Should women do the chasing? (134)
druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 PostsChase, retreat, let him chase, let him retreat...I've gotten really good at this game after playing for 4 years (with a small break for a marriage). I might finally have learned how to chase him until he catches me. 
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rusty_knight: I am totally shocked...... love should come AFTER marriage...... preferably an arranged marriage - I am not understanding the jumping in the sack business...... I am hearing that the Englishmen have sack races on school sports days - is this being it?
You are too funny!
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Steveno: There are a number of things that should be illegal for women to do when it comes to men. Number 1 should be chasing after a man.
Never do that. Ever. Ever, Ever, Ever!
If a man starts to show interest, play it cool and let him come to you. He must be hot on fire for more than having a purely physical experience, he should be burning up for you.
Furthermore, he should be the first to tell you how much he wants you, wants to get to know you, the things that he loves and desires in you and how you make him feel. This is only when you can put your guard down and actually tell him how you are feeling, if it is the same.
Men love to chase, they are not made to be chased. Chasing a man will put out his burners for you.
The hardest thing to do is to see a man that you truly desire and leave him the heck alone. You may feel like you are going mad and may need to be committed because you are in lust with him.
You cannot actually develop an emotional connection unless you begin to communicate and exchange energy with him. So don't go there. It's not actually being "in love."
Make a man come after you by pulling and pushing. Pull him in when he shows interest then push him back a bit so that his interest can continue to grow.
It's not a game, it's called smart dating.
Never do that. Ever. Ever, Ever, Ever!
If a man starts to show interest, play it cool and let him come to you. He must be hot on fire for more than having a purely physical experience, he should be burning up for you.
Furthermore, he should be the first to tell you how much he wants you, wants to get to know you, the things that he loves and desires in you and how you make him feel. This is only when you can put your guard down and actually tell him how you are feeling, if it is the same.
Men love to chase, they are not made to be chased. Chasing a man will put out his burners for you.
The hardest thing to do is to see a man that you truly desire and leave him the heck alone. You may feel like you are going mad and may need to be committed because you are in lust with him.
You cannot actually develop an emotional connection unless you begin to communicate and exchange energy with him. So don't go there. It's not actually being "in love."
Make a man come after you by pulling and pushing. Pull him in when he shows interest then push him back a bit so that his interest can continue to grow.
It's not a game, it's called smart dating.
I have done this, in my younger years. Now, things have changed and I have actually had a guy tell me that to do this today constitutes teasing. So what to do? I have emailed to see if the guy was interested in being a friend then let things go from there.
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This subject falls under the umbrella category of....damned if I do...damned if I don't!!
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The real question here is....should women do the running????
If so....how am I ever gonna get laid???
If so....how am I ever gonna get laid???
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pretzelman: The real question here is....should women do the running????If so....how am I ever gonna get laid???
They are lining up from coast to coast right now. It's that onery charm of yours. Don't worry I am blond and not likely to join that line up but I will find a few recruits for you.
Okay I have teased you on enough threads tonight I will quit.
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Dawn7z: They are lining up from coast to coast right now. It's that onery charm of yours. Don't worry I am blond and not likely to join that line up but I will find a few recruits for you.
Okay I have teased you on enough threads tonight I will quit.
Okay I have teased you on enough threads tonight I will quit.
Names!! I want names!! addresses, phone numbers e-mail addresses!!
Possibly throw in sisters names also, in case they are not home, please.
Hell at this stage of my life...throw in the father's name too. A good BJ never hurt anyone!!
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raven21: if a woman is single for 5 years...should she start 'hunting' for a man...or should she wait for her prince charming to come and get her?
Yes! By all means. Pull out all the stops!
This goes for ALL women!
I will not run away
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pretzelman: Names!! I want names!! addresses, phone numbers e-mail addresses!!Possibly throw in sisters names also, in case they are not home, please.Hell at this stage of my life...throw in the father's name too. A good BJ never hurt anyone!!
Lmao between you and the fourth bloody mary I am having a heck of a time. lol
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Dawn7z: You have a point, however most people aren't as brave as you are. lol
It doesn't take bravery to walk away from something that isn't fun. As kids, if we were bored, we'd go seeking fun elsewhere. Once puberty hit we began to listen to the people around us, to invest energy in paranoia about what everyone else was up to...
people started to invest in drama instead of enjoying the process like when we were kids.
Somewhere along the way, we made living serious and worrisome & we lost the ability to play.
Somewhere along the way, someone started telling everyone we had to completely grow up.
Now there are a bunch of paranoid people, trying to keep up with the Jones' of life instead of just having fun.
I don't see it as bravery if it's something a 3 year old does on instinct...
but then again, I still use my local playground.
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I like being chased. Chase me girls, chase me. I'll running away though...
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spiceygamble: It doesn't take bravery to walk away from something that isn't fun. As kids, if we were bored, we'd go seeking fun elsewhere. Once puberty hit we began to listen to the people around us, to invest energy in paranoia about what everyone else was up to...
people started to invest in drama instead of enjoying the process like when we were kids.
Somewhere along the way, we made living serious and worrisome & we lost the ability to play.
Somewhere along the way, someone started telling everyone we had to completely grow up.
Now there are a bunch of paranoid people, trying to keep up with the Jones' of life instead of just having fun.
I don't see it as bravery if it's something a 3 year old does on instinct...
but then again, I still use my local playground.
people started to invest in drama instead of enjoying the process like when we were kids.
Somewhere along the way, we made living serious and worrisome & we lost the ability to play.
Somewhere along the way, someone started telling everyone we had to completely grow up.
Now there are a bunch of paranoid people, trying to keep up with the Jones' of life instead of just having fun.
I don't see it as bravery if it's something a 3 year old does on instinct...
but then again, I still use my local playground.
Maybe not but it is an arena that most people are afraid of. Maybe you are not but they are afraid of getting hurt of the unknown. Men and women both.
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I need to be chased by someone who likes to be tied up
I know, it's a conundrum.
I know, it's a conundrum.
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raven21: if a woman is single for 5 years...should she start 'hunting' for a man...or should she wait for her prince charming to come and get her?
I know one thing. The men around here are so shy, you have no other option.
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