So you connect online and sparks fly.. would you... ( Archived) (46)

if sparks flew at me...more then likely...someone threw the eletric..fire into hy bathwater......

....Still waiting for that SPARK ! ! ! ! !

Like a lot of things {in my opinion}, it really depends on the individual. Some people can, and some people wont. I have had at least one person not so long ago say they would "NEVER" have those type of sparks and yet not more than a few months later they were head over heels, both of them. They seem to be doing very well, by the way they are not from here but all the same I know it happens. Now some people will just say it is infatuation or something else. But truly who are we to tell the next person what they feel in their heart. I guess my point is that people are not all the same and what happens for one does not necessarily happen for another. Personally I think that is great, it means that, yes! it can happen to you, it can happen to me.

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Good advice. An imagination has a way of making things SEEM real when they may not be.

Take it slow, but go with the flow.

I think you have to view this whole website as a bit of fun and some literal interaction. I hear many stories about people meeting up from the connections they make here, some work out some go horribly wrong. If you did manage to make a new friend and it turned into a real relationship well that should be regarded as a real bonus.

I'm an optimist and would like to believe that people are pretty genuine and most here have similar wants and needs. The fact remains though that however formed, relationships are complex things.

agree also with some others comment in here. Meeting in real need it. And I did it already, to met this person in personal

maybe if you post a pic here it might speed up the process

thank you "kidatheart"

what you project will be what you feel to attract. photos can say so much, profile a little more, personal meetings yeah sure!! if we all lived in the same city!!! or country!

but i think what i was getting at is, should geographical boundaries determine how we project ourselves and how far we go to put ourselves "out there" /to even click on countries and names half way round the earth!! if everyone felt " what da hell just talk or get to know the one you can see nxt door, she / he is a save option, i know what i get - because i can see and meet the person in real life " - well what are you doing look at profiles around the globe - ?

IF it's REAL LOVE i 'm there

If the Sparks Fly . . .

I'm not above taking her Ring-Shopping !!

I'm not ~Just Here For The Forums~...!!!

TO TRUE

Mostly old men with guts ;) Some are nice and have offered to fly me to a vacation with them...

Don't let the distance thing stop you from saying hello to anyone that you find interesting, or that you'd like to chat with, I don't. You never know what can come of it.
I have to agree with this one....I've met some really cool people here who I'll never get to meet, who are far away...and I've enjoyed getting to know them as e-friends.