Chronic late commers are you one of them? I am always early! Why can't you? ( Archived) (53)

Feb 4, 2009 5:57 PM CST Chronic late commers are you one of them? I am always early! Why can't you?
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
Is your time more precious than mine?


That's what this thread is about. Chronic late commers

To me, it is showing basic courtesy and respect to the person you're meeting up with.

More often than not, these late comers or no showers are usually the same few people. Have you ever thought, the person waiting for you, could also have spent the time doing more meaningful things than waiting for you?



Actually it shows a lot about the person's character when he is CONSTANTLY late (once or twice is ok one)

so for that matter his image suffers. guys will lose points with the girls when he is late and vice versa... i mean... if i were interested in a girl and she's ALWAYS late.. its kinda a turn off for me... imagine IF next time get together then all the time late... i will die lah!

but what is saddening is when you have a close friend turn out to be a latecomer... very sian feeling one... like disappointed but still...



Oh about time someone actually thinks the same way I do about being early.
Will you educate my friends for me haha, I'm so tempted to give names here :)



YES! I don't like waiting for friends. :mad:
It just gives me a feeling that her time is more precious than mine and i can afford to waste that few minutes (okz, maybe not few minutes.. its like half hour?) to wait for her since my time is not as precious?!


frustrated frustrated frustrated
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Feb 4, 2009 6:01 PM CST Chronic late commers are you one of them? I am always early! Why can't you?
loves2steppin
loves2steppinloves2steppinConcord, New Hampshire USA20 Threads 1,729 Posts
I can relate to this...have a gf at least 1/2 hr late if not more. Me...I am usually a couple minutes early but always on time....with her though...I know better that to hang about.....
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Feb 4, 2009 6:02 PM CST Chronic late commers are you one of them? I am always early! Why can't you?
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
I am always early or right on time. If I'm late there's a good reason for it, and I usually call then. Yes, those who are chronically late irritate me because I feel it is a disrespectful habit.

wine
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Feb 4, 2009 6:07 PM CST Chronic late commers are you one of them? I am always early! Why can't you?
Jan1305
Jan1305Jan1305Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain170 Threads 5,319 Posts
Well I always try my best to be on time, but it is a cultural thing you know.

Here in Spain nobody arrives on time. I often wait for friends and other people in a professional situation. There seems to be an allowable flexibility in the arranged meeting time. Professional, 15 minutes max, friends, 20 - 30 minutes.

I hated it initially, but now I´m used to it. It has nothing at all to do with bad manners.
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Feb 4, 2009 6:07 PM CST Chronic late commers are you one of them? I am always early! Why can't you?
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
loves2steppin: I can relate to this...have a gf at least 1/2 hr late if not more. Me...I am usually a couple minutes early but always on time....with her though...I know better that to hang about.....


I know some people knowing how their friends are, book a 1/2 hour or hour later than planned.
I wait about 15 like in a restaurant, not there? Bye bye, see you!
This applies of course only to the people who's bad habits you know. The chronic late commers.
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Feb 4, 2009 6:07 PM CST Chronic late commers are you one of them? I am always early! Why can't you?
sambhava
sambhavasambhavaVasteras, Vastmanland Sweden3 Threads 1 Polls 584 Posts
I was late every single day for three years at my school apart from one day when I didn't go to sleep and got there two hours too early (AND I got hit for it most days!). Can anyone beat that?
hollandgirl: Is your time more precious than mine?


That's what this thread is about. Chronic late commers

To me, it is showing basic courtesy and respect to the person you're meeting up with.

More often than not, these late comers or no showers are usually the same few people. Have you ever thought, the person waiting for you, could also have spent the time doing more meaningful things than waiting for you?



Actually it shows a lot about the person's character when he is CONSTANTLY late (once or twice is ok one)

so for that matter his image suffers. guys will lose points with the girls when he is late and vice versa... i mean... if i were interested in a girl and she's ALWAYS late.. its kinda a turn off for me... imagine IF next time get together then all the time late... i will die lah!

but what is saddening is when you have a close friend turn out to be a latecomer... very sian feeling one... like disappointed but still...



