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Feb 19, 2009 7:37 AM CST New to this
Easysng41
Easysng41Easysng41Woburn, Massachusetts USA1 Threads 2 Posts
Hello, I have been with the same women for over 10 years. I never thought I would be dating again. The problem is I do not know how to do this. I know that I am a great person. I know that I have a lot to offer someone. I know this can be a great thing. What I don't know is what I am doing.
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Feb 19, 2009 7:39 AM CST New to this
buzzy
buzzybuzzybiddeford, Maine USA24 Threads 1,492 Posts
A pic would help. How long have you been single?
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Feb 19, 2009 7:49 AM CST New to this
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
Easysng41: Hello, I have been with the same women for over 10 years. I never thought I would be dating again. The problem is I do not know how to do this. I know that I am a great person. I know that I have a lot to offer someone. I know this can be a great thing. What I don't know is what I am doing.



You were not the only one! laugh doh
Don't make a big ordeal out of not knowing what to or how to do it. Just be yourself. Socialize. And get to know others. Being active here in the forums is the best route to go vs. searching through profiles. As Buzzy mentioned, put up a picture. You will get noticed sooner rather than later. Good luck in your endeavor! handshake
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Feb 19, 2009 7:50 AM CST New to this
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
Easysng41: Hello, I have been with the same women for over 10 years. I never thought I would be dating again. The problem is I do not know how to do this. I know that I am a great person. I know that I have a lot to offer someone. I know this can be a great thing. What I don't know is what I am doing.


Welcome to the world of online dating. None of us do at first, Easy, honestly. Just hang out in forums for a bit and get to know people, and be yourself. Welcome.

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Feb 19, 2009 7:55 AM CST New to this
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
"Welcome.For me,the forums was a great way to socialize and to
get to know people.I wish you luck in your search;have fun
in the forums,there are very nice people here."




wave
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Feb 20, 2009 8:17 AM CST New to this
lonelyStorm
lonelyStormlonelyStormVictoria. BC, British Columbia Canada1 Threads 4 Posts
You can get some nice pictures that will also help alot.
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Feb 20, 2009 8:23 AM CST New to this
jessejess47
jessejess47jessejess47ogdensburg, New York USA35 Threads 1 Polls 3,886 Posts
Easysng41: Hello, I have been with the same women for over 10 years. I never thought I would be dating again. The problem is I do not know how to do this. I know that I am a great person. I know that I have a lot to offer someone. I know this can be a great thing. What I don't know is what I am doing.
You should fit right in here just fine
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Feb 22, 2009 8:16 AM CST New to this
paulaner123456
paulaner123456paulaner123456Dublin, Ireland5 Threads 1 Polls 92 Posts
In response to: Hello, I have been with the same women for over 10 years. I never thought I would be dating again. The problem is I do not know how to do this. I know that I am a great person. I know that I have a lot to offer someone. I know this can be a great thing. What I don't know is what I am doing.
Hi, welcome to CS.
See bolded. Just be yourself.head banger
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Feb 22, 2009 8:18 AM CST New to this
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland24 Threads 6,371 Posts
Hi and welcome

wave

Just relax and join in.
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Feb 22, 2009 8:20 AM CST New to this
Tamarin
TamarinTamarinsomewhere, Lothian, Scotland UK173 Threads 1 Polls 3,267 Posts
Easysng41: Hello, I have been with the same women for over 10 years. I never thought I would be dating again. The problem is I do not know how to do this. I know that I am a great person. I know that I have a lot to offer someone. I know this can be a great thing. What I don't know is what I am doing.


Hi....Scary isn't it after being with the same person for so long...

Lots will understand here.wave
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Feb 22, 2009 9:15 AM CST New to this
dolphin1
dolphin1dolphin1Chester, Cheshire, England UK2 Threads 310 Posts
welcome to the site - you will make lots of friends ....cheers
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Feb 22, 2009 9:47 AM CST New to this
KrazieStill
KrazieStillKrazieStillChardon, Ohio USA13 Threads 3,978 Posts
Not sure why a pic is important, probably a thread or two on the topic itself may answer that but it's a fact. Put up a pic because women want to see who they're talking to. Same works for guys, makes it more personal. Good luck and welcome.wave
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Feb 22, 2009 11:03 AM CST New to this
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
Welcome...wave
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Feb 22, 2009 11:16 AM CST New to this
Crystalpistol2
Crystalpistol2Crystalpistol2La Grange Park, Illinois USA21 Threads 383 Posts
As the wise ones above me have said, post a pic and post in the forums. Be yourself and it gets easier with time.

Beware of the scammers who want you to chat on yahoo.

Welcome and good luck.
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Feb 22, 2009 11:22 AM CST New to this
Shirley49WV
Shirley49WVShirley49WVMason, West Virginia USA27 Threads 2,449 Posts
Welcome to the forums wave

Just start posting and answering and you will do fine.
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Feb 22, 2009 11:26 AM CST New to this
roseofsharon
roseofsharonroseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK60 Threads 3 Polls 8,699 Posts
Easysng41: Hello, I have been with the same women for over 10 years. I never thought I would be dating again. The problem is I do not know how to do this. I know that I am a great person. I know that I have a lot to offer someone. I know this can be a great thing. What I don't know is what I am doing.


We've all been new to this at some point, my friend. Read the Forum rules, of course, but if there's still something you are not clear on, just ask, yeah?

Welcome.... good to have you here! wave
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Feb 22, 2009 11:27 AM CST New to this
Riviera
RivieraRivieraTouring the UK, Shetland Islands, Scotland UK1 Threads 49 Posts
Hi,
Join the club....handshake beer
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Feb 22, 2009 11:30 AM CST New to this
slim1977
slim1977slim1977my heart will always be in, Tennessee USA16 Threads 943 Posts
Easysng41: Hello, I have been with the same women for over 10 years. I never thought I would be dating again. The problem is I do not know how to do this. I know that I am a great person. I know that I have a lot to offer someone. I know this can be a great thing. What I don't know is what I am doing.



the simple quick answer......... be yourself. be active in the forums, I know it is scary getting back into it after so long but trust me its worthwhile grin
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Feb 22, 2009 12:30 PM CST New to this
Girl_Next_Door68
Girl_Next_Door68Girl_Next_Door68lockport, Illinois USA5 Posts
Hi wave and welcome. I'm new to this site as well, but not new to the online dating thing. For me a pic is important because I do want to see who I am talking to is you plan on just being friends. For dating purposes, the initial chemistry must be there at least for me. Also, I just posted last night and everyone on the forums has been really great and supportive.hug
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Feb 24, 2009 9:02 PM CST New to this
Easysng41
Easysng41Easysng41Woburn, Massachusetts USA1 Threads 2 Posts
Wow I did not think anyone would look at this. Thank you all for your kind words and advise. I think i am afraid if I put my picture up I would be overwelmed. Maybe soon. Thanks Again
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