NotABlondeSpringwood, New South Wales Australia1,210 posts
Can I ask, are you on other dating sites?
I've found this site tends to be for friendship (in my case) rather than getting to know someone with a view to a relationship. Whereas others are more one on one, without forums.
I have actually met 2 people from this site, tho being active in the forums helps, I agree that it is slow going, but dig in and post in the Forums, and check the FREE Dating sites, I can not mention them as it is against CS Rules, but also Do look in the real world as well... Never Close those doors, and in time, It will find You!
NotABlonde: Can I ask, are you on other dating sites?
I've found this site tends to be for friendship (in my case) rather than getting to know someone with a view to a relationship. Whereas others are more one on one, without forums.
Yep, that is the key. I have had better luck on other sites meeting local people. Good to have many options.
Best bet on here if you want to meet someone is to get active with email and contact those who profiles you like via search. Good luck!
I sure wouldn't take it personally if I were you, I can't see anyone actually getting together off this site...to much insincere communicating going on...but, you never know who may decide to join and just like that you could have a brand new life
twazzle70THE GORGOYNES......, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK689 posts
i would say keep trying..you never know...if you delete youre profile youre effectively reducing youre chances of meeting someone...stick at it would be my advice,,having said that,i havent had any success,,but i probably dont try hard enough,,,,anyway i hope youre luck changes...
NotABlondeSpringwood, New South Wales Australia1,210 posts
twazzle70: i would say keep trying..you never know...if you delete youre profile youre effectively reducing youre chances of meeting someone...stick at it would be my advice,,having said that,i havent had any success,,but i probably dont try hard enough,,,,anyway i hope youre luck changes...
Twazzle, you're one of the most genuine guys I've spoken to on here. Good luck finding what you want :)
twazzle70: i would say keep trying..you never know...if you delete youre profile youre effectively reducing youre chances of meeting someone...stick at it would be my advice,,having said that,i havent had any success,,but i probably dont try hard enough,,,,anyway i hope youre luck changes...
Introduce yourself in the Forums, and soon you will be recognized and people will be far more open to you!
Nov 11, 2013 10:27 PM CST When You're Here For 2 Year's And Never Meet Anyone,Do You..
Bspoken4My forest, Western Cape South Africa636 Posts
Bspoken4My forest, Western Cape South Africa636 posts
Have faith & believe in yourself (and the world).. Draw up a nicer, fresher more attractive profile.. Put on some charming photos, smiles, make-up, etc...you know the drill!
Corazon53OPFredericton, New Brunswick Canada50 posts
NotABlonde: Can I ask, are you on other dating sites?
I've found this site tends to be for friendship (in my case) rather than getting to know someone with a view to a relationship. Whereas others are more one on one, without forums.
Yes Not a blonde,I'm also on Mingle2,with of course the same result's.
Corazon53OPFredericton, New Brunswick Canada50 posts
SoonerGal: I sure wouldn't take it personally if I were you, I can't see anyone actually getting together off this site...to much insincere communicating going on...but, you never know who may decide to join and just like that you could have a brand new life
Corazon53: The reason I created this poll is not only self explanatory but to make the decision as to wether I should delete my profile.
two years is a long time, i am only around two month here and think about taking a break or delete my account. Real life is better than virtuell life. But i have been most times in the forum. I will have a date and i found a friend who will come sooner or later over here.
I joined this site on 25 dec 2009,and i met with a maltese woman on this site and on 18 feb 2010 we became partneres and we were true lover and this was fantastic relationship but unluckily we broke on 18 feb 2012 exactly 2 years so I assure you you will get your soulmate here just keep on knocking the door. we look for love but when we get it we donot care for it that is tragedy.
HzChldSomewhere in the middle, Oklahoma USA2,779 posts
Corazon53: The reason I created this poll is not only self explanatory but to make the decision as to wether I should delete my profile.
This is a nice site with many friendly ppl. The key, I believe, is to talk here in the Forums. I believe many read the Forums but do not participate. This is one way to get to know others. Lastly, just have a good time here.
Corazon53: The reason I created this poll is not only self explanatory but to make the decision as to wether I should delete my profile.
Naa, this is a terrible place for actually meeting people. On a different site I've had more more dates in a week than I've had in all the time I've been on here(a wrist-slitting three years!). My advice is try elsewhere, you're really not the problem.
I have to say that if I were here, looking for someone, in 2 years' time...I'd cut my losses and try something else BUT your guy may be signing up as we speak...who knows?
In response to: Can I ask, are you on other dating sites?
I've found this site tends to be for friendship (in my case) rather than getting to know someone with a view to a relationship. Whereas others are more one on one, without forums.
I have only been here for a few months and have been fortunate to make a few good friends but I know that if within a year I don't meet anyone serious I will more than likely leave.
Stay on with your ad but try others (at least free sites) and when going out. This way, if anyone NEW comes on here they may find their type they've been searching for.
I'd slightly smile in 1 picture. Also, maybe mention a few favorite outings or things you like indoors (and can always mention you love other things are a variety of arts or nature etc. maybe like group like I classes or parties...or both solitude and together time. maybe unique because make people laugh or are loyal through thick and thin...put something else that makes you stand out other then dolphins so they can relate more so.)
Same as me at least two years on here.Not met anyone mainly due to the distance and where i am living i think.Well having said that i am also a bit fussy too.....
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