is love at first site real? (82)
I have written some thing based on things I have heard or read through out the years. It is as follows:
The current of recognition that flows between two people, when their eyes make contact at first sight.
Transcending beyond the physical of their bodies, to their Spirits within.
This is true Love.
Yet, it is greater than the Summation of parts,(the two people), combined.
It is vastly more powerful.
It is a Force connecting them to a Greater Love, and a Higher Purpose.
Thereby, creating one Soul with two Hearts.
The tying of the two through True Love, it is Unconditional and Infinite, with there being nothing to ever diminish it.
Nothing - not Illness, Hardship nor Death, for Eternity.
I was Blessed to have this with my Late Husband, before he destroyed himself and us with Drugs and Alcohol.
I know many here say that it was only lust. I say in my defense, I was far, far too naive for that and it is true.
The things, John and I felt were far too powerful. I remember meeting his eyes, on the first day of Rifle Team meeting @ College.
The shock of recognition was like a flash of Lightning, as in it is an atmospheric discharge of electricity, which typically occurs during thunderstorms, and sometimes during volcanic eruptions or dust storms.
It was so sudden and very overwhelming. Like being struck by a freight train. I remember thinking to myself, How can this BE? I don't know him, yet, I KNOW him.
Time stilled around us. A warm light encircled us. A deep warmth also caressed our hearts and souls. There was a voice in our minds telling us: This is your Mate". It seemed as if beautiful music came out of nowhere.
We were in such shock, that we were stilled. Our team mates called Coach over because they thought we were going to fall to the ground.
None of them could get our attention because we were frozen to the spot and our eyes were elsewhwere, like we were in a physical shock, is the only way to describe it, we were told.
Coach had to call us and lightly shake our arms. When we came out of it, we said what was that?
When we were told what happpened, we were kind of stunned. When we were asked what happened we said we did not know.
Coach then introduced us to each other. We shook hands and there was a very electric shock when our hands touched. The shock was so strong, it caused us to once again go trance like. Again Coach talked to us and lightly rubbed our arms until we came out of it.
Coach Lewis, told us on our Wedding Day, that what happened to us the day we met was the first time he had ever seen Love @ first sight. He had heard of it but never experienced it. He said he heard the sound of electricity when we shook hands, then when we went still, he was stunned.
He and Mrs. Lewis told us that when he told her what happened and they figurd it out, they were a little envious of us, yet because of how it effected us, they were glad they never experienced it.
I do beleive in Love at First Sight, as I experienced it. I do not expect to find it again. I don't know that I will be so Blessed more than once.
Yet, I could be wrong. I know others whom HAVE been so blessed. So I hope that, whatever Powers that be, I would be blessed this way again.
The current of recognition that flows between two people, when their eyes make contact at first sight.
Transcending beyond the physical of their bodies, to their Spirits within.
This is true Love.
Yet, it is greater than the Summation of parts,(the two people), combined.
It is vastly more powerful.
It is a Force connecting them to a Greater Love, and a Higher Purpose.
Thereby, creating one Soul with two Hearts.
The tying of the two through True Love, it is Unconditional and Infinite, with there being nothing to ever diminish it.
Nothing - not Illness, Hardship nor Death, for Eternity.
I was Blessed to have this with my Late Husband, before he destroyed himself and us with Drugs and Alcohol.
I know many here say that it was only lust. I say in my defense, I was far, far too naive for that and it is true.
The things, John and I felt were far too powerful. I remember meeting his eyes, on the first day of Rifle Team meeting @ College.
The shock of recognition was like a flash of Lightning, as in it is an atmospheric discharge of electricity, which typically occurs during thunderstorms, and sometimes during volcanic eruptions or dust storms.
It was so sudden and very overwhelming. Like being struck by a freight train. I remember thinking to myself, How can this BE? I don't know him, yet, I KNOW him.
Time stilled around us. A warm light encircled us. A deep warmth also caressed our hearts and souls. There was a voice in our minds telling us: This is your Mate". It seemed as if beautiful music came out of nowhere.
We were in such shock, that we were stilled. Our team mates called Coach over because they thought we were going to fall to the ground.
None of them could get our attention because we were frozen to the spot and our eyes were elsewhwere, like we were in a physical shock, is the only way to describe it, we were told.
Coach had to call us and lightly shake our arms. When we came out of it, we said what was that?
When we were told what happpened, we were kind of stunned. When we were asked what happened we said we did not know.
