Maybe its just me, maybe its just because I feel a little sad today, but do you ever feel..................invisible? Like no one sees you? I'm not asking for pity here as when I feel like this I can usually drag myself out of it eventually. I'm just wondering what you all do when you feel like this?
highplainsHighland Springs, Virginia USA4,288 posts
I MAN up.....and stop feeling sorry for myself. Life is for living. If you are feeling invisible it's because you are, bro. Put yourself out there, be Highly Visible. Having a pity party for yourself won't change it. You get out of life what you put into life. You wanna not be invisible. Get off your behind and get it out there, out where you will be noticed. Keep dancing when the music stops. Introduce yourself to strangers. Better yet, know no strangers. You'll be amazed at how quickly your feeling of invisibility erodes.
catwmSomewhere in the middle, Florida USA6,683 posts
I have days like this. After all the negative things lately, I just feel a little down for some reason.
Tired of people getting hurt and others leaving for wrong reasons.
Just got back from the doctor myself, sometimes things just get you down a little. I try to think about all the people out there that have problems that are far worse than mine ( mine then pale insignificantly ) and it picks me up.
Peter we don't need to "see" you to remember you are there...sometimes its the simple words to give to us and share with us reminds of you constantly...so be assured you are always in our thoughts...and an important contributor to this forum!
We all have something to contribute in here ...somedays might be better to just sit back and observe ,read and and have a good laugh Other days voice your opinion but never feel invisible for there is always someone who notices us
Must have been my time of the month yesterday cause everything seemed out of wack and I was sure visible
I know what you mean I too often feel invisibale and am not sure what to do about it all. I want to have friends but it seems as if no one talks to me for very long though I am not sure why. Or at least here on CS. Maybe someday everyone will wake up and I will no longer be invisible to you all. I am a wonderful and caring person who is lonley and looking for friends. Kat
SirenLydiaBury St Edmunds, Suffolk, England UK4,138 posts
Sometimes it is good to be invisible and sit back and watch and maybe recharge. Especially when the forums are in uproar! Quiet reflective time is good for my soul sometimes.
Kat, I'll be your friend. I went most of my life living a really sheltered life and I also don't have friends.... Umm.. Well seriously I dont, not even offline.. Well I mean I have a friend but she isn't really a good friend.. She slept with my ex boyfriend while I was still dating him.
Not to W-O-R-R-Y Kuza, alot of us feel this way from time to time......it will pass as you say. But you are not alone on this. Speaking for myself, I get like that also from time to time. You have to just go with the flow and figure "oh,well" it will get better, and it will get better. I know sometimes I will talk to people , be it at work or what ever and it is like they don't see nor hear you, but they are also probably in a daze.
Not to Worry and have a good day and eve.......Maryanna
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