Early on, I almost met with two, but it didn't pan out. I've had several phone conversations with members, but about two years ago, I decided to just message and comment on the forums and blogs, don't want a relationship to interfere with this great site that I've found, but my heart still slips-up from time to time. I still think it's neat, how members have managed to turn these forums into chat rooms.
MrCountingStars: And if so, how did the dates go? How long did the relationship last? Was the experience good or bad? Would you do it again or are you more cautious since the experience?
5 plus,good debaters,heat got to me twice,not as sharp,as in my younger days,but nice to know them.
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
CuddlingSoul: Early on, I almost met with two, but it didn't pan out. I've had several phone conversations with members, but about two years ago, I decided to just message and comment on the forums and blogs, don't want a relationship to interfere with this great site that I've found, but my heart still slips-up from time to time. I still think it's neat, how members have managed to turn these forums into chat rooms.
I have met two in person, one in Cyprus, one in Finland.
Prapiroon: True. But your assuming wrongly that they will form a negative opinion of him just because you may have already done so. You are also trying to talk down to him and to patronise him ? Are you a school teacher perhaps who teaches small boys ?
People, regardless of gender, form opinions of others by observing how others conduct themselves in public. and how they interact with others. This is not a patronizing statement. This is not talking down to anyone. This is common knowledge not specific to teachers of boy schools. End of discussion.
Kaybee50: People, regardless of gender, form opinions of others by observing how others conduct themselves in public. and how they interact with others. This is not a patronizing statement. This is not talking down to anyone. This is common knowledge not specific to teachers of boy schools. End of discussion.
I've met a fair few people over the years. I've been to a few CS events, here in the UK and overseas.
I have made many friends though I have met one or two strange ones. One woman who seemed to be a friend turned out to be a massive free-loader, without doubt. Another woman I met was the most spiteful, acidic person who clearly had issues, and there was one another that, sadly, was not as sincere as he made out. Though, to be fair, not everyone is going to be each person's liking.
Other than that, I have met a stack of wonderful people from all over the world and I have enjoyed their company immensely. Many I still keep in touch with.
As for relationships, there was one chap who I met and it transpired he was still married and very much with his wife (and children) and another that I almost met. Close shave, but thank God, didn't happen.... he was a complete weirdo!
Ya see, there's a complete mix here.... and everywhere. I love the diversity, its refreshing.
You just sometimes have to have your wits about you but you must be receptive to new opportunities that come your way....
CuddlingSoul: Early on, I almost met with two, but it didn't pan out. I've had several phone conversations with members, but about two years ago, I decided to just message and comment on the forums and blogs, don't want a relationship to interfere with this great site that I've found, but my heart still slips-up from time to time. I still think it's neat, how members have managed to turn these forums into chat rooms.
I haven't met anybody from CS, but I could think of joining a CS-get-together happening or meeting one day. I think it's great people actually do get together through CS (and even get married)!
abcWOMAN: I haven't met anybody from CS, but I could think of joining a CS-get-together happening or meeting one day. I think it's great people actually do get together through CS (and even get married)!
I was about 3 steps away from getting Married to one, But Maybe it was not supposed to be! So I am OK with that!
HotrodLarrys: I was about 3 steps away from getting Married to one, But Maybe it was not supposed to be! So I am OK with that!
Perhaps next date will be your life-long friend. It is also ok to live together first without being married! Of course, if your date is from another country, there is perhaps no other option than to get married. Good luck and all the best to you!
I find that most women I'm interested in are just playing games or are just scammers.We message each other a few times with the women showing great interest,then all of a sudden you don't hear from them anymore.This has happened dozens of times.
abcWOMAN: Perhaps next date will be your life-long friend. It is also ok to live together first without being married! Of course, if your date is from another country, there is perhaps no other option than to get married. Good luck and all the best to you!
Yes One was from another country, and it is government forced marriage, after a 90 day Visa or they deport them, so Many Lessons learned here.. Someday I hope to Find my Lucky Charm! Patients is key! Thank You! And best to You as Well!
elednuw: I find that most women I'm interested in are just playing games or are just scammers.We message each other a few times with the women showing great interest,then all of a sudden you don't hear from them anymore.This has happened dozens of times.
Get used to that! But Finding one in Your own Country is a Big Benefit from My experience! Sad because this world has Some Very Sweet Hearted, and Beautiful Women!
elednuw: I find that most women I'm interested in are just playing games or are just scammers.We message each other a few times with the women showing great interest,then all of a sudden you don't hear from them anymore.This has happened dozens of times.
I viewed your profile, just of courtesy. First of all, you should read through your profile and perhaps re-write it. No serious woman will take you too serious. You are looking for a woman from 18! Younger than your own children? You write your potential date "must go on birth control" etc. Sir, you have listed lots of must in your profile, but rememeber, you can't own a woman!
HotrodLarrys: Yes One was from another country, and it is government forced marriage, after a 90 day Visa or they deport them, so Many Lessons learned here.. Someday I hope to Find my Lucky Charm! Patients is key! Thank You! And best to You as Well!
Nice sentiments and all bro but patience(not patients) is the key? You got 1 foot in the grave. Better hurry!
abcWOMAN: I viewed your profile, just of courtesy. First of all, you should read through your profile and perhaps re-write it. No serious woman will take you too serious. You are looking for a woman from 18! Younger than your own children? You write your potential date "must go on birth control" etc. Sir, you have listed lots of must in your profile, but rememeber, you can't own a woman!
Good luck in finding your bride!
If he wants to meet someone younger than his children that's his prerogative. Stop whipping him with a wet noodle. You sound like his Mom or worse his ex wife!
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You do that and you'll be the one getting a surprise