Oh about time someone actually thinks the same way I do about being early.
Will you educate my friends for me haha, I'm so tempted to give names here :)



YES! I don't like waiting for friends. :mad:
It just gives me a feeling that her time is more precious than mine and i can afford to waste that few minutes (okz, maybe not few minutes.. its like half hour?) to wait for her since my time is not as precious?!
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Feb 4, 2009 6:12 PM CST Chronic late commers are you one of them? I am always early! Why can't you?
mike69spain
mike69spainmike69spainAlmuñécar, Andalusia Spain34 Threads 6 Polls 4,110 Posts
I never come too early grin
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Feb 4, 2009 6:14 PM CST Chronic late commers are you one of them? I am always early! Why can't you?
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
druidess6308: I am always early or right on time. If I'm late there's a good reason for it, and I usually call then. Yes, those who are chronically late irritate me because I feel it is a disrespectful habit.


So it is Drui, plan ahead of what to do, what to wear etc!
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Feb 4, 2009 6:16 PM CST Chronic late commers are you one of them? I am always early! Why can't you?
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
Well sorry Jan it is not like that here.
Besides knowing everyone is late and you are too meet at 4 o'clock, you just all be late then. doh
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Feb 4, 2009 6:17 PM CST Chronic late commers are you one of them? I am always early! Why can't you?
llfrfgt
llfrfgtllfrfgtmichigan, Michigan USA4 Threads 485 Posts
im an early bird, i agree with you.
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Feb 4, 2009 6:18 PM CST Chronic late commers are you one of them? I am always early! Why can't you?
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
Are you waiting for me to now give you your "diploma?"
It ain't gone happen wave
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Feb 4, 2009 6:19 PM CST Chronic late commers are you one of them? I am always early! Why can't you?
Jan1305
Jan1305Jan1305Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain170 Threads 5,319 Posts
hollandgirl: Well sorry Jan it is not like that here.
Besides knowing everyone is late and you are too meet at 4 o'clock, you just all be late then.


confused Eh? Sorry, I teach English, but I have no idea what your second sentence means!
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Feb 4, 2009 6:21 PM CST Chronic late commers are you one of them? I am always early! Why can't you?
pretzelman
pretzelmanpretzelmanLas Vegas, Nevada USA43 Threads 1 Polls 2,956 Posts
Hallelujah...praise the Lord, Thank-you, Jesus. I t-totally agree. Be on time...or be absent.

One of my ex-wives was always late. I hated to show up at church late. One day I said the next time you are late...I am leaving without you. She called my bluff! I made it to church on time and she was absent! It took about four more episodes for her to get the hint. But I was never late again
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Feb 4, 2009 6:23 PM CST Chronic late commers are you one of them? I am always early! Why can't you?
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
Cannot stand people who are late. I think it's bloody rude too be honest.
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Feb 4, 2009 6:23 PM CST Chronic late commers are you one of them? I am always early! Why can't you?
llfrfgt
llfrfgtllfrfgtmichigan, Michigan USA4 Threads 485 Posts
hollandgirl: Are you waiting for me to now give you your "diploma?"
It ain't gone happen


im often critisized for being early, so maybe i am due a gold star, a diploma or even a cookie.dunno
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Feb 4, 2009 6:27 PM CST Chronic late commers are you one of them? I am always early! Why can't you?
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
mike69spain: I never come too early


Took your number guy Busted! sir bobby
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Feb 4, 2009 6:28 PM CST Chronic late commers are you one of them? I am always early! Why can't you?
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
llfrfgt: im an early bird, i agree with you.


thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up cheering Good man!
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Feb 4, 2009 6:44 PM CST Chronic late commers are you one of them? I am always early! Why can't you?
WhoamI
WhoamIWhoamIsmithville, New Jersey USA101 Posts
druidess6308: I am always early or right on time. If I'm late there's a good reason for it, and I usually call then. Yes, those who are chronically late irritate me because I feel it is a disrespectful habit.
Exactly...thumbs up
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Feb 4, 2009 6:46 PM CST Chronic late commers are you one of them? I am always early! Why can't you?
Jan1305
Jan1305Jan1305Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain170 Threads 5,319 Posts
llfrfgt: im often critisized for being early, so maybe i am due a gold star, a diploma or even a cookie.


If you were in Spain you´d be rather silly and pissed off for waiting around so long!

wave
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Feb 4, 2009 7:35 PM CST Chronic late commers are you one of them? I am always early! Why can't you?
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
Jan1305: Eh? Sorry, I teach English, but I have no idea what your second sentence means!


Hey I am an "import" so have a bit of an excuse. Lol
Okay translated I meant.
When you know the habits of your friends and you say let's meet at 4 o'clock you know, none will show up until 4.30 so you all come at 4.30 rolling on the floor laughing comfort
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