Love-- you have to decide, and please comment your decision (226)

Nov 3, 2013 3:47 PM CST Love-- you have to decide, and please comment your decision
SoonerGal: you can thank me later you were a tough one


Thank You Thank You, I know I am a tough onemumbling

Maybe I will get better???? Or Not?blues laugh
Nov 3, 2013 3:48 PM CST Love-- you have to decide, and please comment your decision
bodleing2
bodleing2bodleing2Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK84 Threads 6,132 Posts
Glatlol: No I dont believe it is, it is courage yes but not love.

eh pardon?


Courage...yes that's a convenient label to attach. But what does it mean, where does the courage come from? How many times have you heard of people performing great acts of bravery in the course of selflessly saving others? Where does that bravery come from?...Think about it.

As for my little mantra...if it's not for you, that's fine, but there is solace to be found in it for some people, I can assure you of that.

bouquet
Nov 3, 2013 3:49 PM CST Love-- you have to decide, and please comment your decision
Glatlol
GlatlolGlatlolDublin, Ireland2 Threads 5,358 Posts
bodleing2: Courage...yes that's a convenient label to attach. But what does it mean, where does the courage come from? How many times have you heard of people performing great acts of bravery in the course of selflessly saving others? Where does that bravery come from?...Think about it.

As for my little mantra...if it's not for you, that's fine, but there is solace to be found in it for some people, I can assure you of that.


And I think "love" is the label.
Nov 3, 2013 3:51 PM CST Love-- you have to decide, and please comment your decision
NAKEDMUDPEOPLE: Both is equal.
Greedy is more.
More than equal is greedy and if greedy is what means more,
you will suffer the
love of God.
jmho


Would it be Wrong to not want Both?uh oh uh oh dunno wave
Nov 3, 2013 3:54 PM CST Love-- you have to decide, and please comment your decision
bodleing2
bodleing2bodleing2Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK84 Threads 6,132 Posts
Glatlol: And I think "love" is the label.


And don't you wear it well Y...grin

Anyway, enough of all this, I'm off to the pub, they've got a gorgeous new barmaid down there...and I think I'm in love...laugh

wave hug
Nov 3, 2013 3:55 PM CST Love-- you have to decide, and please comment your decision
Glatlol
GlatlolGlatlolDublin, Ireland2 Threads 5,358 Posts
bodleing2: And don't you wear it well Y...

Anyway, enough of all this, I'm off to the pub, they've got a gorgeous new barmaid down there...and I think I'm in love...



Enjoy, have one for me cheers
Nov 3, 2013 3:57 PM CST Love-- you have to decide, and please comment your decision
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
bodleing2: And don't you wear it well Y...

Anyway, enough of all this, I'm off to the pub, they've got a gorgeous new barmaid down there...and I think I'm in love...


If she doesn't reciprocate your advances and kicks you in the nads, will you still love her. giggle Have fun at the pub. wave
Nov 3, 2013 3:58 PM CST Love-- you have to decide, and please comment your decision
rebel2
rebel2rebel2Alicante, Valencia Spain8 Threads 6,354 Posts
2intrigued: If she doesn't reciprocate your advances and kicks you in the nads, will you still love her. Have fun at the pub.
That made my eyes water doh
Nov 3, 2013 3:59 PM CST Love-- you have to decide, and please comment your decision
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
bodleing2: And don't you wear it well Y...

Anyway, enough of all this, I'm off to the pub, they've got a gorgeous new barmaid down there...and I think I'm in love...



Have one for me too!!! wave cheers
Nov 3, 2013 3:59 PM CST Love-- you have to decide, and please comment your decision
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
rebel2: That made my eyes water


comfort laugh wave
Nov 3, 2013 4:00 PM CST Love-- you have to decide, and please comment your decision
bowing Never is both wrong, both is all of the above.
When equal causes fear it is not fair.
Fair is what every human on Earth has paid for.
HotrodLarrys: Would it be Wrong to not want Both?
Nov 3, 2013 4:17 PM CST Love-- you have to decide, and please comment your decision
NAKEDMUDPEOPLE: Never is both wrong, both is all of the above.
When equal causes fear it is not fair.
Fair is what every human on Earth has paid for.


