When a woman says 'you seem like a really nice guy' What does it really mean? (78)

Jun 26, 2013 8:05 AM CST When a woman says 'you seem like a really nice guy' What does it really mean?
BB_snickers
BB_snickersBB_snickersNarnia, Ontario Canada56 Threads 3,755 Posts
Obstinance_Works: It means you're a loser in how women define the word loser - which is the opposite of how functional civilisation defines the word loser.

Now the unemployed alcoholic badboy with charisma is how civilisation defines the loser, yet 10 women mates with him before 1 woman mates with the sensible accountant. This trash amongst men is a leader amongst women.

My theory is that women, being the mothers of life, are inbuilt by mother nature to have a population inhibitor. Civilisations naturally liberalise with age - they're born paternal and die maternal - and to stop civilisation from spreading too far and killing all the animals and trees women gain equality in late/decadent civilisation and begin undoing the culture, destroying all sense of organisation and responsibility and breeding the race into the ground - thereby halting civilisation's advance, saving the animals and trees, and returning humanity to the limited and primitive tribal existence of the eternal peasant.


That's an interesting theory. You seem like a nice guy. laugh

I think women want relationships and connections, probably more so than men. They are in conflict however with the social pressure of improving career and being self sufficient (mostly a result of feminism) or having/giving it up to have a man.

Women naturally seek a status male but when they themselves seek those male characteristics, (their own status) internal conflict results in phrases like "i don't need a man but i want a man". That will permeate all their relationships with consistent and divisive doubt.

For most women brought up in western ideology this conflict is ingrained now and not many deal with it very well. What they end up with is a 'relative' successful career (feminism dictates that she doesn't get caught alone and unable to care for self) that just becomes 'things or stuff to her' but no man to settle her nurturing needs.

I don't think women are purposefully intent on undermining themselves or relationships; but they are somewhat unaware in the obvious cause affect nature of adopted feminist ideologies that do undermine male/female relationships.

This has also caused, in your words, so many men accepting beta (more feminine) roles which further feeds the female conflict that they must succeed in status rather than relationships.

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Jun 26, 2013 2:14 PM CST When a woman says 'you seem like a really nice guy' What does it really mean?
Ken_19
Ken_19Ken_19Winchester, Virginia USA68 Threads 26 Polls 1,055 Posts
It means, she has not the slightest bit of interest in sleeping with you.
Jun 26, 2013 2:24 PM CST When a woman says 'you seem like a really nice guy' What does it really mean?
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
i'm going out on a limb here...
but i think it might mean...
she thinks you're a nice guy

dunno laugh
Jul 7, 2013 2:55 AM CST When a woman says 'you seem like a really nice guy' What does it really mean?
arapaho
arapahoarapahobrisbane, Queensland Australia3 Threads 678 Posts
It means she is not interested,,and probably you will not see much of her if at all in the future,
had it said to me more then once,, its confused confused
being called interesting is also, confused confused
Jul 7, 2013 2:57 AM CST When a woman says 'you seem like a really nice guy' What does it really mean?
santi83
santi83santi83Bekasi, West Java Indonesia1 Threads 512 Posts
that she like to get to know you better? dunno
Jul 7, 2013 3:00 AM CST When a woman says 'you seem like a really nice guy' What does it really mean?
arapaho
arapahoarapahobrisbane, Queensland Australia3 Threads 678 Posts
santi83: that she like to get to know you better?


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing does not!!!
Jul 7, 2013 3:05 AM CST When a woman says 'you seem like a really nice guy' What does it really mean?
santi83
santi83santi83Bekasi, West Java Indonesia1 Threads 512 Posts
arapaho: does not!!!



well , if i ever saying to someone that he is trully a nice guy it means i would like to meet him and date him cheers


not a friend material , lol


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Jul 7, 2013 3:11 AM CST When a woman says 'you seem like a really nice guy' What does it really mean?
arapaho
arapahoarapahobrisbane, Queensland Australia3 Threads 678 Posts
santi83: well , if i ever saying to someone that he is trully a nice guy it means i would like to meet him and date him not a friend material , lol


Well i'm a nice guy,,,,so many have told me,,
Jul 7, 2013 3:18 AM CST When a woman says 'you seem like a really nice guy' What does it really mean?
santi83
santi83santi83Bekasi, West Java Indonesia1 Threads 512 Posts
arapaho: Well i'm a nice guy,,,,so many have told me,,



good to know smile
Jul 7, 2013 3:21 AM CST When a woman says 'you seem like a really nice guy' What does it really mean?
arapaho
arapahoarapahobrisbane, Queensland Australia3 Threads 678 Posts
santi83: good to know


Well has not been that good to me,
but i don't mind being called that,,,,least i can sleep at night,
generally means alone but !! crying crying crying
Jul 7, 2013 3:24 AM CST When a woman says 'you seem like a really nice guy' What does it really mean?
santi83
santi83santi83Bekasi, West Java Indonesia1 Threads 512 Posts
arapaho: Well has not been that good to me,
but i don't mind being called that,,,,least i can sleep at night,
generally means alone but !!



