What qualities make for a life-long relationship ? ( Archived) (24)

Oct 29, 2011 11:26 AM CSTWhat qualities make for a life-long relationship ?
IamJimmy
IamJimmyIamJimmyCastlebar, Mayo, Ireland1 Threads 1 Polls 5 Posts

What qualities make for a life-long relationship ?(Vote Below)

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Sexy (whatever that is!)
10
10%
A smile when we meet
9
9%
Happy personality
21
22%
Brunette
1
1%
Blond
1
1%
Redhead
3
3%
Wealthy
3
3%
Thin
2
2%
Curvy
2
2%
Share same interests
44
46%
Total Votes
96
I need to know what to look for !
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Oct 29, 2011 11:38 AM CST What qualities make for a life-long relationship ?
Well, when you find the answer to that one, perhaps you wouldn't mind sharing it with the rest of us...

A_B...laugh...
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Oct 29, 2011 11:42 AM CST What qualities make for a life-long relationship ?
BellaX
BellaXBellaXdublin, Dublin Ireland36 Threads 448 Posts
Its a mixture of attraction, trust, honesty, laughing and making sure your OH is not only your partner but your best friend.

But rememeber you are asking this question on Connecting 'SINGLES' I'd say a large amount here are singles so we are really not the ones to ask laugh

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Oct 29, 2011 11:45 AM CST What qualities make for a life-long relationship ?
BellaX: Its a mixture of attraction, trust, honesty, laughing and making sure your OH is not only your partner but your best friend.

But rememeber you are asking this question on Connecting 'SINGLES' I'd say a large amount here are singles so we are really not the ones to
ask




The ability to put up with constant disappointment.
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Oct 29, 2011 11:50 AM CST What qualities make for a life-long relationship ?
BellaX: Its a mixture of attraction, trust, honesty, laughing and making sure your OH is not only your partner but your best friend.

But rememeber you are asking this question on Connecting 'SINGLES' I'd say a large amount here are singles so we are really not the ones to ask
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Oct 29, 2011 11:52 AM CST What qualities make for a life-long relationship ?
the ability to shut up , not scratch the head so much that your hair falls out when you wonder what it was you did and the the knack of saying automatically yes dear
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Oct 29, 2011 11:59 AM CST What qualities make for a life-long relationship ?
IamJimmy: I need to know what to look for !


hardly any of those choices really, most important ones are, honesty, trust, talking things through instead of silence, accepting someone for what they are, no point being with someone if you feel you have to change them.

what does the colour of someones hair have to do with a relationship anyhow or money either for that matter!
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Oct 29, 2011 2:30 PM CST What qualities make for a life-long relationship ?
ladycinders
ladycindersladycindersWaterford, Ireland2 Threads 72 Posts
filly63: hardly any of those choices really, most important ones are, honesty, trust, talking things through instead of silence, accepting someone for what they are, no point being with someone if you feel you have to change them.

what does the colour of someones hair have to do with a relationship anyhow or money either for that matter!



Agree I don't get it either. More important qualities would be trust, honesty, humour and as mentioned best friends. Hair colour, weight and financial status are insignificant to me really. I know you need to fancy someone initially for that spark though. I would look for more important qualities first and if they look good to me all the better
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Oct 29, 2011 2:50 PM CST What qualities make for a life-long relationship ?
Godsgift
GodsgiftGodsgiftEnnis, Clare Ireland251 Threads 13 Polls 10,040 Posts
LadyBlackAdder: I think you got it totally right there, Mesimarja

Things are likely to go belly up if any one of those four are missing


If I knew the answer to this I wouldn't be in here watching X factor on my own of a Saturday night. help
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Oct 29, 2011 3:05 PM CST What qualities make for a life-long relationship ?
LadyBlackAdder
LadyBlackAdderLadyBlackAdderKillarney, Kerry Ireland24 Threads 2,355 Posts
Godsgift: If I knew the answer to this I wouldn't be in here watching X factor on my own of a Saturday night.


