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Jan 21, 2014 7:18 PM CSTHave you ever learned something about yourself from a breakup that?s helped you in your next relatio
geoabcd1234
geoabcd1234geoabcd1234athens, Attica, Greece12 Threads 9 Polls 19 Posts
geoabcd1234OPathens, Attica, Greece19 posts

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Yes
46
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No
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If the answer is yeah,wht you have learned from that relationship?
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#1
Jan 21, 2014 7:25 PM CST Have you ever learned something about yourself from a breakup that?s helped you in your next relatio
HotrodLarrys
HotrodLarrysHotrodLarrysSt. Joseph, Missouri USA160 Threads 28 Polls 14,470 Posts
HotrodLarrysSt. Joseph, Missouri USA14,470 posts
I learned that Life is a journey,

Unless we get lost along the way!doh rolling on the floor laughing
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#2
Jan 21, 2014 7:32 PM CST Have you ever learned something about yourself from a breakup that?s helped you in your next relatio
Scott1812
Scott1812Scott1812Claresholm, Alberta Canada26 Threads 11 Polls 1,595 Posts
Scott1812Claresholm, Alberta Canada1,595 posts
I learned that i want a women i don,t need a women i can stand on my own two feet!thumbs up smoking head banger
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#3
Jan 21, 2014 7:38 PM CST Have you ever learned something about yourself from a breakup that?s helped you in your next relatio
shell1964
shell1964shell1964Marion county, Florida USA7 Threads 1,184 Posts
shell1964Marion county, Florida USA1,184 posts
I think we all learn and grow from past relationships..
I learned to ask more questions before i get serious about someone and be more patient in getting into a relationship..also i think ill write a qustonaire paper for the next man rolling on the floor laughing
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#4
Jan 21, 2014 7:48 PM CST Have you ever learned something about yourself from a breakup that?s helped you in your next relatio
HotrodLarrys
HotrodLarrysHotrodLarrysSt. Joseph, Missouri USA160 Threads 28 Polls 14,470 Posts
HotrodLarrysSt. Joseph, Missouri USA14,470 posts
shell1964: I think we all learn and grow from past relationships..
I learned to ask more questions before i get serious about someone and be more patient in getting into a relationship..also i think ill write a qustonaire paper for the next man



Is there any get out of jail FREE Cards available?grin grin grin devil
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#5
Jan 21, 2014 7:52 PM CST Have you ever learned something about yourself from a breakup that?s helped you in your next relatio
twazzle70
twazzle70twazzle70THE GORGOYNES......, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK1 Threads 689 Posts
twazzle70THE GORGOYNES......, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK689 posts
To not take each other for granted,and to make more time for each other....beer
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#6
Jan 21, 2014 7:57 PM CST Have you ever learned something about yourself from a breakup that?s helped you in your next relatio
ekself
ekselfekselfOnehorsetown, Eastern Cape South Africa8 Threads 261 Posts
ekselfOnehorsetown, Eastern Cape South Africa261 posts
I have learned I have not a farting clue about the way relationships work so unless I meet someone as clueless as I am, I shall have to stay single forever. grin
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#7
Jan 21, 2014 7:58 PM CST Have you ever learned something about yourself from a breakup that?s helped you in your next relatio
montemonte
montemontemontemonteunknown, New Jersey USA114 Threads 4 Polls 5,631 Posts
montemonteunknown, New Jersey USA5,631 posts
I learned to be cautious, cautious, cautious and not so quick to believe what people say. I now watch what they do to see if it matches what they say.
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#8
Jan 21, 2014 8:08 PM CST Have you ever learned something about yourself from a breakup that?s helped you in your next relatio
HotrodLarrys
HotrodLarrysHotrodLarrysSt. Joseph, Missouri USA160 Threads 28 Polls 14,470 Posts
HotrodLarrysSt. Joseph, Missouri USA14,470 posts
ekself: I have learned I have not a farting clue about the way relationships work so unless I meet someone as clueless as I am, I shall have to stay single forever.


I Learned enough I am reluctant to even share it with Close friends!uh oh rolling on the floor laughing wave devil
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#9
Jan 21, 2014 8:15 PM CST Have you ever learned something about yourself from a breakup that?s helped you in your next relatio
ekself
ekselfekselfOnehorsetown, Eastern Cape South Africa8 Threads 261 Posts
ekselfOnehorsetown, Eastern Cape South Africa261 posts
And then you meet someone who makes you forget it all rolling on the floor laughing
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#10
Jan 21, 2014 8:21 PM CST Have you ever learned something about yourself from a breakup that?s helped you in your next relatio
HotrodLarrys
HotrodLarrysHotrodLarrysSt. Joseph, Missouri USA160 Threads 28 Polls 14,470 Posts
HotrodLarrysSt. Joseph, Missouri USA14,470 posts
ekself: And then you meet someone who makes you forget it all



Smart Woman!cool wow
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#11
Jan 21, 2014 8:38 PM CST Have you ever learned something about yourself from a breakup that?s helped you in your next relatio
mariespoodles
mariespoodlesmariespoodlesSydney, New South Wales Australia25 Threads 1,648 Posts
mariespoodlesSydney, New South Wales Australia1,648 posts
geoabcd1234: If the answer is yeah,wht you have learned from that relationship?


