Could you ever really love someone that is in a wheelchair? (48)
unlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Postsreb56: get a rise n ride,lol.
sorry to hear reb i understand you very well ! at the end of her life my darling sister was disabled in a wheelchair, and she was always happy and so preoccupied for us all, rip angel 
lovemedofr: sorry to hear reb i understand you very well ! at the end of her life my darling sister was disabled in a wheelchair, and she was always happy and so preoccupied for us all, rip angel
god bless em all/rip.
Wow, so many responses. Thank you everyone for your encouraging comments and remarks. I really helps clear things up and put it in another light. Surprisingly, my emotional state is quite well, except for the dating part. I have met a couple ladies in person that I met online first. I gave them fair warning as to my condition. I'm a quadriplegic, but not a vent. I have a little use of my left hand. But nothing else works.
I think the dealbreaker for both times was that I don't seem like I'm disabled talking on the phone. When they see me in person I am more disabled than they expected. I think I was giving an accurate description of myself. Their loss, right?
Seems like the forums on this site will be fun. Looking forward to reading posts from all of you.
I think the dealbreaker for both times was that I don't seem like I'm disabled talking on the phone. When they see me in person I am more disabled than they expected. I think I was giving an accurate description of myself. Their loss, right?
Seems like the forums on this site will be fun. Looking forward to reading posts from all of you.
Imonwheels: Wow, so many responses. Thank you everyone for your encouraging comments and remarks. I really helps clear things up and put it in another light. Surprisingly, my emotional state is quite well, except for the dating part. I have met a couple ladies in person that I met online first. I gave them fair warning as to my condition. I'm a quadriplegic, but not a vent. I have a little use of my left hand. But nothing else works.
I think the dealbreaker for both times was that I don't seem like I'm disabled talking on the phone. When they see me in person I am more disabled than they expected. I think I was giving an accurate description of myself. Their loss, right?
Seems like the forums on this site will be fun. Looking forward to reading posts from all of you.
I think the dealbreaker for both times was that I don't seem like I'm disabled talking on the phone. When they see me in person I am more disabled than they expected. I think I was giving an accurate description of myself. Their loss, right?
Seems like the forums on this site will be fun. Looking forward to reading posts from all of you.
Not their loss, not your loss, it just didn't work out.
If you had a good time meeting up with a couple of people, you had a good time. Go meet some more.
There is someone out there for you.. Someone that sees you for who you are .... Don't give up... Wheelchair or not I am sure you are a wonderful person... I have a daughter that is in a wheelchair she is 27 years old.. but she has Cerebral Palsy. I know how some people think but it is not the whole world... Keep looking.... She is there... and to answer the question... I see the person that is inside not outside... I do not judge the book by it's cover.... Take care and may your journey in this life be good... go fine love
you have a good positive outlook my friend,thats a great help in youre search for someone,,hopefully theres someone out there for everyone,,enjoy the forums and best of luck with everything...
Pom_Pom: Does he have a life insurance?
Pom, I have a HUGE life insurance policy, from the federal government even! It pays a one-time benefit of $255... Its social security. So ya wanna get married?
Would especially be pen to those who became handicapped because helpful like firefighters, military etc. Depends on the person and values. People see things so different. I could overlook the ways it would also slow down my life at times if he had above AVERAGE ways of thinking..not perfect though either, of course.
Imonwheels: Pom, I have a HUGE life insurance policy, from the federal government even! It pays a one-time benefit of $255... Its social security. So ya wanna get married?
You have a great sense of humor and that's a plus
good luck to you 
In all honesty, the wheelchair in itself is not a deal breaker, but the person would have to have something about them that I am looking for, for me to allow the possibility. I don't mean material wealth, although that might do it for some people.
It's always a ballance, in every case, never mind the wheelchair..the person has this detriment, but this positive personality, that I really want to be around, and add to my life.
Stop worrying about the wheel chair, and think about what positive traits/possibilities you could work on bringing to the table.
It's always a ballance, in every case, never mind the wheelchair..the person has this detriment, but this positive personality, that I really want to be around, and add to my life.
Stop worrying about the wheel chair, and think about what positive traits/possibilities you could work on bringing to the table.
Brigantia: And a Happy New Year to you to, Sir!
Thank you, Happy New Year to you too...Fast, Im looking forward to the forums, another dating site I was on had forums and was a blast.
Ziusudra, Brigantia, Equiya, Rich, great input on mental health!
Everyone else, thanks for the encouragement!
Ziusudra, Brigantia, Equiya, Rich, great input on mental health!
Everyone else, thanks for the encouragement!
Imonwheels: Fast, Im looking forward to the forums, another dating site I was on had forums and was a blast.
Ziusudra, Brigantia, Equiya, Rich, great input on mental health!
Everyone else, thanks for the encouragement!
hi....have you thought....????there are young ladies out there in wheelchairs.......for whatever reason......accident...etc....who know how you feel......worth looking into.....Ziusudra, Brigantia, Equiya, Rich, great input on mental health!
Everyone else, thanks for the encouragement!
best of luck mate........your.ll do fine.....
Imonwheels: Fast, Im looking forward to the forums, another dating site I was on had forums and was a blast.
Ziusudra, Brigantia, Equiya, Rich, great input on mental health!
Everyone else, thanks for the encouragement!
Ziusudra, Brigantia, Equiya, Rich, great input on mental health!
Everyone else, thanks for the encouragement!
Thanks Imonwheels.
Imonwheels: Fast, Im looking forward to the forums, another dating site I was on had forums and was a blast.
Ziusudra, Brigantia, Equiya, Rich, great input on mental health!
Everyone else, thanks for the encouragement!
Ziusudra, Brigantia, Equiya, Rich, great input on mental health!
Everyone else, thanks for the encouragement!
A pleasure, sir. Your body may be handicapped but your manners certainly are not and manners maketh man after all.
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