Coach then introduced us to each other. We shook hands and there was a very electric shock when our hands touched. The shock was so strong, it caused us to once again go trance like. Again Coach talked to us and lightly rubbed our arms until we came out of it.
Coach Lewis, told us on our Wedding Day, that what happened to us the day we met was the first time he had ever seen Love @ first sight. He had heard of it but never experienced it. He said he heard the sound of electricity when we shook hands, then when we went still, he was stunned.
He and Mrs. Lewis told us that when he told her what happened and they figurd it out, they were a little envious of us, yet because of how it effected us, they were glad they never experienced it.
I do beleive in Love at First Sight, as I experienced it. I do not expect to find it again. I don't know that I will be so Blessed more than once.
Yet, I could be wrong. I know others whom HAVE been so blessed. So I hope that, whatever Powers that be, I would be blessed this way again.
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Last bloke i meet, was love at first site! we spend wonderful 4 months together.after 2 months, we wanting to move into together, great at first! love him all my heart! after 4 and half months together, honeymoon period was over! no hugs and ect, he don't say :love u anymore! just push me away! by christmas, he broke up with me! we did talk about married and having kids. we still in same house, but in different rooms, i think he found out, he last ex is pregant with his child, should be born in Feb 2009. he's in England, with her for a week, he broke my heart! does love last for ever? 
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I can understand how you can see someone and say, (To yourself hopefully) "I want to bonk that person!" ... but I cannot understand how you can see someone and say, "I am going to love that person no matter what their personality is or how they relate to other people."
I don't discount luck ... and some early poster's prents had incredible luck. But LOVE. That is a much more complicated word than lust.
Still, good luck out there.
I don't discount luck ... and some early poster's prents had incredible luck. But LOVE. That is a much more complicated word than lust.
Still, good luck out there.
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Hi Maryland,
I have had all that. I do not think it can happen again.
bvgirl
I have had all that. I do not think it can happen again.
bvgirl
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Yes, ii can happen 
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i do believe in love at first site
pity it was unrequited
pity it was unrequited
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scorpiosiren: i do believe in love at first site
pity it was unrequited
Of course..I do too...I grew up watching Natalie Wood movies......pity it was unrequited
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is love at first site real?....sure
atleast till you get the new perscripsion for your new glass'
atleast till you get the new perscripsion for your new glass'
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I don't know if love at first site is real?I have dated in the past and thought once I found someone but I figured wrong.I have been hurt alot and have very little to offer but main qualities
(love,honest,caring,and devotion)
(love,honest,caring,and devotion)
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I think the first impulse is a strong attraction that grows as it is nurtured into love. But love at first sight, no. It's what dreamers and poets write about(to make money)!
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dreamAngel70: Last bloke i meet, was love at first site! we spend wonderful 4 months together.after 2 months, we wanting to move into together, great at first! love him all my heart! after 4 and half months together, honeymoon period was over! no hugs and ect, he don't say :love u anymore! just push me away! by christmas, he broke up with me! we did talk about married and having kids. we still in same house, but in different rooms, i think he found out, he last ex is pregant with his child, should be born in Feb 2009. he's in England, with her for a week, he broke my heart! does love last for ever?
That really sucks sorry you had to go through that. Dont let that ruin your perspective on men.
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dreamAngel70: Last bloke i meet, was love at first site! we spend wonderful 4 months together.after 2 months, we wanting to move into together, great at first! love him all my heart! after 4 and half months together, honeymoon period was over! no hugs and ect, he don't say :love u anymore! just push me away! by christmas, he broke up with me! we did talk about married and having kids. we still in same house, but in different rooms, i think he found out, he last ex is pregant with his child, should be born in Feb 2009. he's in England, with her for a week, he broke my heart! does love last for ever?
"....and if love never lasts forever, What's forever for?"
Country song by Michael Murphy
Sorry for your hurt!
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In response to: I have been chatting with this guy, and I met him in person, and Lord have mercy. I am praying for good sense. and I am not talking about his looks.
Love, no not at first site...but
lust...yes oh my!
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That is such great news! Isn't that feeling incredible? Enjoy it.
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pubwrite08: I have been chatting with this guy, and I met him in person, and Lord have mercy. I am praying for good sense. and I am not talking about his looks.
AWESOME! That gives others hope. You go girl!
Cheers;
Mark
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nope, but lust is.
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I have to agree with that. True love developes over time but the first sparks.....you can feel that happen right away.
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She only wants him for his money. Not his hot heaving sweating muscular being.