L_B76Italy,Germany ,Switzerland, Greater London, England UK1,117 posts
hoolet: No.........I don´t agree.........just cos you move on in life doesn´t mean they weren´t friends. Nobody was using anybody else...they just happened to be in your life at a certain time. One of my dearest friends I lost touch with for 8 years and we met again quite by chance, and now have a very close relationship. So there´s nothing to say that if I met another "acquaintance" from the past that a genuine friendship would not ensue. There are very few "friends" from my past that I would not trust. I find most people trustworthy until they are faced with their own personal difficulties, then their circumstances dictate how they behave.
dont know u or probably i am different from u... but in my life i had half of the people i met... was hanging around me for one reason or another.... and let me tell u almost 37yrs and i can still count 5 true friends I CAN CALL FRIENDS...
but then if u have been lucky all the people u met in ur life was true friends... WELL HAPPY FOR U!!!!
BUT LET ME SAY NOT ALL ARE LUCKY LIKE U...
i respect all u say... but i am pretty sure in all i say why i was THERE and u weren't!
L_B76: dont know u or probably i am different from u... but in my life i had half of the people i met... was hanging around me for one reason or another.... and let me tell u almost 37yrs and i can still count 5 true friends I CAN CALL FRIENDS...
but then if u have been lucky all the people u met in ur life was true friends... WELL HAPPY FOR U!!!!
BUT LET ME SAY NOT ALL ARE LUCKY LIKE U...
i respect all u say... but i am pretty sure in all i say why i was THERE and u weren't!
Well, it has been said that if you can count your friends on 1 hand you are very lucky. By that I presume they mean people who will back you up, find money for you, never let you down. I KNOW I could find more than 5.............how lucky I am.
L_B76Italy,Germany ,Switzerland, Greater London, England UK1,117 posts
hoolet: Well, it has been said that if you can count your friends on 1 hand you are very lucky. By that I presume they mean people who will back you up, find money for you, never let you down. I KNOW I could find more than 5.............how lucky I am.
if u lucky... what u want me to tell ya... good for u! sure is not all are lucky like u are.. or maybe ur some kind of wizard... sure is i know whats going on in my life,and whats happened in the past... errr now u let me think about let me recheck again the 5 ive been calling friends.. might can be less than 5
L_B76Italy,Germany ,Switzerland, Greater London, England UK1,117 posts
hoolet: Well, it has been said that if you can count your friends on 1 hand you are very lucky. By that I presume they mean people who will back you up, find money for you, never let you down. I KNOW I could find more than 5.............how lucky I am.
we are talking about an acquaintance u've met not long ago...<<<<<<it mean something for u that?
I have had an experience here in CS. Met a guy October 2011, had a mutual understanding from October to December 2011, then gone without saying any word. I was devastated of course, hurt, depressed. Then out of the blue appear in my mail, (November 2012) until now, and texting me on phone. He said hello once again, and also stated he left without saying goodbye because he felt the thing between us the last time was very intense. I do not know what he meant by that. Well, I didn't ask too much.
justjim63port macquarie, New South Wales Australia2,592 posts
Time means nothing to real friends, one minute, one hour,one year, friendship isn't determined by time or distance apart but by how you relate to each other, friendship is timeless.
L_B76: what would u say if after a while u've lost contact with one person,that person come back and makes her/his apology why vanished without say a word... we are talking about an acquaintance u've met not long ago...
short funny comments... please no arrogance Thanks!!!!!!!
I'd give him/her a chance--you never know what might have happened. However, I wouldn't allow it to become habitual. JMO
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There are very few "friends" from my past that I would not trust. I find most people trustworthy until they are faced with their own personal difficulties, then their circumstances dictate how they behave.
dont know u or probably i am different from u...
but in my life i had half of the people i met...
was hanging around me for one reason or another....
and let me tell u almost 37yrs and i can still count 5 true friends
I CAN CALL FRIENDS...
but then if u have been lucky all the people u met in ur life was true friends...
WELL HAPPY FOR U!!!!
BUT LET ME SAY NOT ALL ARE LUCKY LIKE U...
i respect all u say...
but i am pretty sure in all i say why i was THERE
and u weren't!