If someone e mails you and you dislike there look and know there not for you ... do u ??? (168)
SUNSHINEB0Ycork, Cork Ireland2,259 PostsSinglelisious: Thanks ...
Ladefoss23: i put up my pic they didn't believe me,,so i took it off
I had worse, my patience permanently ran out when a woman kept on permanently banging on about my appearance, my hair colour like it was actually important.
It was then i realised if i removed my picture, the nutters seemed to go elsewhere, or at least stopped contacting me.
Divinechaos: I don't reply- saves time
I noticed 
vinny1967: Even if they come calling with Tomatoes
Man, I've had some weird mail from fellas wanting to talk about tomatoes.
jac379: Unless its someone I know from the forums, I've taken to deleting without reading. My profile clearly indicates I'm not interested in cold calling.
how yer doing your friend eskimo...bill....... almera03: When your bombarded with email starting with, I'm new to this site, and ending in an addy
you may change your thinking
you may change your thinking
agreed!
I hate when people write something automatic like "hey, I like your profile (they don´t even read it, I´m sure of that. lol) mail me at nononon@blabla.com and we can exchange pics, blabla..."
if they don´t impress me by writing something intelligent in the first message... oh no! I won´t reply. Even if he looked like Johnny Depp. haha
Mysticalli: agreed!
I hate when people write something automatic like "hey, I like your profile (they don´t even read it, I´m sure of that. lol) mail me at nononon@blabla.com and we can exchange pics, blabla..."
if they don´t impress me by writing something intelligent in the first message... oh no! I won´t reply. Even if he looked like Johnny Depp. haha
Point takenI hate when people write something automatic like "hey, I like your profile (they don´t even read it, I´m sure of that. lol) mail me at nononon@blabla.com and we can exchange pics, blabla..."
if they don´t impress me by writing something intelligent in the first message... oh no! I won´t reply. Even if he looked like Johnny Depp. haha
I'll try better next time
missha72: Scammer e mails i just ignore ... but i mean honest e mails from decent people
Not sure I've ever had one.
If men send me an email I just delete it especially when they include an email addy.It's obvious to me they haven't read my profile where it says I'm not looking & already in a relationship.They're nothing but bots collecting emails.
Ccincy: If men send me an email I just delete it especially when they include an email addy.It's obvious to me they haven't read my profile where it says I'm not looking & already in a relationship.They're nothing but bots collecting emails.
bad short boys
outdoorgirlsun: Not sure I've ever had one.
i can send u one
outdoorgirlsun: Not sure I've ever had one.
bet you have...... how about e/mail........ and I´ve just received this from a no-pic profile:
"my name is ------ am a single person I saw your profile today in this site(www.connectingsingles.com )and i stopped to take a very good look at it.I want you to know that i will be interested to know you better because you sounded very sweet in your profile and i will like us to become friends and know each other the more.
please write me directly to my E-mail address above,
(jjjjhh@blabla.com) send me an email today please!"
maybe next life I will reply his message!
"my name is ------ am a single person I saw your profile today in this site(www.connectingsingles.com )and i stopped to take a very good look at it.I want you to know that i will be interested to know you better because you sounded very sweet in your profile and i will like us to become friends and know each other the more.
please write me directly to my E-mail address above,
(jjjjhh@blabla.com) send me an email today please!"
maybe next life I will reply his message!
To all the members--pics aren't always a good gauge, if you ask me. (Some very, very good looking people, men and women, just aren't very photogenic). Again, the movie "Shallow Hal" illustrates how uncool it is to judge by looks. I would say that if the person e-mails is being courteous, then they deserve a reply. It can be generic; it need not be solicitous or have the appearance of giving the cold shoulder. After all, this is called "Connecting Singles" and that member isn't doing wrong by reaching out - it's kind of why this thing exists, isn't it? At least send a friendly note acknowledging receipt of their polite letter. Don't think this is the way to do? Then what the heck are you doing here? Fair question. 
Mysticalli: and I´ve just received this from a no-pic profile:
"my name is ------ am a single person I saw your profile today in this site(www.connectingsingles.com )and i stopped to take a very good look at it.I want you to know that i will be interested to know you better because you sounded very sweet in your profile and i will like us to become friends and know each other the more.
please write me directly to my E-mail address above,
(jjjjhh@blabla.com) send me an email today please!"
maybe next life I will reply his message!
"my name is ------ am a single person I saw your profile today in this site(www.connectingsingles.com )and i stopped to take a very good look at it.I want you to know that i will be interested to know you better because you sounded very sweet in your profile and i will like us to become friends and know each other the more.
please write me directly to my E-mail address above,
(jjjjhh@blabla.com) send me an email today please!"
maybe next life I will reply his message!
I'll take a guess that they never read your profile.
jac379: Man, I've had some weird mail from fellas wanting to talk about tomatoes.
Euphemisms do you think
Sure fellas will try talk about anything if the goal is worth it
rohaan: To all the members--pics aren't always a good gauge, if you ask me. (Some very, very good looking people, men and women, just aren't very photogenic). Again, the movie "Shallow Hal" illustrates how uncool it is to judge by looks. I would say that if the person e-mails is being courteous, then they deserve a reply. It can be generic; it need not be solicitous or have the appearance of giving the cold shoulder. After all, this is called "Connecting Singles" and that member isn't doing wrong by reaching out - it's kind of why this thing exists, isn't it? At least send a friendly note acknowledging receipt of their polite letter. Don't think this is the way to do? Then what the heck are you doing here? Fair question.
Ccincy: I'll take a guess that they never read your profile.
that´s what I said before. They don´t even read my profile. haha
"you sounded very sweet in your profile"
rohaan: To all the members--pics aren't always a good gauge, if you ask me. (Some very, very good looking people, men and women, just aren't very photogenic). Again, the movie "Shallow Hal" illustrates how uncool it is to judge by looks. I would say that if the person e-mails is being courteous, then they deserve a reply. It can be generic; it need not be solicitous or have the appearance of giving the cold shoulder. After all, this is called "Connecting Singles" and that member isn't doing wrong by reaching out - it's kind of why this thing exists, isn't it? At least send a friendly note acknowledging receipt of their polite letter. Don't think this is the way to do? Then what the heck are you doing here? Fair question.
Some of the better posters on here have had no pics. I know one lady who is a genuine stunner who never put a pic up because of the attention she got
I only reply when they are funny or absurd.
cristina: I only reply when they are funny or absurd.
What about posts
Mysticalli: that´s what I said before. They don´t even read my profile. haha
"you sounded very sweet in your profile"
"you sounded very sweet in your profile"
They don't find much in mine.
I guess ever since I put in it that I know how to check on them they've left me alone.cristina: I only reply when they are funny or absurd.
Well Hello..............DING DONG
lets talk about something different.......er.......gardening........who likes tomatoe....plants.........
almera03: Well Hello..............DING DONG
Dong Ding
trueheart1941: lets talk about something different.......er.......gardening........who likes tomatoe....plants.........
Ok you talk about tomato and I'll talk about potato or lets call the whole thing off.
Ccincy: Ok you talk about tomato and I'll talk about potato or lets call the whole thing off.
i have black fly on my toms.....????? 
_f3gi_: Women are all the same - liars and hypocrites and this poll proves it!! They're all going like 'oh i don't care about the appearance its the character that counts'.
yeah right nice words, shame none of them actually mean what they say
yeah right nice words, shame none of them actually mean what they say
they just can`t make up their mind ...
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