LACaliSouthern California, California USA936 posts
25 years ago I fell in love with someone the moment I saw him (I still remember the day so clearly even though I can't remember what I did last week.) He with me as well. It lasted a very long time. So I do believe. I don't know what it is since it wasn't purely physical nor was it lust. I have no explanation just that it does happen.
kissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada15,139 posts
BarrenPneuma: Lust is about me Love is about you. Say that out loud and you will clearly define the two and see the polar differences.
You can never truly know anyone else, not even your own children. So how is it possible or required to know someone to Love them? What is in a person's heart and mind are often different things and we have little ability to manage to dump the contents of our own heads out in words or feelings, never mind the translational problems of interpretting the heart and soul. Love at first sight is possible and very real. Have a little faith it is the precursor to trust and an imperative to Love.
Love does not require a reciprocal it merely is. When you demand to have it returned it never was Love in the first place.
pubwrite08: I have been chatting with this guy, and I met him in person, and Lord have mercy. I am praying for good sense. and I am not talking about his looks.
I personally don’t believe in love at first sight, I do believe in lust at first sight. I think just seeing someone you can feel drawn to them and want to kiss them right there or maybe more, but that’s lust not love, love is much deeper.
think you can love the visual image on first site, but it's the person inside that's important. I have met some good looking guy's but they have been superficial and complete a**hole's once i've got to know them
Shadow_lover: I personally don’t believe in love at first sight, I do believe in lust at first sight. I think just seeing someone you can feel drawn to them and want to kiss them right there or maybe more, but that’s lust not love, love is much deeper.
I agree with this. 100% Love must grown. Lust can be instantaneous. And often has been.
BarrenPneuma: Lust is about me Love is about you. Say that out loud and you will clearly define the two and see the polar differences.
You can never truly know anyone else, not even your own children. So how is it possible or required to know someone to Love them? What is in a person's heart and mind are often different things and we have little ability to manage to dump the contents of our own heads out in words or feelings, never mind the translational problems of interpretting the heart and soul. Love at first sight is possible and very real. Have a little faith it is the precursor to trust and an imperative to Love.
Love does not require a reciprocal it merely is. When you demand to have it returned it never was Love in the first place.
I may not agree 100% with what you write, Mark, but I do love to read it. I'll be glad when you're back, my friend.
babymiloWollongong, New South Wales Australia64 posts
pubwrite08: I have been chatting with this guy, and I met him in person, and Lord have mercy. I am praying for good sense. and I am not talking about his looks.
I think the translation might be praying for lots of cents ( 1 cent pieces) or $. The Lord was so jealous because he was a hunk.
She only wants him for his money. Not his hot heaving sweating muscular being.
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But i dont think if love at first site is real.