Why do men run from a single parent? ( Archived) (473)

Apr 21, 2009 5:45 AM CST Why do men run from a single parent?
X_REBEL
X_REBELX_REBELNorth Shore, Auckland New Zealand9 Threads 921 Posts
jaynimble: At 17 i had an 18 year old girl friend with a kid and I was looked at as crazy by some and noble by others. It didn't work out anyway but hey it didn't hold me back.


...unfortunately with age comes wisdom...
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Apr 21, 2009 6:13 AM CST Why do men run from a single parent?
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
X_REBEL: ...unfortunately with age comes wisdom...


And with time, the cat drags in some...

Rebel, welcome back.
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Apr 21, 2009 6:14 AM CST Why do men run from a single parent?
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
X_REBEL: I think he refers to those edible ones...
btw. anything good from reading "that" book...you think?


Edible ones, X? It's been a whileblushing

Ummm...digressing from the thread a little heregrin

I will be on and off tonight, so stay awake a bit longerroll eyes
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Apr 21, 2009 6:27 AM CST Why do men run from a single parent?
X_REBEL
X_REBELX_REBELNorth Shore, Auckland New Zealand9 Threads 921 Posts
Sommerauer71: And with time, the cat drags in some...

Rebel, welcome back.


Hi to you too...still in love? It's been a while must say...don't think i really "missed" anything around here...as i see the same old stupid threads running over and over...i did however realised that as most people on this site are not genuinely "single"...the name of CS should perhaps be changed...laugh
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Apr 21, 2009 6:29 AM CST Why do men run from a single parent?
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
X_REBEL: Hi to you too...still in love? It's been a while must say...don't think i really "missed" anything around here...as i see the same old stupid threads running over and over...i did however realised that as most people on this site are not genuinely "single"...the name of CS should perhaps be changed...


I am always in love Rebel, never out of the stuff.

Same old, same old.

Good to see you.
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Apr 21, 2009 6:29 AM CST Why do men run from a single parent?
X_REBEL
X_REBELX_REBELNorth Shore, Auckland New Zealand9 Threads 921 Posts
venere08: Edible ones, X? It's been a while

Ummm...digressing from the thread a little here

I will be on and off tonight, so stay awake a bit longer


Tip of the day: eat it BEFORE usage...laugh

I'll be off shortly...in fact i'm writing an exam tomorrow and suppose to be studying... sigh
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Apr 21, 2009 6:55 AM CST Why do men run from a single parent?
X_REBEL
X_REBELX_REBELNorth Shore, Auckland New Zealand9 Threads 921 Posts
Sommerauer71: Exactly, Ven will be pleased to see you, we over in Europa are bringing her here to be with us, for a time.

You could come too. We could civilise you.

I am looking forward to you posting, we should see some action from some newer members on your thought process.

I will enjoy this.


Civilise me?...if it's possible that is... laugh I tend to bring out the "dark side" in people so that should be interesting...But later this year i'll send ya all postcards and pics from the states and mexico...wine dancing
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Apr 21, 2009 7:07 AM CST Why do men run from a single parent?
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
X_REBEL: Civilise me?...if it's possible that is... I tend to bring out the "dark side" in people so that should be interesting...But later this year i'll send ya all postcards and pics from the states and mexico...


You'd better. I want to make sure thst you are behaving yourself.
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Apr 21, 2009 7:15 AM CST Why do men run from a single parent?
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
X_REBEL: Tip of the day: eat it BEFORE usage...

I'll be off shortly...in fact i'm writing an exam tomorrow and suppose to be studying...


Thanks for the tip, professor professor But that's one thing I do know laugh

All the best in your exam tomorrow. Thanks for popping in and gracing us with your presence even for a whilegrin

Here, have some fresh flowersbouquet
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Apr 21, 2009 12:58 PM CST Why do men run from a single parent?
bamma882
bamma882bamma882baltimore, Maryland USA10 Threads 270 Posts
babyvixon: What I am wondering is why men run from a single parent? I am a strong willed independant woman, I am not understand????


