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Sep 21, 2011 5:48 AM CSTis it ok to become jelous if your wife is having coffee and going to movies with other men she calls
wils0n
wils0nwils0nwellinton, Wellington, New Zealand3 Threads 3 Polls 106 Posts

is it ok to become jelous if your wife is having coffee and going to movies with other men she calls(Vote Below)

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its normal get over it
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9%
not normal, because its risks the relationship
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35%
find some girl friends and see how she likes it
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17%
unbelieveable who does that ?
21
20%
what were you thinking marry a girl like this
14
13%
totally normal in todays culture.
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7%
Total Votes
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Hey Friends - need some help... set me stright..

My wife to be ( or not to be ) is giving me some bad vibes. I see guys on her facebook showing interest in her commenting all the time on her. But never on pics of me and her. recently he showed interest in her saying he missed her alot. and she responded by saying she missed him alot too. This is in front of family and friends etc. Is this kind of thing normal ? She tells me it is and I need get used to it or I should find someone else. She would change not even a little she say I don't trust her. But I feel this kind of behaviour is killing my trust in her.

Anyway people... set me stright.
Cheers
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Sep 21, 2011 7:06 AM CST is it ok to become jelous if your wife is having coffee and going to movies with other men she calls
Witchaywoman
WitchaywomanWitchaywomanCarpentersville, Illinois USA97 Threads 13 Polls 4,344 Posts
Should she be worried that you have a profile on a dating site?
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Sep 21, 2011 8:04 AM CST is it ok to become jelous if your wife is having coffee and going to movies with other men she calls
jonnt
jonntjonntLost in the Woods, East Sussex, England UK47 Threads 3,691 Posts
wils0n: Hey Friends - need some help... set me stright..

My wife to be ( or not to be ) is giving me some bad vibes. I see guys on her facebook showing interest in her commenting all the time on her. But never on pics of me and her. recently he showed interest in her saying he missed her alot. and she responded by saying she missed him alot too. This is in front of family and friends etc. Is this kind of thing normal ? She tells me it is and I need get used to it or I should find someone else. She would change not even a little she say I don't trust her. But I feel this kind of behaviour is killing my trust in her.

Anyway people... set me stright.

I wouldnt put up with it my friend , make her delete her Face Book Ac ,and tell her to pull herself together and behave .

Demonstrate who will be wearing the Pants in the relationship .

Good luck
Cheers
cheers
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Sep 21, 2011 8:12 AM CST is it ok to become jelous if your wife is having coffee and going to movies with other men she calls
montecito
montecitomontecitoLovely, New Jersey USA96 Threads 2 Polls 5,086 Posts
wils0n: Hey Friends - need some help... set me stright..

My wife to be ( or not to be ) is giving me some bad vibes. I see guys on her facebook showing interest in her commenting all the time on her. But never on pics of me and her. recently he showed interest in her saying he missed her alot. and she responded by saying she missed him alot too. This is in front of family and friends etc. Is this kind of thing normal ? She tells me it is and I need get used to it or I should find someone else. She would change not even a little she say I don't trust her. But I feel this kind of behaviour is killing my trust in her.

Anyway people... set me stright.
Cheers


I don't think you're being jealous. You're being smart to trust your gut that this isn't right. Times have changed but not to this degree. It's obvious to me she wants her freedom and wants to do whatever she wants regardless that she has you in her life. I'd hold off on the marriage vows. Much easier to breakup now then go through a divorce later on..comfort
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Sep 21, 2011 8:20 AM CST is it ok to become jelous if your wife is having coffee and going to movies with other men she calls
leigh2154
leigh2154leigh2154Crossville, Tennessee USA5 Threads 6,408 Posts
wils0n: Hey Friends - need some help... set me stright..

My wife to be ( or not to be ) is giving me some bad vibes. I see guys on her facebook showing interest in her commenting all the time on her. But never on pics of me and her. recently he showed interest in her saying he missed her alot. and she responded by saying she missed him alot too. This is in front of family and friends etc. Is this kind of thing normal ? She tells me it is and I need get used to it or I should find someone else. She would change not even a little she say I don't trust her. But I feel this kind of behaviour is killing my trust in her.