Love should never cause fear, But sad many times it does!mumbling mumbling

And clearly harder to move on!roll eyes conversing
Nov 4, 2013 12:10 AM CST Love-- you have to decide, and please comment your decision
Pom_Pom
Pom_PomPom_PomBuenos Aires, Argentina71 Threads 32 Polls 1,740 Posts
Love is dead.
Nov 4, 2013 3:29 AM CST Love-- you have to decide, and please comment your decision
nokundi
nokundinokundicountryside, Hessen Germany3 Threads 2 Polls 1,368 Posts
Pom_Pom: Love is dead.


comfort Just be patient, you are alive, so love has only holidays.

i promise, holidays will be over.
Nov 4, 2013 3:32 AM CST Love-- you have to decide, and please comment your decision
nokundi
nokundinokundicountryside, Hessen Germany3 Threads 2 Polls 1,368 Posts
HotrodLarrys: I want Both! Is that being Greedy?



if you want both, you have just to choose ---"to love"
Nov 4, 2013 4:19 AM CST Love-- you have to decide, and please comment your decision
nokundi
nokundinokundicountryside, Hessen Germany3 Threads 2 Polls 1,368 Posts
lucynad: love is love... and it is wonderful


good morning lucynadhug peace
Nov 4, 2013 4:26 AM CST Love-- you have to decide, and please comment your decision
lucynad
lucynadlucynadSunny city, Sicilia Italy7 Threads 2,431 Posts
nokundi: good morning lucynad


hiya, nokundi wave

so nice to read your previous post..cheers

i think the same..

also, limiting love to the man-woman relationship is pauperizing it...it is so much more than that..
Nov 4, 2013 4:35 AM CST Love-- you have to decide, and please comment your decision
nokundi
nokundinokundicountryside, Hessen Germany3 Threads 2 Polls 1,368 Posts
lucynad: hiya, nokundi

so nice to read your previous post..

i think the same..

also, limiting love to the man-woman relationship is pauperizing it...it is so much more than that..


love is the solution for all problemspurple heart

Is it still warm in sicilia?
Nov 4, 2013 4:43 AM CST Love-- you have to decide, and please comment your decision
lucynad
lucynadlucynadSunny city, Sicilia Italy7 Threads 2,431 Posts
nokundi: love is the solution for all problems

Is it still warm in sicilia?


yessssssssssssssssssssss..and i love it!

today is a splendid, sunny and warm day..we still go out with t-shirts...

life is good when the sun is shining..yay

i am like girasole, italian name for sunflower..

it literally means "i turn towards the sun", such a smart flower it is...smitten laugh
Nov 4, 2013 5:43 AM CST Love-- you have to decide, and please comment your decision
nokundi
nokundinokundicountryside, Hessen Germany3 Threads 2 Polls 1,368 Posts
lucynad: yessssssssssssssssssssss..and i love it!

today is a splendid, sunny and warm day..we still go out with t-shirts...

life is good when the sun is shining..

i am like girasole, italian name for sunflower..

it literally means "i turn towards the sun", such a smart flower it is...


What a nice postlove

I am getting jealous, over here it is cold, rainy and windy- i would like to live in a warmer country.I dont like cold weather.
A short winter is ok, but here it is toooooo long.

Now i have to go out for work,
enjoy live girasole, ciao bella

hug
Nov 4, 2013 5:52 AM CST Love-- you have to decide, and please comment your decision
AgentAjax
AgentAjaxAgentAjaxBrisbane, Queensland Australia81 Threads 1 Polls 3,965 Posts
Love is a deceitful killer it has killed more people than any other human condition.
Nov 4, 2013 7:09 AM CST Love-- you have to decide, and please comment your decision
Glitch101
Glitch101Glitch101London, Greater London, England UK21 Threads 1,079 Posts
bodleing2: Whether you believe in 'soul' is not important really.

