Who are you really. I think most of us have different personalitys that can change in a second. When you first meet someone. Hi maybe a flirt or a more serious How are you. After we get to know them and we relax we change again in our demeanor. Once you move in together you change again. Maybe more controlling maybe passive but things do change. After the divorce, because you can't live with someone that wants to control you all the time. Change in your personality comes again. No one loves me. Some become weaker some stronger. I think we all play the personality game. OK who is up front today which personality will you use to reply. You are meeting me for the first time. Will you show the real you or another side.
gooddogman: Who are you really. I think most of us have different personalitys that can change in a second. When you first meet someone. Hi maybe a flirt or a more serious How are you. After we get to know them and we relax we change again in our demeanor. Once you move in together you change again. Maybe more controlling maybe passive but things do change. After the divorce, because you can't live with someone that wants to control you all the time. Change in your personality comes again. No one loves me. Some become weaker some stronger. I think we all play the personality game. OK who is up front today which personality will you use to reply. You are meeting me for the first time. Will you show the real you or another side.
I have 3 personalities: me, myself and I. ROFL!
Okay, now for being serious. I'm reserved until I get to know you some. Then I show a little more of myself as time goes on. THEN there's no more holding back! I'm just me! Flaws and all! Like it or leave it!
hopefloats: I have 3 personalities: me, myself and I. ROFL! Okay, now for being serious. I'm reserved until I get to know you some. Then I show a little more of myself as time goes on. THEN there's no more holding back! I'm just me! Flaws and all! Like it or leave it!
Merky
The love of my life seems to appreciate all my bad points - I keep any good points well hidden away!
slim1977my heart will always be in, Tennessee USA943 posts
I think wether they admit it or not all guys go the extra mile when we are dating a woman. then we tend to get mor comfertable (sp) as we know them more. the chalange in a relationship is to keep that spark that you had when you first met, that somthing about them that you couldnt live without. keep that in your heart and you will stand the test of time.
as for the rest of it. I am me, today, tomarow and forever. if you dont like me I am truly sorry, but I dont change who I am for anyone, but myself, to be a better person
gooddogman: Who are you really. I think most of us have different personalitys that can change in a second. When you first meet someone. Hi maybe a flirt or a more serious How are you. After we get to know them and we relax we change again in our demeanor. Once you move in together you change again. Maybe more controlling maybe passive but things do change. After the divorce, because you can't live with someone that wants to control you all the time. Change in your personality comes again. No one loves me. Some become weaker some stronger. I think we all play the personality game. OK who is up front today which personality will you use to reply. You are meeting me for the first time. Will you show the real you or another side.
I don't have multiple personalities...what you see on here is who I am. I am a bit shy at first when I meet someone, but still basically act the same. The shyness doesn't tend to show much on the outside...which is why so many people have a hard time believing how shy I really am inside.
The only changes in personality I've ever had were because of being in an emotionally and psychologically abusive marriage, and I didn't take the time to recover before going into my next one, so I ended up in one again when he became that way after we got married. Yes, prior to that he'd fooled everyone, and done so well enough that a 25-yr friendship ended with that divorce as well. As I rallied my strength and recovered my self esteem, and prepared to leave, I did undergo a change that was visible to others...and it is the me you see here that grew out of that.
This friend of mine, now dead, went to a block of appartments to visit a client. At the front of the building he heard a cry and looked up and saw something falling towards him. It was a glass eye! He looked up and saw this woman frantically waving and made a mental note of where she lived.
He visited his client and then knocked on this lady's door. She invited him in and was VERY grateful..... so grateful in fact that they ended up in bed!
He was a little shocked afterwards and asked her if this happened to all salesmen who knocked on her door.
'Heck no' she replied
'It's just you caught my eye!'
I think I told this one before - so what, I like it!
livinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland5,879 posts
druidess6308: I don't have multiple personalities...what you see on here is who I am. I am a bit shy at first when I meet someone, but still basically act the same. The shyness doesn't tend to show much on the outside...which is why so many people have a hard time believing how shy I really am inside.
The only changes in personality I've ever had were because of being in an emotionally and psychologically abusive marriage, and I didn't take the time to recover before going into my next one, so I ended up in one again when he became that way after we got married. Yes, prior to that he'd fooled everyone, and done so well enough that a 25-yr friendship ended with that divorce as well. As I rallied my strength and recovered my self esteem, and prepared to leave, I did undergo a change that was visible to others...and it is the me you see here that grew out of that.
slim1977: I think wether they admit it or not all guys go the extra mile when we are dating a woman. then we tend to get mor comfertable (sp) as we know them more. the chalange in a relationship is to keep that spark that you had when you first met, that somthing about them that you couldnt live without. keep that in your heart and you will stand the test of time.
as for the rest of it. I am me, today, tomarow and forever. if you dont like me I am truly sorry, but I dont change who I am for anyone, but myself, to be a better person
gooddogman: Who are you really. I think most of us have different personalitys that can change in a second. When you first meet someone. Hi maybe a flirt or a more serious How are you. After we get to know them and we relax we change again in our demeanor. Once you move in together you change again. Maybe more controlling maybe passive but things do change. After the divorce, because you can't live with someone that wants to control you all the time. Change in your personality comes again. No one loves me. Some become weaker some stronger. I think we all play the personality game. OK who is up front today which personality will you use to reply. You are meeting me for the first time. Will you show the real you or another side.
I'm the very same crazy woman in real life as I am on the site.
Even if I'm upset about something or with someone I'm no different. Not to much bothers me anymore. Why sweat the small stuff.But I'm very outspoken and I have no problem telling someone what train to take and what track to get off on.In other words they know exactly where they stand with me.I either like someone or I don't and let them know right up front.
People either accept me for who I am or not at all cause I've gotten to the point that frankly I don't give a hoot anymore who likes me or who doesn't.It's their lose and probably my gain.
Well my doctor has told me their are 8 on record to date and we have a class once a week to see if we can all just get along... It is a very small area for all of them to live..
In response to: Who are you really. I think most of us have different personalitys that can change in a second. When you first meet someone. Hi maybe a flirt or a more serious How are you. After we get to know them and we relax we change again in our demeanor. Once you move in together you change again. Maybe more controlling maybe passive but things do change. After the divorce, because you can't live with someone that wants to control you all the time. Change in your personality comes again. No one loves me. Some become weaker some stronger. I think we all play the personality game. OK who is up front today which personality will you use to reply. You are meeting me for the first time. Will you show the real you or another side.
"I have a personality that,I hope people will like. I love to make others smile,if not laugh.I've always been the type of person to put others first;always have. I feel that I'm an outgoing woman;I try not to take life too seriously.But,there are times when I have to be serious about my life;where I want it to go and what I want out of it. Whenever I see someone in need,be it physically or emotionally, I stand up for that person,even if he's a total stranger. I don't expect everyone to like me but,I like who I am and, that's what keeps me happy....being me."
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Once you move in together you change again. Maybe more controlling maybe passive but things do change. After the divorce, because you can't live with someone that wants to control you all the time. Change in your personality comes again.
No one loves me. Some become weaker some stronger. I think we all play the personality game. OK who is up front today which personality will you use to reply. You are meeting me for the first time. Will you show the real you or another side.