I have learned to respond in an 'Assertive' way when reacting to 'Aggressive' or 'Passive' behaviour.

I have learned and will only 'Trust' to let those who can reciprocate the same 'Assertiveness' into my life or I keep a safe distance if they haven't evolved to this level yet wink

Lets do the math...

Aggressive + Passive = Bullying

Aggressive + Aggressive = War

Passive + Passive = No Passion

Assertive + Assertive = Calm, Resolve, Love, Joy, Peace, Happiness... Shall I go on?? grin

It's amazing how many passive, aggressive or passive/aggressive people (not just men) are out there that haven't obviously learned how to be Calm & Assertive yet!! dunno

Having said that, it did take me 35 yrs of experience to learn it too so I guess if parents don't teach it to their kids via role modelling this stuff (as I have with my own kids) then we got to learn the hard way as I did blues

JMO of course wink

Gr8 question btw geo!! thumbs up
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#12
Jan 24, 2014 6:41 PM CST Have you ever learned something about yourself from a breakup that?s helped you in your next relatio
Purplenails
PurplenailsPurplenailsSingapore, Central Singapore Singapore3 Threads 44 Posts
PurplenailsSingapore, Central Singapore Singapore44 posts
geoabcd1234: If the answer is yeah,wht you have learned from that relationship?


I have learned to always end the war peacefully.grin
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#13
Jan 24, 2014 6:57 PM CST Have you ever learned something about yourself from a breakup that?s helped you in your next relatio
Draegoneer
DraegoneerDraegoneerPrudenville, Michigan USA1 Threads 1,371 Posts
DraegoneerPrudenville, Michigan USA1,371 posts
I learned that no matter how much I may be able to work through with the ability to accept people as they are, it would really be better to have a personal a relationship, with a person of similar views and values.

I will never allow compromise of myself so much ever again. With a person of similar values, it won't ever have to happen on either side, not even by accident.thumbs up
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#14
Jan 25, 2014 3:06 AM CST Have you ever learned something about yourself from a breakup that?s helped you in your next relatio
Count_Me_In
Count_Me_InCount_Me_InMackay, Queensland Australia1 Threads 570 Posts
Count_Me_InMackay, Queensland Australia570 posts
of course, to look at myself as well as the other person

and to this really honestly......
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#15
Jan 25, 2014 3:08 AM CST Have you ever learned something about yourself from a breakup that?s helped you in your next relatio
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
Count_Me_In: of course, to look at myself as well as the other person

and to this really honestly......



Yes softness and consideration can be interpreted as a sign of weakness by some people.
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#16
Jan 25, 2014 4:02 AM CST Have you ever learned something about yourself from a breakup that?s helped you in your next relatio
truheart1941online today!
truheart1941online today!truheart1941brentwood, Essex, England UK83 Threads 1 Polls 25,171 Posts
truheart1941brentwood, Essex, England UK25,171 posts
tomcatwarne: Yes softness and consideration can be interpreted as a sign of weakness by some people.
....hi Tom.....you are right....I have always said/and thought this...and it does hurt. thos people who give it....and recive nothing back in kindness. I have been there.
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#17
Jan 25, 2014 4:30 AM CST Have you ever learned something about yourself from a breakup that?s helped you in your next relatio
Newlife08
Newlife08Newlife08On the coast, Queensland Australia165 Threads 2,715 Posts
Newlife08On the coast, Queensland Australia2,715 posts
truheart1941: ....hi Tom.....you are right....I have always said/and thought this...and it does hurt. thos people who give it....and recive nothing back in kindness. I have been there.


I have finally learned to have a voice, be more assertive and not try to make the other person happy at the cost of my own independence, individual needs, and happiness. teddybear

Think it might have taken me too long to work that out. sigh
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#18
Jan 25, 2014 4:34 AM CST Have you ever learned something about yourself from a breakup that?s helped you in your next relatio
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada6,976 posts
I learned to keep a better eye on all my furniture.
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#19
Jan 25, 2014 4:38 AM CST Have you ever learned something about yourself from a breakup that?s helped you in your next relatio
Count_Me_In
Count_Me_InCount_Me_InMackay, Queensland Australia1 Threads 570 Posts
Count_Me_InMackay, Queensland Australia570 posts
pedalguy59: I learned to keep a better eye on all my furniture.