Anyway people... set me stright.
Cheers


Hello W0...Lose her, she is up to no good...
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Sep 21, 2011 8:22 AM CST is it ok to become jelous if your wife is having coffee and going to movies with other men she calls
jonnt
jonntjonntLost in the Woods, East Sussex, England UK47 Threads 3,691 Posts
Thats rite Montecito

Let Man take no nonesense thumbs up


teddybear
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Sep 21, 2011 8:25 AM CST is it ok to become jelous if your wife is having coffee and going to movies with other men she calls
jonnt
jonntjonntLost in the Woods, East Sussex, England UK47 Threads 3,691 Posts
leigh2154: Hello W0...Lose her, she is up to no good...



Iff she had Spirit in her Eyes like you have , i mite be prepaired to give her one more chance .laugh
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Sep 21, 2011 8:29 AM CST is it ok to become jelous if your wife is having coffee and going to movies with other men she calls
Lyla18
Lyla18Lyla18perth, Western Australia Australia3 Posts
I think its only a problem if she does these things secretly, if she tries to hide it right from the start, then you've got a problem. but if she's open with you about her friendships with other men and women, then its your own paranoia getting in the way! she loves you, why else would she be marrying you? (unless you've got bucket loads of money and she's a gold digger haha)
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Sep 21, 2011 8:31 AM CST is it ok to become jelous if your wife is having coffee and going to movies with other men she calls
Lyla18
Lyla18Lyla18perth, Western Australia Australia3 Posts
Witchaywoman: Should she be worried that you have a profile on a dating site?


right on! people (not just men) get jealous waaayyy to easy
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Sep 21, 2011 8:33 AM CST is it ok to become jelous if your wife is having coffee and going to movies with other men she calls
This chic is not ready to settle down. She has some wild oats to sow. I don't see this marriage lasting very long, sorry. Talking to guys is one thing but going for coffee and out to movies is pushing the envelope.
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Sep 21, 2011 8:40 AM CST is it ok to become jelous if your wife is having coffee and going to movies with other men she calls
jonnt
jonntjonntLost in the Woods, East Sussex, England UK47 Threads 3,691 Posts
Lyla18: right on! people (not just men) get jealous waaayyy to easy


Thats what i said to my ex when she found me in bed with her friend .

Thanks for understanding .

bouquet
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Sep 21, 2011 8:44 AM CST is it ok to become jelous if your wife is having coffee and going to movies with other men she calls
leni0822
leni0822leni0822taipie, Taipei Taiwan1 Threads 1,486 Posts
ooby_dooby: This chic is not ready to settle down. She has some wild oats to sow. I don't see this marriage lasting very long, sorry. Talking to guys is one thing but going for coffee and out to movies is pushing the envelope.



well said ooby...thumbs up
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Sep 21, 2011 8:46 AM CST is it ok to become jelous if your wife is having coffee and going to movies with other men she calls
montecito
montecitomontecitoLovely, New Jersey USA96 Threads 2 Polls 5,086 Posts
ooby_dooby: This chic is not ready to settle down. She has some wild oats to sow. I don't see this marriage lasting very long, sorry. Talking to guys is one thing but going for coffee and out to movies is pushing the envelope.


thumbs up I can only imagine how she would handle it if it was reversed.
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Sep 21, 2011 8:48 AM CST is it ok to become jelous if your wife is having coffee and going to movies with other men she calls
leigh2154
leigh2154leigh2154Crossville, Tennessee USA5 Threads 6,408 Posts
jonnt: Iff she had Spirit in her Eyes like you have , i mite be prepaired to give her one more chance .