don't lose hope, keep looking

hope you are lucky next time around comfort
Jul 7, 2013 3:46 AM CST When a woman says 'you seem like a really nice guy' What does it really mean?
StillOfTheNight
StillOfTheNightStillOfTheNightClarenville Area, Newfoundland Canada11 Threads 2,832 Posts
santi83: I hope he doesn't do that B. He definitely can find a date near where he lived. don't encourage him, lol


a little encouragement would do me good lol
Jul 20, 2013 7:26 PM CST When a woman says 'you seem like a really nice guy' What does it really mean?
happy369
happy369happy369Onehorsetown, Indonesia979 Posts
for me, he is a really nice guy, thats all
Jul 20, 2013 7:29 PM CST When a woman says 'you seem like a really nice guy' What does it really mean?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
When I told my guy I thought he was a nice guy I met it and we're together ever since.
Jul 20, 2013 7:32 PM CST When a woman says 'you seem like a really nice guy' What does it really mean?
janie1305
janie1305janie1305Southampton, Hampshire, England UK16 Threads 916 Posts
I'm sure it means just that, but it's also a polite way of saying not interested in a romantic relationship.
Jul 21, 2013 3:26 AM CST When a woman says 'you seem like a really nice guy' What does it really mean?
lauryna
laurynalaurynaWroclaw, Lower Silesia Poland19 Posts
It doesnt mean anything. Nice guy means a nice guy. Very simplelaugh
Jul 21, 2013 3:34 AM CST When a woman says 'you seem like a really nice guy' What does it really mean?
arapaho
arapahoarapahobrisbane, Queensland Australia3 Threads 678 Posts
Lets be friends,,,doh its all over when they say that,
seriously i have been called a nice guy many times
and yet had very few if any dates,,in fact i don't think i have had one date with a woman who has said that to me,,
have also been called interesting a few times,,
Jul 21, 2013 7:16 AM CST When a woman says 'you seem like a really nice guy' What does it really mean?
rebel2
rebel2rebel2Alicante, Valencia Spain8 Threads 6,354 Posts
It just means they want to get into your underpants....dont be fooled snooty
Aug 7, 2013 12:33 PM CST When a woman says 'you seem like a really nice guy' What does it really mean?
Papermate
PapermatePapermatelos angeles, California USA3 Threads 92 Posts
It means.. you are a nice guy. So pls, get out of the way.
Aug 7, 2013 1:08 PM CST When a woman says 'you seem like a really nice guy' What does it really mean?
minnie50
minnie50minnie50puerto plata, Puerto Plata Dominican Republic3 Threads 2 Polls 710 Posts
It seems the meaning is different depending the cultures ...
for me a nice guy is a nice guy and I mean it.
Aug 7, 2013 1:20 PM CST When a woman says 'you seem like a really nice guy' What does it really mean?
....I agree with Minnie.......why make a big thing about it.....if a woman pays you a compliment....just say thank.you.........jmo.
Aug 7, 2013 1:35 PM CST When a woman says 'you seem like a really nice guy' What does it really mean?
minnie50
minnie50minnie50puerto plata, Puerto Plata Dominican Republic3 Threads 2 Polls 710 Posts
yes....Nick was a nice guy until he dissapeared LOL...laugh
Aug 7, 2013 1:36 PM CST When a woman says 'you seem like a really nice guy' What does it really mean?
scriobhneoir
scriobhneoirscriobhneoirCork, Ireland85 Threads 2 Polls 3,276 Posts
To me it means "if I could gouge out my eyes with a rusty scissors so I'd never have to look at your ugly face I still wouldn't ride you but I'd gladly meet you for a coffee and humour.you about how there is a woman out there for you." Or "you'd make a great fay best friend."
Aug 7, 2013 1:43 PM CST When a woman says 'you seem like a really nice guy' What does it really mean?
minnie50: yes....Nick was a nice guy until he dissapeared LOL...
ha...but that was nick....not me.......hug
Aug 7, 2013 1:48 PM CST When a woman says 'you seem like a really nice guy' What does it really mean?
truheart1941: ha...but that was nick....not me.......
...(ps)....in real life I am a nice guy.....who takes no one for granted.....
Aug 7, 2013 1:52 PM CST When a woman says 'you seem like a really nice guy' What does it really mean?
minnie50
minnie50minnie50puerto plata, Puerto Plata Dominican Republic3 Threads 2 Polls 710 Posts
thumbs up

as it should be.
Aug 9, 2013 2:49 PM CST When a woman says 'you seem like a really nice guy' What does it really mean?
KenAdams101
KenAdams101KenAdams101Somewhere in Co, Kilkenny Ireland8 Threads 35 Posts
The friend zone it means. You`re a good guy to keep as a friend.

I fell sorry for ya, if this happened to ya. crying crying

gift Here`s some chocolates for you to cheer you up. grin
Sep 4, 2013 6:13 PM CST When a woman says 'you seem like a really nice guy' What does it really mean?
Freedomofspeech9
Freedomofspeech9Freedomofspeech9Swansea, Dyfed, Wales UK94 Threads 67 Polls 799 Posts
Yep that along with it's not you it's me are now well known copouts!
Sep 4, 2013 6:20 PM CST When a woman says 'you seem like a really nice guy' What does it really mean?
Freedomofspeech9
Freedomofspeech9Freedomofspeech9Swansea, Dyfed, Wales UK94 Threads 67 Polls 799 Posts
Your a good friend, a nice guy, You remind me of my brother, but wait for it.......she would never be attracted to you if you were the last man on earth.

Your a pretty cool guy, hey you must workout, your place or minethumbs up wink
rolling on the floor laughing
Sep 4, 2013 7:40 PM CST When a woman says 'you seem like a really nice guy' What does it really mean?
Accept it for what it is, a compliment. There are so many distasteful adjectives that could easily replace "nice", why second guess yourself into one of them?
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