Some people are looking for relationships. Personally I am not into endless e-mails and chats and like to meet for a casual coffee. If that works out and dating begins, then spending time with each other on a regular basis and spending time getting to know them well, meetig their friends and they meeting yours and also families eventually...MUCH easier closer to home; AND much less pressure to'decide' than with one visit every few months!
Each person's choice, it depends what they are searching for in a relationship. Sometimes it's cool to meet people from different parts of the world and just remain "pen-pals".
2Whitedoves: Each person's choice, it depends what they are searching for in a relationship. Sometimes it's cool to meet people from different parts of the world and just remain "pen-pals".
It is a reasonable decision by someone who cannot see the point of a long-distance relationship. It does not seem to work, though. I still get daily emails from black men in Ghana and Nigeria who pretend very badly to be white women in various parts of the world.
2Whitedoves: Each person's choice, it depends what they are searching for in a relationship. Sometimes it's cool to meet people from different parts of the world and just remain "pen-pals".
Well, then, it's a good thing I have my email set to "North America."
Pure choice, it is a dating website, apart from the rest of the stuff that goes on here. If people choose to date from where they are from, what has it got to do with anyone else. Plus it stops all the perverts from contacting them. Simple.
2Whitedoves: Each person's choice, it depends what they are searching for in a relationship. Sometimes it's cool to meet people from different parts of the world and just remain "pen-pals".
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