When a cute lady, after meeting few times, invites you for a lunch, what should be the response, esp (18)
I Don't think she's going to eat you for lunch, go for it. 
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You accept the invitation.And during lunch you'll find out the reason for the invitation. Sounds logical to me.
Nicce: I am facing this problem. She invited me once, I could not attend, I apologized timely (before the time fixed for lunch). After some days, she invited me again and I said that I will tell you latter. I have no idea what to do and also dot know why she is inviting me. I would need comments, suggestions or guidance from the forum.
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CuddlingSoul: I Don't think she's going to eat you for lunch, go for it.
He might be the main course
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Hello Nicce,
A pleasant day to you young man.
First, I want to asked you if you knew this young cute lady who is inviting you...? Is she your friend or acquaintances?
If not; then maintained yourself as a Gentleman. At the first invitation you denied her. Then the second time... again she invited you.
Young man, it is common sense that the cute lady likes you.
You should do your move to invite her. That is the sign that if you invited her... She will go with you.
Be a gentleman then. And never be rude to your words and actions.
Goodluck Young man!
A pleasant day to you young man.
First, I want to asked you if you knew this young cute lady who is inviting you...? Is she your friend or acquaintances?
If not; then maintained yourself as a Gentleman. At the first invitation you denied her. Then the second time... again she invited you.
Young man, it is common sense that the cute lady likes you.
You should do your move to invite her. That is the sign that if you invited her... She will go with you.
Be a gentleman then. And never be rude to your words and actions.
Goodluck Young man!
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Nicce: I am facing this problem. She invited me once, I could not attend, I apologized timely (before the time fixed for lunch). After some days, she invited me again and I said that I will tell you latter. I have no idea what to do and also dot know why she is inviting me. I would need comments, suggestions or guidance from the forum.
Why do some people seem to make somethings so darn complicated then they really are?
Have you ever thought of asking her why she's inviting you?
Maybe she's just being nice or wants to get to know you.
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Nicce: I am facing this problem. She invited me once, I could not attend, I apologized timely (before the time fixed for lunch). After some days, she invited me again and I said that I will tell you latter. I have no idea what to do and also dot know why she is inviting me. I would need comments, suggestions or guidance from the forum.
what's the fear? If uncomfortable just make sure its in a public place. Go have some fun. I know some men don't like to be hunted they like to do the hunting but its 2012 women are fearless and go after what they want in life women today are 1st listed in homeownership cars you name it. Try it she just might be the one...------ This poll is Archived ------
Ccincy: Why do some people seem to make somethings so darn complicated then they really are?
Have you ever thought of asking her why she's inviting you?
Maybe she's just being nice or wants to get to know you.
Have you ever thought of asking her why she's inviting you?
Maybe she's just being nice or wants to get to know you.
Happens all the time, I usually go so as not to hurt their feelings-
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You should ask someone from the country you are in because all of our manners might be different.
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Witchaywoman: You should ask someone from the country you are in because all of our manners might be different.
Exactly, as for example, here in China, a lunch meeting is very common, just to discuss work/ask for advice/ company, nothing more or less.
Same goes for a dinner date.
Just tonight I had dinner with a young girl who wanted advice on an upcoming trip to England, so sadly, purely business
lol, it was all arranged and paid for by a work colleague of mine.Every culture have their own way to hold meetings, the easiest answer to the OP's question, is attend and ask her.
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So go to lunch already...Take a chance in life
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if u like her, just come n have lunch with her. if u dont like, u can refuse in nice way. Why u get confuse? Or u scare that u must pay the billing? Just to decide about lunch, u take soo much of time and ask advise. Its shown that u not mature enough nor independent in taking decision. If such simple thing u cant decide, how u decide about life, about big problem? keep hide under mom's shoulder.
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She invites you as she is broke and wants you to pay.
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Solamente: She invites you as she is broke and wants you to pay.
I always thought the one inviting will pay the bill?If I don't know someone and don't know if there will be a second date, I would be more comfortable myself paying half.
Otherwise taking turns with inviting, paying etc. 
As for Nicce, if you like her, go for it! You obviously met a few times, so that might be the next step.
Best of luck for the 2 of you.
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Nicce: I am facing this problem. She invited me once, I could not attend, I apologized timely (before the time fixed for lunch). After some days, she invited me again and I said that I will tell you latter. I have no idea what to do and also dot know why she is inviting me. I would need comments, suggestions or guidance from the forum.
And that's a problem...
Anyway, you say yes. It's remarkable how you've accidently handled it brilliantly. She'll be more interested in you for saying no the first time, and positively tingle when you said later.
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heavensmile: if u like her, just come n have lunch with her. if u dont like, u can refuse in nice way. Why u get confuse? Or u scare that u must pay the billing? Just to decide about lunch, u take soo much of time and ask advise. Its shown that u not mature enough nor independent in taking decision. If such simple thing u cant decide, how u decide about life, about big problem? keep hide under mom's shoulder.
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tomcatwarne: Happens all the time, I usually go so as not to hurt their feelings-
I just knew they were knocking down your door wanting go out with you - women by the dozen...
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Nicce: I am facing this problem. She invited me once, I could not attend, I apologized timely (before the time fixed for lunch). After some days, she invited me again and I said that I will tell you latter. I have no idea what to do and also dot know why she is inviting me. I would need comments, suggestions or guidance from the forum.
why do you have no idea what to do and need a reason as to why?
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