But can I ask you?

What is it that drives the firefighter into the burning building to save a stranger? Is that not love from somewhere deep inside?
That is the kind of love that matters, not what our culture calls love, with it's love songs and poems...that isn't love at all, that's the opposite of love. That's desire, control and possessiveness. It's manipulation, fear and anxiety.
To really love you have to love yourself first, and I mean truly love yourself...that is the hardest part.

I posted this earlier in another thread, but it's worth saying to yourself now and again, the results can be quite overwhelming.

I love you
Please forgive me
I'm sorry
Thank you.

Spread love wherever you go without expecting anything in return, you will be surprised with the results.



So little of it about these days.Bod.hug
Nov 4, 2013 7:17 AM CST Love-- you have to decide, and please comment your decision
Glitch101
Glitch101Glitch101London, Greater London, England UK21 Threads 1,079 Posts
AgentAjax: Love is a deceitful killer it has killed more people than any other human condition.


So has war. Is that inseparable from the human condition,or part of the problem.sigh
Nov 4, 2013 1:04 PM CST Love-- you have to decide, and please comment your decision
AgentAjax
AgentAjaxAgentAjaxBrisbane, Queensland Australia81 Threads 1 Polls 3,965 Posts
Glitch101: So has war. Is that inseparable from the human condition,or part of the problem.


Crimes of passion=love

Patriotism =love

Religions =love

Freedom=love

These are the four major reasons people around the world kill or die for, all are motives of love.
Nov 4, 2013 1:21 PM CST Love-- you have to decide, and please comment your decision
nokundi
nokundinokundicountryside, Hessen Germany3 Threads 2 Polls 1,368 Posts
AgentAjax: Crimes of passion=love

Patriotism =love

Religions =love

Freedom=love

These are the four major reasons people around the world kill or die for, all are motives of love.


NO! These reasons are made in the name of love,love has no motivation.
Thats a difference.
Nov 4, 2013 1:26 PM CST Love-- you have to decide, and please comment your decision
AgentAjax
AgentAjaxAgentAjaxBrisbane, Queensland Australia81 Threads 1 Polls 3,965 Posts
nokundi: NO! These reasons are made in the name of love,love has no motivation.
Thats a difference.


That’s just a stupid reply really.

No offence meant by it its just stupid.
Nov 4, 2013 1:28 PM CST Love-- you have to decide, and please comment your decision
nokundi
nokundinokundicountryside, Hessen Germany3 Threads 2 Polls 1,368 Posts
AgentAjax: That’s just a stupid reply really.

No offence meant by it its just stupid.




you are always welcometongue
Nov 4, 2013 1:33 PM CST Love-- you have to decide, and please comment your decision
AgentAjax
AgentAjaxAgentAjaxBrisbane, Queensland Australia81 Threads 1 Polls 3,965 Posts
nokundi: you are always welcome
Love has no motive according to you but also according to you love is the reason FFS!!! SERIOUSLY DUDE!!!! laugh
Nov 4, 2013 1:34 PM CST Love-- you have to decide, and please comment your decision
LadyDiz
LadyDizLadyDizJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa1,320 Posts
I choose to love...and even if it's not reciprocated and pain is it's only reward, I at least feel that I am alive instead of existing in a world without colour or emotion.
Nov 4, 2013 1:36 PM CST Love-- you have to decide, and please comment your decision
steffffie
steffffiesteffffieChicago, Illinois USA8 Threads 598 Posts
LadyDiz: I choose to love...and even if it's not reciprocated and pain is it's only reward, I at least feel that I am alive instead of existing in a world without colour or emotion.


“I was born to join in love, not hate - that is my nature.”
? Sophocles, Antigone
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