EJefferson: I just want to see what people notice when they look at peoples profiles before they click around looking for the next person or whatever.
I think we already seen the pic and found it attractive,by going into the profile it means you wana find out what they think of themselves or how they express who they are .... The age, weight, location, profession, marital status and kids come later ....
Ps: I can easily fall inlove a person with a fantastic personality (it brings out his soul) and that is what I would be looking for, is "that beautiful soul" JMO
EJefferson: I just want to see what people notice when they look at peoples profiles before they click around looking for the next person or whatever.
Possibly most of the above but it is a subconcious decision. I get a vibe of a photo and tagline. Of course I am probably judging by looks but I hope in the way that is saying she looks nice or warm then the tagline will show some of her personality and whether I am encouraged to read further or not. After that would probably think in terms of what we have in common, age, looks , situation etc.
Even though looks wouldn't be high on my priorities meeting someone the pic is what catches your eye first. Then things like age, does his profile sounds reasonably intelligent and is not full of spelling mistakes, and what kind of relationship he is looking for.
Attractiveness N Attitude before making decisions was my answer as well what they are looking for. I don;t worry quite as much about that as most have no clue what they want till they find it...
Usually read the profile to see what kind of interests etc the person has. If somebody just has a photo up and nothing wrote on their profile well it usually gives the impression that they are all about looks themselves :)
tippaC29: Usually read the profile to see what kind of interests etc the person has. If somebody just has a photo up and nothing wrote on their profile well it usually gives the impression that they are all about looks themselves :)
tippaC29: Indeed. Fake profiles some of the time, you can be sure. But they are kidding nobody but themselves at the end of the day :)
most likely - seems a fool's errand. I like the profile review section too - it gives an idea of what others write. still, mine is completley unique to me - I had no input from others when I wrote it - it needs to be updated....but I get lazy...
speaking of which I need to get off my lazy butt & get to work! have a wonderful day on the enerald isle!
felixis99: most likely - seems a fool's errand. I like the profile review section too - it gives an idea of what others write. still, mine is completley unique to me - I had no input from others when I wrote it - it needs to be updated....but I get lazy...
speaking of which I need to get off my lazy butt & get to work! have a wonderful day on the emerald isle!
And some get caught out on the profile reviews...
Thanks and greetings to the opposite side of the world!
felixis99: most likely - seems a fool's errand. I like the profile review section too - it gives an idea of what others write. still, mine is completley unique to me - I had no input from others when I wrote it - it needs to be updated....but I get lazy...
speaking of which I need to get off my lazy butt & get to work! have a wonderful day on the enerald isle!
I've only been on the site a few weeks. Never bothered to have a look at the Profile reviews. Must check that out.
well, if i'm reading the profile, i am probably already interested because of something they said in the forums. mostly i'm looking to get a sense of who they are by their comments and writing style, as well as what they mention as interests.
Now I understand why so many relationships have the lifespan of a housefly or the length of likeness of the decaying flesh to the photograph and vital statistics.!
I look to make sure they don't smoke. I can't handle cigar, cigarette or pipe smoke on a person's breath. It makes me very ill... <---- I am not kidding that's what happens to me, it's embarrassing...but true.
trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK8,005 posts
.....the profile ......PICS........is what you see..!!!! IS.....what you get........most use thier best photo....mine is now 2 yrs old...not the best i know...so what..!!!no shocks.........who can say that about thiers.....be honest now.........just asking....
I look to see how many pictures are there and if they look like REAL pictures or not...if they look staged/posed/you know what i mean, i wont look at the profile any further
Not to sound superficial but in all sincerity I always hone in on the attractiveness of the individual first and foremost. That's what draws my initial interest and propels me to check out the rest of their profile.
texasgent222: Not to sound superficial but in all sincerity I always hone in on the attractiveness of the individual first and foremost. That's what draws my initial interest and propels me to check out the rest of their profile.
And then after we read the profile, 9 times out of 10 it's.....
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