the ability to shut up , not scratch the head so much that your hair falls out when you wonder what it was you did and the the knack of saying automatically yes dear
hardly any of those choices really, most important ones are, honesty, trust, talking things through instead of silence, accepting someone for what they are, no point being with someone if you feel you have to change them.
what does the colour of someones hair have to do with a relationship anyhow or money either for that matter!
filly63: hardly any of those choices really, most important ones are, honesty, trust, talking things through instead of silence, accepting someone for what they are, no point being with someone if you feel you have to change them.
what does the colour of someones hair have to do with a relationship anyhow or money either for that matter!
Agree I don't get it either. More important qualities would be trust, honesty, humour and as mentioned best friends. Hair colour, weight and financial status are insignificant to me really. I know you need to fancy someone initially for that spark though. I would look for more important qualities first and if they look good to me all the better
im in a life long relationship with someone..it includes..
communication..listening..caring..sharing..i love them for their faults.they make me laugh..and i love sometimes when they seem oh so funny then suddenly they get all serious and soft might even shed a tear!! and theres love..lots of love..no matter what the person does i love them..cos we are all only human..this person loves me to the best of their ability..and thats all that matters..
that someone is ME..
and someday u never know..someone might come along and share me..with me..
I think for me whats really important also is that you can be independent of each other in life however much your committed to each other its important that people can take joy/pleasure out of other interests without there OH having to hold there had all the time
well i don't think it's any of the above. my past 2 experiences tell told me that i had the wrong two. cause they only cared about the body and the wallet and how much i could spend. it wasn't 50/50 on the dates there i don't think man will ever know the answer to that one.
I have voted share same interests. That goes a long way. Understanding! Compromising! Laughing! No high expectations! Give and take. You can only take out if you put in. So its an empty box to begin with the more you put into a relationship the more you can take out of it. JMO. I found this works for me.
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What qualities make for a life-long relationship ?(Vote Below)