Would you still want me ? ( Archived) (99)

Yes but I am getting married now...I have to change my wicked wayssssssssss.....

No, it wouldn't matter to me, I am not particularly materialistic by nature.

There have been times in my life when I have had a lot and other times whereby I have had virtually nothing. I have adapted adequately to any given circumstance that has been thrust upon me and can do without if need be.

There are many things in life one can enjoy or appreciate without having much. Example: the other day I was in a shop as it was approaching dusk. I was surrounded by many people and out of the window, on the horizon, was the most amazing sunset. A multitude of vibrant colours, and in places looked like the earth was on fire! I remarked about how spectacular the sky looked and, from the assistant and others around me, was met with a "huhh?" and some funny looks.......

How sad is that?

I too was born with nothing , had the jag the house the lot now she has them and shes welcome to them lol , i still have a love for life the ability to raise my own food and the thing she cant get from me is I am a nice person and intelligent so on the material side of things you can keep it lol poverty only exists for the greedy people in life

I never look at a person's wealth in material things, to me its about the person they are.......I got an email for a man on cs saying that women here are into lookin at how big a wallet he had, I told him dont paint all of us with the same brush. To me it more about how big a heart he has than how big his wallet is.....


I know money could never buy me as i am priceless..... now i am jokin

I'm not going to lie, I wouldn't want to live on the verge of extreme poverty. I dont consider myself materialistic, I have the basics without going to extreme. I drive a simple car, I have a house just big enough for my family and I struggle to make ends meet. I make a decent living but support 3 kids on my own. Living in poverty doesn't seem that appealing to me, but that is just me.

I don't need the island in the Carribean but I do need some sense that I can provide the basics to my family. Is that wrong?

You've choosen a path very few would even consider,,,I commend you,,the simplier life seems so much more comforting,,,I'm not sure I could do it. We are creatures of stress

Only poor people talk about money not bringing happines. No one really cares if you have money or not. Women no longer need men to look after them, we work our own money and many women make a lot more than most men.
Life is what you make it. If you contact women first instead of waiting for them to chase you your experience will be more fulfilling. A lot of women don't contact men, they like for men to write to them first.
Try being proactive and stop complaining it is not an attractive quality

I agree with some of the comments made here.

While money doesn't buy true happiness. We do need enough to provide for our family and have the necessities. While poverty is something I wouldn't "volunteer" for, I may not have much wealth materialistically, but I have unseen riches within.

Best wishes to you Paws in your endeavor to find a truly special lady that will love you for you and not what you have or lack thereof.