Knowing the answer doesn't mean we are any closer to finding it, K mumbling
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Oct 29, 2011 3:21 PM CST What qualities make for a life-long relationship ?
fifitheminx
fifitheminxfifitheminxDublin, Ireland35 Threads 4,039 Posts
im in a life long relationship with someone..it includes..

communication..listening..caring..sharing..i love them for their faults.they make me laugh..and i love sometimes when they seem oh so funny then suddenly they get all serious and soft might even shed a tear!! and theres love..lots of love..no matter what the person does i love them..cos we are all only human..this person loves me to the best of their ability..and thats all that matters..

that someone is ME..

and someday u never know..someone might come along and share me..with me..

im happy either way.







peace
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Oct 29, 2011 3:31 PM CST What qualities make for a life-long relationship ?
ger48
ger48ger48dublin, Dublin Ireland1 Threads 95 Posts
“Remember that the best relationship is one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other.”
? Dalai Lama XIV
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Oct 29, 2011 3:33 PM CST What qualities make for a life-long relationship ?
fifitheminx
fifitheminxfifitheminxDublin, Ireland35 Threads 4,039 Posts
ger48: “Remember that the best relationship is one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other.”
? Dalai Lama XIV


so agree with that one.. thumbs up
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Oct 29, 2011 3:45 PM CST What qualities make for a life-long relationship ?
cooneybeag
cooneybeagcooneybeagEnnis, Clare Ireland26 Posts
I think for me whats really important also is that you can be independent of each other in life however much your committed to each other its important that people can take joy/pleasure out of other interests without there OH having to hold there had all the time grin
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Oct 29, 2011 4:56 PM CST What qualities make for a life-long relationship ?
theredguy
theredguytheredguyand Galway, Galway Ireland10 Threads 1 Polls 117 Posts
As long as theres more posatives then negative its worth the time
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Oct 29, 2011 5:28 PM CST What qualities make for a life-long relationship ?
Antonescu_222
Antonescu_222Antonescu_222Mullingar, Westmeath Ireland6 Threads 66 Posts
LUCK!?
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Oct 29, 2011 5:31 PM CST What qualities make for a life-long relationship ?
Antonescu_222
Antonescu_222Antonescu_222Mullingar, Westmeath Ireland6 Threads 66 Posts
Really! There are so so many ways things could go wrong so you ought to be luckye!
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Oct 29, 2011 11:57 PM CST What qualities make for a life-long relationship ?
simpledeed
simpledeedsimpledeedToronto, Ontario Canada97 Posts
oh irish pumpkin man
qualities are just the beginning
life long you see things
ugly pumpkin things

I was hoping you would understand
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Oct 30, 2011 2:05 AM CST What qualities make for a life-long relationship ?
Thumblina
ThumblinaThumblinaleinster, Dublin Ireland5 Threads 1,225 Posts
ger48: “Remember that the best relationship is one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other.”
? Dalai Lama XIV
thumbs up thumbs up oh and welcome to cs wave
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Oct 30, 2011 6:12 AM CST What qualities make for a life-long relationship ?
scriobhneoir
scriobhneoirscriobhneoirCork, Ireland85 Threads 2 Polls 3,276 Posts
Keeping your mouth shut and not asking questions.scold laugh
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Oct 31, 2011 5:58 PM CST What qualities make for a life-long relationship ?
rosii
rosiirosiilongford, Longford Ireland149 Posts
IamJimmy: I need to know what to look for !



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Nov 1, 2011 11:54 PM CST What qualities make for a life-long relationship ?
Thumblina
ThumblinaThumblinaleinster, Dublin Ireland5 Threads 1,225 Posts
SereneGreen: Yeah....what she said !!


thumbs up rolling on the floor laughing Serene
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Nov 2, 2011 3:37 AM CST What qualities make for a life-long relationship ?
Suranis
SuranisSuranisAskeaton, Limerick Ireland45 Posts
A fat bank account might not guarantee a long and happy relationship, but it certainly can buy a better class of misery.
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Nov 6, 2011 9:30 AM CST What qualities make for a life-long relationship ?
sexyman265
sexyman265sexyman265wooster, Ohio USA1 Threads 11 Posts
well i don't think it's any of the above. my past 2 experiences tell told me that i had the wrong two. cause they only cared about the body and the wallet and how much i could spend. it wasn't 50/50 on the dates theremumbling i don't think man will ever know the answer to that one.
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Nov 7, 2011 12:06 AM CST What qualities make for a life-long relationship ?
Sailfree
SailfreeSailfreeHeidelberg, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany118 Threads 5,202 Posts
I have voted share same interests.
That goes a long way.
Understanding!
Compromising!
Laughing!
No high expectations!
Give and take.
You can only take out if
you put in. So its an empty box to
begin with the more you put into a
relationship the more you can take
out of it.
JMO.
I found this works for me. wave
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