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wildorchid14limerick, Limerick Ireland1 Threads 1 PostsIv been on and off here quite a bit and cant seem to find somebody to click with.. beginning to think the phrase""theres somebody out there for everyone"" is pure crap. Iv met a few nice guys dont get me wrong i justseem to not get past a few dates!! some advice would be greatly appreciated.. thank u :-)
wildorchid14: Iv been on and off here quite a bit and cant seem to find somebody to click with.. beginning to think the phrase""theres somebody out there for everyone"" is pure crap. Iv met a few nice guys dont get me wrong i justseem to not get past a few dates!! some advice would be greatly appreciated.. thank u :-)
Only advice is just be yourself never pretend to be someone your not,
Don't chase ,don't be sounding desperate to settle down or needy they will smell that a mile off,
Basically just have fun and enjoy come what may not everything is meant to be forever just enjoy in the moment and never compromise yourself in choosing to just go along with what he wants,
Take it Easey give things time to breathe and sometimes the things your not chasing after may come unexpectingly,
If everything went pt our way or the way we want things all the time thete be no challenge and whete would the mystery and fun be in that,
wildorchid14: Iv been on and off here quite a bit and cant seem to find somebody to click with.. beginning to think the phrase""theres somebody out there for everyone"" is pure crap. Iv met a few nice guys dont get me wrong i justseem to not get past a few dates!! some advice would be greatly appreciated.. thank u :-)
Don't be holding your breath on here, is my advice. Sure, some nice guys - whether or not they are into "forever" dates is another story...
This is a place where other singles can come for moral support that they aren't the only ones left on the shelf
wildorchid14: Iv been on and off here quite a bit and cant seem to find somebody to click with.. beginning to think the phrase""theres somebody out there for everyone"" is pure crap. Iv met a few nice guys dont get me wrong i justseem to not get past a few dates!! some advice would be greatly appreciated.. thank u :-)
you need to start putting out more..flash the gash and all that jazz..fellas love that
wildorchid14: Iv been on and off here quite a bit and cant seem to find somebody to click with.. beginning to think the phrase""theres somebody out there for everyone"" is pure crap. Iv met a few nice guys dont get me wrong i justseem to not get past a few dates!! some advice would be greatly appreciated.. thank u :-)
Enjoy the here and now.
If you go on a date, enjoy that date for what it is.
Don't always thinking long term.
All long-term relationships started with just one enjoyable date.
Enjoy!
wildorchid14: Iv been on and off here quite a bit and cant seem to find somebody to click with.. beginning to think the phrase""theres somebody out there for everyone"" is pure crap. Iv met a few nice guys dont get me wrong i justseem to not get past a few dates!! some advice would be greatly appreciated.. thank u :-)
I think your right its hard to find somebody permant most girls I find don't even know what there looking for and are often coming from strange circumstances like fella trouble or house trouble everybody seems to have some big problem good luck to you you need lotsKeep your expectations here sensibly low, a large number of men just want an easy lay, and where better to find it than a free and pretty much unregulated dating site....
there are some success stories (im one of them) but these come out of the left field, that is to say, they were unexpected turns for the good... some say, 'love finds you' and not the other way round, I'd say, add this place as part of your dating 'tool kit', but keep up out there ITRW...
Good luck and i hope the good stuff comes your way in due course...
there are some success stories (im one of them) but these come out of the left field, that is to say, they were unexpected turns for the good... some say, 'love finds you' and not the other way round, I'd say, add this place as part of your dating 'tool kit', but keep up out there ITRW...
Good luck and i hope the good stuff comes your way in due course...
johnjjm: I think your right its hard to find somebody permant most girls I find don't even know what there looking for and are often coming from strange circumstances like fella trouble or house trouble everybody seems to have some big problem good luck to you you need lots
Lot of issues in tissues with a lot of folk on here - not all, but a lot.
I was talking to one lovely guy - looked and sounded most promising, then out of left field, he said he didn't think he was yet in the right place to think about dating again (!), and wished me well before deleting his profile lol
So yes, lots of troubled souls about...
henonpause: Lot of issues in tissues with a lot of folk on here - not all, but a lot.
I was talking to one lovely guy - looked and sounded most promising, then out of left field, he said he didn't think he was yet in the right place to think about dating again (!), and wished me well before deleting his profile lol
So yes, lots of troubled souls about...
yes a shock to me the circumstances in which people live and the stress there under have not met one person who has no problems I mean if been lonely is a problem then I have a problem .but theres terrible strain on some people with bills and houses . I do pity them but sure what can I doI was talking to one lovely guy - looked and sounded most promising, then out of left field, he said he didn't think he was yet in the right place to think about dating again (!), and wished me well before deleting his profile lol
So yes, lots of troubled souls about...
johnjjm: yes a shock to me the circumstances in which people live and the stress there under have not met one person who has no problems I mean if been lonely is a problem then I have a problem .but theres terrible strain on some people with bills and houses . I do pity them but sure what can I do
Just tell those types to shut their cake holes,
,And ask em out for a cupa and then say that's if you can afford it,
Many people join dating sites before they are ready to date.
They should sort their heads first, get in a positive frame of mind As otherwise, any relationship is doomed to failure
They should sort their heads first, get in a positive frame of mind As otherwise, any relationship is doomed to failure
peachmelba: Just tell those types to shut their cake holes,
,And ask em out for a cupa and then say that's if you can afford it,
,And ask em out for a cupa and then say that's if you can afford it,
I met a man once I couldn't wait to get away,
Bitter out was written all all his face and his attitude was he was just out to say wam bang thankyou mam,
Haha never in a million years , I was right to act on my instincts and make my excuses and leave,
He wasn't an ugly man but his expression on his face was,,
Not all like that I know was just one experience I'd rather not experience again ,,some people are just not nice whether no issues over their ex or not,.
Sometimes the issue is them but they just never realise it.
johnjjm: yes a shock to me the circumstances in which people live and the stress there under have not met one person who has no problems I mean if been lonely is a problem then I have a problem .but theres terrible strain on some people with bills and houses . I do pity them but sure what can I do
Sometimes just listen and giving some encouragement can help.
I do find it sad that some people don't have someone they can turn to in their immediate surroundings.
wildorchid14: Iv been on and off here quite a bit and cant seem to find somebody to click with.. beginning to think the phrase""theres somebody out there for everyone"" is pure crap. Iv met a few nice guys dont get me wrong i justseem to not get past a few dates!! some advice would be greatly appreciated.. thank u :-)
If something doesn't work for you, try something else. What worked for you in the past regarding meeting someone special?
KNenagh: What worked for you in the past regarding meeting someone special?
Putting an ad up on Donedeal?
wildorchid14: Iv been on and off here quite a bit and cant seem to find somebody to click with.. beginning to think the phrase""theres somebody out there for everyone"" is pure crap. Iv met a few nice guys dont get me wrong i justseem to not get past a few dates!! some advice would be greatly appreciated.. thank u :-)
your probably trying to hard 
mjpd67: your probably trying to hard
No, MJ, you're trying to harden
henonpause: Putting an ad up on Donedeal?
I was more thinking along the lines of meeting someone through friends or social activities / clubs. I mean walking etc. and not only going to the pub.
henonpause: No, MJ, you're trying to harden
KNenagh: I was more thinking along the lines of meeting someone through friends or social activities / clubs. I mean walking etc. and not only going to the pub.
Has that worked for you?
I tried Gym once - somehow "do you sauna here often" frightens them off.
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