HJFinAZ: It's more important to feel happy about who I am than who I think I should be.
Pat as you know I was a total mess when I first came on this site 7 months ago and was still grieving my late husband. I was so naive.I was also scared to stick up for myself and was always trying to please everyone in how I acted and how I dressed etc.
Well because of what you said to me and in the last few months I did alot of growing up and maturing, finally doing things for ME,and only caring that it made ME happy.It took alot of realizing on my part to see that I have to live for me and everyone else has to live for themselves,so I shouldn't be bothered if they have a problem with me or not. Because that's their life, and doesn't affect me. I've learned to be happy with who I've become like in how I dress,act etc cause I no longer have to be any other way for someone else other than myself.
somechick: Pat as you know I was a total mess when I first came on this site 7 months ago and was still grieving my late husband. I was so naive.I was also scared to stick up for myself and was always trying to please everyone in how I acted and how I dressed etc.
Well because of what you said to me and in the last few months I did alot of growing up and maturing, finally doing things for ME,and only caring that it made ME happy.It took alot of realizing on my part to see that I have to live for me and everyone else has to live for themselves,so I shouldn't be bothered if they have a problem with me or not. Because that's their life, and doesn't affect me. I've learned to be happy with who I've become like in how I dress,act etc cause I no longer have to be any other way for someone else other than myself.
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than who I think I should be.