Hi Jonnt...If I didn't have spunk, I would not survive...Keep the rose colored glasses in their case...Protect yourself from major complications and heartache ..hug bouquet
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Sep 21, 2011 8:55 AM CST is it ok to become jelous if your wife is having coffee and going to movies with other men she calls
jonnt
jonntjonntLost in the Woods, East Sussex, England UK47 Threads 3,691 Posts
leigh2154: Hi Jonnt...If I didn't have spunk, I would not survive...Keep the rose colored glasses in their case...Protect yourself from major complications and heartache ..



lol , if yea a nice person {and i reckon you are } then all are welcome in my world

handshake teddybear

{The only problem im known for is saying things i shouldnt }laugh
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Sep 21, 2011 9:00 AM CST is it ok to become jelous if your wife is having coffee and going to movies with other men she calls
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK27 Threads 8,005 Posts
jonnt: Lets hope he doesnt find someone on Face Book thats doing it to her husband the other end .
hi jonnt you scoudrel....laugh hows things ...??cheers cheers
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Sep 21, 2011 9:05 AM CST is it ok to become jelous if your wife is having coffee and going to movies with other men she calls
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
leigh2154: Hi Jonnt...If I didn't have spunk, I would not survive...Keep the rose colored glasses in their case...Protect yourself from major complications and heartache ..


Dump her on the nearest slag heapgrin
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Sep 21, 2011 9:05 AM CST is it ok to become jelous if your wife is having coffee and going to movies with other men she calls
jonnt
jonntjonntLost in the Woods, East Sussex, England UK47 Threads 3,691 Posts
trueheart1941: hi jonnt you scoudrel.... hows things ...??


Hi , how are you my friend , hope your ok ,

Im Brassed off with all this rain were having ,

Have been away in Van , nothing but wet wet wet .

And Moan Bloody Moan , {even the Dog hated it }laugh

cheers
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Sep 21, 2011 9:06 AM CST is it ok to become jelous if your wife is having coffee and going to movies with other men she calls
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
wils0n: Hey Friends - need some help... set me stright..

My wife to be ( or not to be ) is giving me some bad vibes. I see guys on her facebook showing interest in her commenting all the time on her. But never on pics of me and her. recently he showed interest in her saying he missed her alot. and she responded by saying she missed him alot too. This is in front of family and friends etc. Is this kind of thing normal ? She tells me it is and I need get used to it or I should find someone else. She would change not even a little she say I don't trust her. But I feel this kind of behaviour is killing my trust in her.

Anyway people... set me stright.

I miss her a lot , too...
Cheers
grin
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Sep 21, 2011 9:07 AM CST is it ok to become jelous if your wife is having coffee and going to movies with other men she calls
leigh2154
leigh2154leigh2154Crossville, Tennessee USA5 Threads 6,408 Posts
tomcatwarne: Dump her on the nearest slag heap


That's my Tommy, right again!!!!!!! If we keep agreeing like this we are going to have to take it to the next level...wink
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Sep 21, 2011 9:12 AM CST is it ok to become jelous if your wife is having coffee and going to movies with other men she calls
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
leigh2154: That's my Tommy, right again!!!!!!! If we keep agreeing like this we are going to have to take it to the next level...




And then...... the starsgrin grin grin grin rolling on the floor laughing angel devil cool
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Sep 21, 2011 9:12 AM CST is it ok to become jelous if your wife is having coffee and going to movies with other men she calls
halakala
halakalahalakalakatowice, Silesia Poland68 Posts
his wife is dating on Facebook,sharinf feelings with other men
he is here,on a dating site,looking for...other women...I suppose
What is it?
For me it is clear,western world is crazy indeed...people are not able to see clearly
and he is asking about advice:)
MY GOD:)
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Sep 21, 2011 9:13 AM CST is it ok to become jelous if your wife is having coffee and going to movies with other men she calls
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK27 Threads 8,005 Posts
jonnt: Hi , how are you my friend , hope your ok ,

Im Brassed off with all this rain were having ,

Have been away in Van , nothing but wet wet wet .