haha keep the washing machine.........it can be fun

grin
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#20
Jan 25, 2014 4:41 AM CST Have you ever learned something about yourself from a breakup that?s helped you in your next relatio
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada6,976 posts
Count_Me_In: haha keep the washing machine.........it can be fun


wave Leaning against it, only works for you women.laugh
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#21
Jan 25, 2014 4:46 AM CST Have you ever learned something about yourself from a breakup that?s helped you in your next relatio
Count_Me_In
Count_Me_InCount_Me_InMackay, Queensland Australia1 Threads 570 Posts
Count_Me_InMackay, Queensland Australia570 posts
pedalguy59: Leaning against it, only works for you women.


hahaha com'on Petal....it is the biggest thrill doing the washing.....everyday, sometimes twice

laugh wave
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#22
Jan 25, 2014 4:48 AM CST Have you ever learned something about yourself from a breakup that?s helped you in your next relatio
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada6,976 posts
Count_Me_In: hahaha com'on Petal....it is the biggest thrill doing the washing.....everyday, sometimes twice


I guess I could try straddling one.
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#23
Jan 25, 2014 4:51 AM CST Have you ever learned something about yourself from a breakup that?s helped you in your next relatio
Newlife08
Newlife08Newlife08On the coast, Queensland Australia165 Threads 2,715 Posts
Newlife08On the coast, Queensland Australia2,715 posts
At least the washing machine doesn't need batteries??? cool
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#24
Jan 25, 2014 4:52 AM CST Have you ever learned something about yourself from a breakup that?s helped you in your next relatio
Count_Me_In
Count_Me_InCount_Me_InMackay, Queensland Australia1 Threads 570 Posts
Count_Me_InMackay, Queensland Australia570 posts
pedalguy59: I guess I could try straddling one.


you could try stuffing one with clothes

and not playing around with it........hahaha just a suggestion

rolling on the floor laughing
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#25
Jan 26, 2014 3:23 PM CST Have you ever learned something about yourself from a breakup that?s helped you in your next relatio
PatrizioDG
PatrizioDGPatrizioDGGeneva, Switzerland1 Threads 2 Posts
PatrizioDGGeneva, Switzerland2 posts
Every relationship is a learning experience, like doing things all over again, lots of lessons learned, I did learn to disregard the obvious and the repetitive and keep only the new complaints. After many break up I'm at a point of perfection, this is what we Italians do, we analyse, fix or repeat then adjust and learn. The woman is the most presious and important creature on the planet !
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#26
Jan 26, 2014 7:04 PM CST Have you ever learned something about yourself from a breakup that?s helped you in your next relatio
chatonlyman2
chatonlyman2chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada27 Threads 7 Polls 6,600 Posts
chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada6,600 posts
geoabcd1234: If the answer is yeah,wht you have learned from that relationship?
Patience and despairlaugh Actually I learned what does not work.dancing
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#27
Jan 30, 2014 3:04 PM CST Have you ever learned something about yourself from a breakup that?s helped you in your next relatio
rose1971
rose1971rose1971by the sea, by the mountains, Wicklow Ireland3 Threads 765 Posts
rose1971by the sea, by the mountains, Wicklow Ireland765 posts
geoabcd1234: If the answer is yeah,wht you have learned from that relationship?

A lot. Mainly not get into a serious one ever again. Patience, perception, not be taken for granted and stop as soon as I see certain signs.
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#28
Jan 30, 2014 4:26 PM CST Have you ever learned something about yourself from a breakup that?s helped you in your next relatio
chatonlyman2
chatonlyman2chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada27 Threads 7 Polls 6,600 Posts
chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada6,600 posts
rose1971: A lot. Mainly not get into a serious one ever again. Patience, perception, not be taken for granted and stop as soon as I see certain signs.
The gut feelinghead banger danceline
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#29
Jan 30, 2014 7:54 PM CST Have you ever learned something about yourself from a breakup that?s helped you in your next relatio
NUMBER_ONE
NUMBER_ONENUMBER_ONEBlaine, Minnesota USA1 Threads 136 Posts
NUMBER_ONEBlaine, Minnesota USA136 posts
I've learnt to fight tooth and nail for happiness and success, to be less idealistic, more practical, and to be wrong or mistaken then to sit back and watch my Titanic sink.
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#30
Jan 30, 2014 8:08 PM CST Have you ever learned something about yourself from a breakup that?s helped you in your next relatio
Countrylovin1969
Countrylovin1969Countrylovin1969Kingston, Ontario Canada16 Posts
Countrylovin1969Kingston, Ontario Canada16 posts
always the gut feeling yes...too true
also to not rush and rather build slow a friendship over time rather that act on the 'heat of attraction'
friends first then lovers !!
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