My wife to be ( or not to be ) is giving me some bad vibes. I see guys on her facebook showing interest in her commenting all the time on her. But never on pics of me and her. recently he showed interest in her saying he missed her alot. and she responded by saying she missed him alot too. This is in front of family and friends etc. Is this kind of thing normal ? She tells me it is and I need get used to it or I should find someone else. She would change not even a little she say I don't trust her. But I feel this kind of behaviour is killing my trust in her.
jonntLost in the Woods, East Sussex, England UK3,691 posts
wils0n: Hey Friends - need some help... set me stright..
My wife to be ( or not to be ) is giving me some bad vibes. I see guys on her facebook showing interest in her commenting all the time on her. But never on pics of me and her. recently he showed interest in her saying he missed her alot. and she responded by saying she missed him alot too. This is in front of family and friends etc. Is this kind of thing normal ? She tells me it is and I need get used to it or I should find someone else. She would change not even a little she say I don't trust her. But I feel this kind of behaviour is killing my trust in her.
Anyway people... set me stright.
I wouldnt put up with it my friend , make her delete her Face Book Ac ,and tell her to pull herself together and behave .
Demonstrate who will be wearing the Pants in the relationship .
wils0n: Hey Friends - need some help... set me stright..
My wife to be ( or not to be ) is giving me some bad vibes. I see guys on her facebook showing interest in her commenting all the time on her. But never on pics of me and her. recently he showed interest in her saying he missed her alot. and she responded by saying she missed him alot too. This is in front of family and friends etc. Is this kind of thing normal ? She tells me it is and I need get used to it or I should find someone else. She would change not even a little she say I don't trust her. But I feel this kind of behaviour is killing my trust in her.
Anyway people... set me stright. Cheers
I don't think you're being jealous. You're being smart to trust your gut that this isn't right. Times have changed but not to this degree. It's obvious to me she wants her freedom and wants to do whatever she wants regardless that she has you in her life. I'd hold off on the marriage vows. Much easier to breakup now then go through a divorce later on..
wils0n: Hey Friends - need some help... set me stright..
My wife to be ( or not to be ) is giving me some bad vibes. I see guys on her facebook showing interest in her commenting all the time on her. But never on pics of me and her. recently he showed interest in her saying he missed her alot. and she responded by saying she missed him alot too. This is in front of family and friends etc. Is this kind of thing normal ? She tells me it is and I need get used to it or I should find someone else. She would change not even a little she say I don't trust her. But I feel this kind of behaviour is killing my trust in her.
I think its only a problem if she does these things secretly, if she tries to hide it right from the start, then you've got a problem. but if she's open with you about her friendships with other men and women, then its your own paranoia getting in the way! she loves you, why else would she be marrying you? (unless you've got bucket loads of money and she's a gold digger haha)
This chic is not ready to settle down. She has some wild oats to sow. I don't see this marriage lasting very long, sorry. Talking to guys is one thing but going for coffee and out to movies is pushing the envelope.
ooby_dooby: This chic is not ready to settle down. She has some wild oats to sow. I don't see this marriage lasting very long, sorry. Talking to guys is one thing but going for coffee and out to movies is pushing the envelope.
ooby_dooby: This chic is not ready to settle down. She has some wild oats to sow. I don't see this marriage lasting very long, sorry. Talking to guys is one thing but going for coffee and out to movies is pushing the envelope.
I can only imagine how she would handle it if it was reversed.
jonnt: Iff she had Spirit in her Eyes like you have , i mite be prepaired to give her one more chance .
Hi Jonnt...If I didn't have spunk, I would not survive...Keep the rose colored glasses in their case...Protect yourself from major complications and heartache ..
jonntLost in the Woods, East Sussex, England UK3,691 posts
leigh2154: Hi Jonnt...If I didn't have spunk, I would not survive...Keep the rose colored glasses in their case...Protect yourself from major complications and heartache ..
lol , if yea a nice person {and i reckon you are } then all are welcome in my world
{The only problem im known for is saying things i shouldnt }
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
leigh2154: Hi Jonnt...If I didn't have spunk, I would not survive...Keep the rose colored glasses in their case...Protect yourself from major complications and heartache ..
wils0n: Hey Friends - need some help... set me stright..
My wife to be ( or not to be ) is giving me some bad vibes. I see guys on her facebook showing interest in her commenting all the time on her. But never on pics of me and her. recently he showed interest in her saying he missed her alot. and she responded by saying she missed him alot too. This is in front of family and friends etc. Is this kind of thing normal ? She tells me it is and I need get used to it or I should find someone else. She would change not even a little she say I don't trust her. But I feel this kind of behaviour is killing my trust in her.
his wife is dating on Facebook,sharinf feelings with other men he is here,on a dating site,looking for...other women...I suppose What is it? For me it is clear,western world is crazy indeed...people are not able to see clearly and he is asking about advice:) MY GOD:)
halakala: his wife is dating on Facebook,sharinf feelings with other men he is here,on a dating site,looking for...other women...I suppose What is it? For me it is clear,western world is crazy indeed...people are not able to see clearly and he is asking about advice:) MY GOD:)
1. She's not his wife.....yet.
2. People come here to ask opinions. Just because he is on CS doesn't mean he is looking for someone else.
3. I think he's sees very clearly what is going on and that is why he is asking our opinion and not jumping to conclusions.
4. As far as the western world being crazy....Definitely the U.S.A. is to blame for her actions..
halakala: his wife is dating on Facebook,sharinf feelings with other men he is here,on a dating site,looking for...other women...I suppose What is it? For me it is clear,western world is crazy indeed...people are not able to see clearly and he is asking about advice:) MY GOD:)
don't put all us western apples in the same barrel. Not sure, where this guy is coming from, either. They obviously are NOT a couple as he thinks they are. Maybe had a few dates? Thinking she now belongs to him? A little controlling? She's trying to let him know, it's not that way? He can either stick around or move on? She might not care either way.
ooby_dooby: This chic is not ready to settle down. She has some wild oats to sow. I don't see this marriage lasting very long, sorry. Talking to guys is one thing but going for coffee and out to movies is pushing the envelope.
outdoorgirlsun: don't put all us western apples in the same barrel. Not sure, where this guy is coming from, either. They obviously are NOT a couple as he thinks they are. Maybe had a few dates? Thinking she now belongs to him? A little controlling? She's trying to let him know, it's not that way? He can either stick around or move on? She might not care either way.
trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK8,005 posts
outdoorgirlsun: don't put all us western apples in the same barrel. Not sure, where this guy is coming from, either. They obviously are NOT a couple as he thinks they are. Maybe had a few dates? Thinking she now belongs to him? A little controlling? She's trying to let him know, it's not that way? He can either stick around or move on? She might not care either way.
very true that.....theres two side to a coin....so far were have only seen one side.........?????
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My wife to be ( or not to be ) is giving me some bad vibes. I see guys on her facebook showing interest in her commenting all the time on her. But never on pics of me and her. recently he showed interest in her saying he missed her alot. and she responded by saying she missed him alot too. This is in front of family and friends etc. Is this kind of thing normal ? She tells me it is and I need get used to it or I should find someone else. She would change not even a little she say I don't trust her. But I feel this kind of behaviour is killing my trust in her.
Anyway people... set me stright.
Cheers