And Moan Bloody Moan , {even the Dog hated it }
yer tell me about it....laugh Im fine....thanks...like i said before .if your ever passing......call in...cheers cheers
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Sep 21, 2011 9:19 AM CST is it ok to become jelous if your wife is having coffee and going to movies with other men she calls
montecito
montecitomontecitoLovely, New Jersey USA96 Threads 2 Polls 5,086 Posts
halakala: his wife is dating on Facebook,sharinf feelings with other men
he is here,on a dating site,looking for...other women...I suppose
What is it?
For me it is clear,western world is crazy indeed...people are not able to see clearly
and he is asking about advice:)
MY GOD:)



1. She's not his wife.....yet.

2. People come here to ask opinions. Just because he is on CS doesn't mean he is looking for someone else.

3. I think he's sees very clearly what is going on and that is why he is asking our opinion and not jumping to conclusions.

4. As far as the western world being crazy....Definitely the U.S.A. is to blame for her actions..doh
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Sep 21, 2011 9:19 AM CST is it ok to become jelous if your wife is having coffee and going to movies with other men she calls
outdoorgirlsun
outdoorgirlsunoutdoorgirlsunSapulpa, Oklahoma USA5 Threads 1,085 Posts
halakala: his wife is dating on Facebook,sharinf feelings with other men
he is here,on a dating site,looking for...other women...I suppose
What is it?
For me it is clear,western world is crazy indeed...people are not able to see clearly
and he is asking about advice:)
MY GOD:)


don't put all us western apples in the same barrel. Not sure, where this guy is coming from, either. They obviously are NOT a couple as he thinks they are. Maybe had a few dates? Thinking she now belongs to him? A little controlling? She's trying to let him know, it's not that way?
He can either stick around or move on? She might not care either way.
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Sep 21, 2011 9:20 AM CST is it ok to become jelous if your wife is having coffee and going to movies with other men she calls
marijo70
marijo70marijo70Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK6 Threads 4 Polls 1,433 Posts
ooby_dooby: This chic is not ready to settle down. She has some wild oats to sow. I don't see this marriage lasting very long, sorry. Talking to guys is one thing but going for coffee and out to movies is pushing the envelope.


totally agree..grin
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Sep 21, 2011 9:21 AM CST is it ok to become jelous if your wife is having coffee and going to movies with other men she calls
leigh2154
leigh2154leigh2154Crossville, Tennessee USA5 Threads 6,408 Posts
tomcatwarne: And then...... the stars


The sun, the moon, and the stars!blushing

grin
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Sep 21, 2011 9:22 AM CST is it ok to become jelous if your wife is having coffee and going to movies with other men she calls
leigh2154
leigh2154leigh2154Crossville, Tennessee USA5 Threads 6,408 Posts
outdoorgirlsun: don't put all us western apples in the same barrel. Not sure, where this guy is coming from, either. They obviously are NOT a couple as he thinks they are. Maybe had a few dates? Thinking she now belongs to him? A little controlling? She's trying to let him know, it's not that way?
He can either stick around or move on? She might not care either way.


thumbs up thumbs up Mornin!wave
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Sep 21, 2011 9:23 AM CST is it ok to become jelous if your wife is having coffee and going to movies with other men she calls
halakala
halakalahalakalakatowice, Silesia Poland68 Posts
montecito: 1. She's not his wife.....yet.

2. People come here to ask opinions. Just because he is on CS doesn't mean he is looking for someone else.

3. I think he's sees very clearly what is going on and that is why he is asking our opinion and not jumping to conclusions.

4. As far as the western world being crazy....Definitely the U.S.A. is to blame for her actions..
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Sep 21, 2011 9:26 AM CST is it ok to become jelous if your wife is having coffee and going to movies with other men she calls
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK27 Threads 8,005 Posts
outdoorgirlsun: don't put all us western apples in the same barrel. Not sure, where this guy is coming from, either. They obviously are NOT a couple as he thinks they are. Maybe had a few dates? Thinking she now belongs to him? A little controlling? She's trying to let him know, it's not that way?
He can either stick around or move on? She might not care either way.
very true that.....theres two side to a coin....so far were have only seen one side.........?????
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Sep 21, 2011 9:28 AM CST is it ok to become jelous if your wife is having coffee and going to movies with other men she calls
Arabic traditions don't permit such acts being made by wives,,,
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