if the strong willed doesn't enter the ( I'm always right) catagory..
Some women that claim to be independent, are really just a totally self-centered B#tch.. not saying you are, just telling you the truth in alot of cases...JMO
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mbcasey: I love kids!!
Because I never had any....
Because I never had any....
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Oo yanno..
On the flip side of this.. I would rather 'get involved' with some that HAD (or did) have children..
because (mostly).. they have a much better understanding of whats going on. (I think)
hahaha
But I can see it from a single persons point of view too..
I think if I had no children.. and I met a man who had three.. yep.. that might put me off.. I;d be scared of what the heck I was in for.
On the flip side of this.. I would rather 'get involved' with some that HAD (or did) have children..
because (mostly).. they have a much better understanding of whats going on. (I think)
hahaha
But I can see it from a single persons point of view too..
I think if I had no children.. and I met a man who had three.. yep.. that might put me off.. I;d be scared of what the heck I was in for.
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personally would not bother me
was raised by a stepfather myself it may be a problem if child is 13 to 16 they probally be at age where they would find it hard to accept new person in life then again at that age i think even biologigal parents be tempted to run for hills at time
but being 38 and chances of meeting someone who wants kids getting slimmer a stepchild be just as good
jmo
was raised by a stepfather myself it may be a problem if child is 13 to 16 they probally be at age where they would find it hard to accept new person in life then again at that age i think even biologigal parents be tempted to run for hills at time
but being 38 and chances of meeting someone who wants kids getting slimmer a stepchild be just as good
jmo
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tallaght_guy: personally would not bother me
was raised by a stepfather myself it may be a problem if child is 13 to 16 they probally be at age where they would find it hard to accept new person in life then again at that age i think even biologigal parents be tempted to run for hills at time
but being 38 and chances of meeting someone who wants kids getting slimmer a stepchild be just as good
jmo
was raised by a stepfather myself it may be a problem if child is 13 to 16 they probally be at age where they would find it hard to accept new person in life then again at that age i think even biologigal parents be tempted to run for hills at time
but being 38 and chances of meeting someone who wants kids getting slimmer a stepchild be just as good
jmo
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tallaght_guy: personally would not bother me
was raised by a stepfather myself it may be a problem if child is 13 to 16 they probally be at age where they would find it hard to accept new person in life then again at that age i think even biologigal parents be tempted to run for hills at time
but being 38 and chances of meeting someone who wants kids getting slimmer a stepchild be just as good
jmo
was raised by a stepfather myself it may be a problem if child is 13 to 16 they probally be at age where they would find it hard to accept new person in life then again at that age i think even biologigal parents be tempted to run for hills at time
but being 38 and chances of meeting someone who wants kids getting slimmer a stepchild be just as good
jmo
Aawww thats nice..
But yanno.. at 38yrs old.. and being a man.. you have AGES yet..
I BETCHA!!
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You single parents are very good for New World Order creators....to protect them...to shield those creating all these irregualrities....abnormalities....nice !
Even that you protect so much your protectorates it comes to one and single point...OBVIOUSLY YOU AND YOUR BROKEN FAMILIES DON'T MATTER HEM AT ALL....YOU ARE JUST THE TOOL FOR THEIR POLITICAL APETITES....THATS ALL (horrible truth...)
Even that you protect so much your protectorates it comes to one and single point...OBVIOUSLY YOU AND YOUR BROKEN FAMILIES DON'T MATTER HEM AT ALL....YOU ARE JUST THE TOOL FOR THEIR POLITICAL APETITES....THATS ALL
(horrible truth...)------ This thread is Archived ------
bushbun: You single parents are very good for New World Order creators....to protect them...to shield those creating all these irregualrities....abnormalities....nice !
Even that you protect so much your protectorates it comes to one and single point...OBVIOUSLY YOU AND YOUR BROKEN FAMILIES DON'T MATTER HEM AT ALL....YOU ARE JUST THE TOOL FOR THEIR POLITICAL APETITES....THATS ALL (horrible truth...)
Even that you protect so much your protectorates it comes to one and single point...OBVIOUSLY YOU AND YOUR BROKEN FAMILIES DON'T MATTER HEM AT ALL....YOU ARE JUST THE TOOL FOR THEIR POLITICAL APETITES....THATS ALL (horrible truth...)
Ermmm.. I think your cult maybe calling you home buddy.
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bushbun: You single parents are very good for New World Order creators....to protect them...to shield those creating all these irregualrities....abnormalities....nice !
Even that you protect so much your protectorates it comes to one and single point...OBVIOUSLY YOU AND YOUR BROKEN FAMILIES DON'T MATTER HEM AT ALL....YOU ARE JUST THE TOOL FOR THEIR POLITICAL APETITES....THATS ALL (horrible truth...)
Even that you protect so much your protectorates it comes to one and single point...OBVIOUSLY YOU AND YOUR BROKEN FAMILIES DON'T MATTER HEM AT ALL....YOU ARE JUST THE TOOL FOR THEIR POLITICAL APETITES....THATS ALL (horrible truth...)
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yeah any ladies want a sugar daddy without the sugar
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bushbun: You single parents are very good for New World Order creators....to protect them...to shield those creating all these irregualrities....abnormalities....nice !
Even that you protect so much your protectorates it comes to one and single point...OBVIOUSLY YOU AND YOUR BROKEN FAMILIES DON'T MATTER HEM AT ALL....YOU ARE JUST THE TOOL FOR THEIR POLITICAL APETITES....THATS ALL (horrible truth...)
some really freaking messed up stuff. Poor guyEven that you protect so much your protectorates it comes to one and single point...OBVIOUSLY YOU AND YOUR BROKEN FAMILIES DON'T MATTER HEM AT ALL....YOU ARE JUST THE TOOL FOR THEIR POLITICAL APETITES....THATS ALL (horrible truth...)
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