I might be a good thing if people did make it a main consideration before marrying!!!! It´s supposed to be a lifelong commitment, but statistics show we are failing miserably.
The word *marriage* will be obsolete in a few years. In general, Love has changed its true meaning, hence marriage has become easily disposable. Why bother?
Davinadia: Just wanna know if people still think about it
I've found that, through experience, the two very things (politics & religion) which we are all commonly warned against discussing with a date, are two of the major issues affecting compatibility. This does not make a lot of sense to me, so they are the first two things I get out into the open. If you don't agree with someone on these issues (as well as several others), then, believe me, your relationship is going to suck.
deeluciousJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa3 posts
I don't think it is, because they would not consider dating in the first place! When it becomes a problem, I think its more that one of the two are looking for a lame excuse to get out! Just get out, don't make excuses! People complicate it, its suppose to be unconditional compromising love!
Davinadia: Just wanna know if people still think about it
yes, religion is an important consideration to me. if he is religious, i'm not usually interested. i prefer 'spiritual' rather than religious dogma. i also prefer independent thinkers.
venusenvy: YIKES!!! Is it any wonder peeps are unhappy in relationships when they put religion above love?
But that´s probably where the unhappiness arises........they don´t give enough thought to the commitment. The "love" requires nourishment throughout the couple´s lives, so maybe if they thought about the religious connotation they might put a bit more effort in when things start to go wrong.
hoolet: But that´s probably where the unhappiness arises........they don´t give enough thought to the commitment. The "love" requires nourishment throughout the couple´s lives, so maybe if they thought about the religious connotation they might put a bit more effort in when things start to go wrong.
Could be Hoo...If only peeps were as attentive to love instead of religion Im sure many of them would be happier
Cyn_RealHappily Taken,, New Territories Hong Kong515 posts
well, in my country...Marriage is a great institution which is able to identify that somebody is a real human being, not just a mammal who can easily change partner !!!
You mean that only religious people are human beings? Let me tell you this, 95% of religious people are the once who change partners lady. The rest of us "animals" think a little better before we get married so we don't get divorced.
Cyn_RealHappily Taken,, New Territories Hong Kong515 posts
Boy67: You mean that only religious people are human beings? Let me tell you this, 95% of religious people are the once who change partners lady. The rest of us "animals" think a little better before we get married so we don't get divorced.
Again...about reality : In many cases, religion is only a cover to gain ambition !!!!! Somewhat a label !!!!! But, I still try to do my best !!!!!
Cyn_Real: Again...about reality : In many cases, religion is only a cover to gain ambition !!!!! Somewhat a label !!!!! But, I still try to do my best !!!!!
I'm so very happy that you figured out hoe to use the quote function, it pleases me to no end.
So, you're saying that you use religion to gain entry, like a burglar with a mask, but don't actually believe in it, unless you have to?
Cyn_RealHappily Taken,, New Territories Hong Kong515 posts
So, you're saying that you use religion to gain entry, like a burglar with a mask, but don't actually believe in it, unless you have to?
Are you sure you're not a right wing American?
Sorry, I am not interested in politics !!! hahahahaha !!! I love PEACE !!! I've just said what I saw in a real life !!! And, I still try to do my best !!!
Buddhist, Jews, Hindu, Islam, Christian, Catholic...ect....sometimes just a label !!! I never blame religion !!! No religion teach evil things !!! But, religion can't guarantee people's behaviour !!!
it depends on the person, a man gets married with 4 women where all wives have the same rights or a man gets married with 1 woman and keeps 3 women as mistresses without proper rights ... I prefer a man gets married with 1 woman without any other mistresses or wives ... anyone who willing to share their cookies ?
Davinadia: it depends on the person, a man gets married with 4 women where all wives have the same rights or a man gets married with 1 woman and keeps 3 women as mistresses without proper rights ... I prefer a man gets married with 1 woman without any other mistresses or wives ... anyone who willing to share their cookies ?
According to your religion you should accept the man to have other women otherwise you are a sinner according to your immam, isn't it. My "religion" (logic) tells me that one man is fine for one woman after he commited.
Boy67: According to your religion you should accept the man to have other women otherwise you are a sinner according to your immam, isn't it. My "religion" (logic) tells me that one man is fine for one woman after he commited.
how people know someone is a sinner only for not accepting someone who already has many wives ? if she insults him ... yes. people has the right to accept it or not
it has nothing to do with any religions, better never talk about other religions if we never learn before or only to find small thing in other religions we cannot accept by our mind we don't even have knowledge about it.
for you is your religion and for me is my religion ...
Davinadia: how people know someone is a sinner only for not accepting someone who already has many wives ? if she insults him ... yes. people has the right to accept it or not
it has nothing to do with any religions, better never talk about other religions if we never learn before or only to find small thing in other religions we cannot accept by our mind we don't even have knowledge about it.
for you is your religion and for me is my religion ...
I am sorry lady but i am an Atheist for this specific reason. No imaginary, invisible thing that hungs from the sky will tell me what to do in my life.
Davinadia: it depends on the person, a man gets married with 4 women where all wives have the same rights or a man gets married with 1 woman and keeps 3 women as mistresses without proper rights ... I prefer a man gets married with 1 woman without any other mistresses or wives ... anyone who willing to share their cookies ?
Well when you say don't bring religion into this - why did you mention 4 wives (Islamic tradition) - why not 5 or 6? If its your beleive that its right thing to do, then state it boldly. I felt that your covertly expressing your opinion here.
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