Those "men" aren't men. I have no problems with single mothers. We have that in common right from the start. We would both be single parents, so we'd understand that the kids come first.
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Apr 21, 2009 4:31 PM CST Why do men run from a single parent?
Big_John_Deere
Big_John_DeereBig_John_Deeretullamore, Offaly Ireland21 Threads 3 Polls 399 Posts
babyvixon: What I am wondering is why men run from a single parent? I am a strong willed independant woman, I am not understand????



i wouldnt, tho if have the "youll be there step daddy" conversation too early its scary...
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Apr 21, 2009 5:40 PM CST Why do men run from a single parent?
BTW< Rebel: Good luck on your exam! You Go!wine
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Apr 21, 2009 6:47 PM CST Why do men run from a single parent?
alexxwalker
alexxwalkeralexxwalkerlondon, Greater London, England UK9 Threads 57 Posts
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Apr 21, 2009 6:51 PM CST Why do men run from a single parent?
jimlp1
jimlp1jimlp1Alamogordo, New Mexico USA10 Posts
I've dated several and lived with a few, its nothing but a huge hassle day in and day out....the kids resent you being there, you're not their dad, and you have no right to ask them to do something before their mother gets home....another reason, most men do not want a ready made family.....
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Apr 22, 2009 12:04 AM CST Why do men run from a single parent?
romeo22
romeo22romeo22Bangkok, Central Thailand Thailand54 Threads 2 Polls 132 Posts
babyvixon: What I am wondering is why men run from a single parent? I am a strong willed independant woman, I am not understand????


i know kids are Gods gift men and women so if you have some already that is a good news to me and from experience single moms are more stable and really serious for a relationship..how i wish i will get a Godly single mom real love is beyond what he feel and thinkhug bouquet
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Apr 22, 2009 12:07 AM CST Why do men run from a single parent?
virgiomonkey
virgiomonkeyvirgiomonkeyAuckland, New Zealand4,241 Posts
jimlp1: I've dated several and lived with a few, its nothing but a huge hassle day in and day out....the kids resent you being there, you're not their dad, and you have no right to ask them to do something before their mother gets home....another reason, most men do not want a ready made family.....


....................thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up .........Well said Good Sir..........

J.D
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Apr 22, 2009 2:23 PM CST Why do men run from a single parent?
okwusrexzo
okwusrexzookwusrexzomanchester, Greater Manchester, England UK1 Threads 3 Posts
hi my friend. if you try and balance very few minutes you got between your kids and boy friend, i bet you will find it very easy. and make sure you let him know that he will have to be straight and tell you things early enough and you can plan.


babyvixon: What I am wondering is why men run from a single parent? I am a strong willed independant woman, I am not understand????
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Apr 22, 2009 9:42 PM CST Why do men run from a single parent?
okwusrexzo: hi my friend. if you try and balance very few minutes you got between your kids and boy friend, i bet you will find it very easy. and make sure you let him know that he will have to be straight and tell you things early enough and you can plan.
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Apr 22, 2009 10:03 PM CST Why do men run from a single parent?
romanticman4u
romanticman4uromanticman4ubrainerd, Minnesota USA11 Threads 7 Polls 494 Posts
Well I have no problem with the single parent part , I'm a single parent my self, the strong willed part is what I would have a problem with. Doesn't bother me having a gal that has her own mind and opinions, however I look for someone as easy going as my self and who will comprimise as I would to make both parties happy. maybe I am taking strong willed to a wrong definition in my thinking?
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Apr 22, 2009 10:28 PM CST Why do men run from a single parent?
romanticman4u: Well I have no problem with the single parent part , I'm a single parent my self, the strong willed part is what I would have a problem with. Doesn't bother me having a gal that has her own mind and opinions, however I look for someone as easy going as my self and who will comprimise as I would to make both parties happy. maybe I am taking strong willed to a wrong definition in my thinking?
i think it depends on the individual's definition of strong willed.

For females, it could just be the determination to survive and do right by her children despite the hardships/obstacles.
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