Dating, With / Without Children, That is the Question ( Archived) (38)

Feb 10, 2014 11:43 PM CSTDating, With / Without Children, That is the Question

Dating, With / Without Children, That is the Question(Vote Below)

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I am a man/ No Kids
24
33%
I am a Younger man with Kids
7
10%
I am a man, My Kids are Raised
6
8%
I am a Man, Just Call me Grand Pa
3
4%
I am a Woman, Younger, and have Kids
2
3%
I am a Woman, My Kids are older, But still at home
4
5%
I am a Woman, I have no kids
13
18%
I am a Woiman, Kids are Raised
7
10%
I am a Woman, Just call me Grand ma
6
8%
I am A Woman, Just Hug Me! Lol
1
1%
Total Votes
73
We all have variations of Age and Status in Life.... I felt this would be an interesting Topic, With Many Opinions, Please respect Your Neighbor meaning ( No Fighting allowed )

Example: Myself, I have raised My Children, And 53, My Preference would be to meet someone to spend time with, Without Children...( ME Time) But somewhere in the back of My Heart, If I met the right person, I may consider Dating someone with Older Children,

Are You still Raising Children at your age, and How do you feel that would Convert Into A relationship for You, at YOUR AGE!

Anything is Possible...professor

Whole point being, You may meet Your Match on this Thread!

wow smitten

Good Luck.....grin

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Feb 11, 2014 7:14 AM CST Dating, With / Without Children, That is the Question
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
HotrodLarrys: Never Believe in Leprechauns
Her childreni don't mind,as long....?????
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Feb 11, 2014 7:23 AM CST Dating, With / Without Children, That is the Question
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
I was never married and don't have kids, and no offence, but I would be looking for someone in a similar situation, no kids or kids who are grown up. dunno

Kids should be an absolute priority for their parents and as much time as possible spend with them. I just would prefer to have someone who is like me footloose and is able to put time into a relationship. conversing
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Feb 11, 2014 7:35 AM CST Dating, With / Without Children, That is the Question
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
KNenagh: I was never married and don't have kids, and no offence, but I would be looking for someone in a similar situation, no kids or kids who are grown up.

Kids should be an absolute priority for their parents and as much time as possible spend with them. I just would prefer to have someone who is like me footloose and is able to put time into a relationship.
Stick to your guns,and you would succeedthumbs up cheers
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Feb 11, 2014 7:39 AM CST Dating, With / Without Children, That is the Question
rebel2
rebel2rebel2Alicante, Valencia Spain8 Threads 6,354 Posts
It is not something that would suit me if she had children who were dependant on her.man, I would feel restricted within my lifestyle.
Also, should I be the only "father figure" in there life, a role model, there chances of success
Of course, I would fully understand her desire towards her children, but being an impulsive man, I would feel restricted and not be able to live the lifestyle I would want with a lover.
Another concern would be if I was the only "father figure" in there lives. There chances in life would diminish dramatically, and I wouldn't wish that on them!
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Feb 11, 2014 7:41 AM CST Dating, With / Without Children, That is the Question
rebel2
rebel2rebel2Alicante, Valencia Spain8 Threads 6,354 Posts
What happened there!
Its all jumbled up mumbling Well, I am not typing it again! snooty
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Feb 11, 2014 8:15 AM CST Dating, With / Without Children, That is the Question
TommyG2524
TommyG2524TommyG2524Washington, USA15 Posts
I will be 50 and I have two girls 12 and 8. They keep me young and full of life.
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Feb 11, 2014 8:16 AM CST Dating, With / Without Children, That is the Question
Happygolucky4u
Happygolucky4uHappygolucky4uTreasure Coast, Florida USA25 Threads 4 Polls 6,241 Posts
rebel2: What happened there!
Its all jumbled up Well, I am not typing it again!
The thought scared you so bad you couldn't type rolling on the floor laughing
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Feb 11, 2014 8:37 AM CST Dating, With / Without Children, That is the Question
equiya
equiyaequiyaunknown, Ontario Canada2 Threads 4,055 Posts
KNenagh: I was never married and don't have kids, and no offence, but I would be looking for someone in a similar situation, no kids or kids who are grown up.

Kids should be an absolute priority for their parents and as much time as possible spend with them. I just would prefer to have someone who is like me footloose and is able to put time into a relationship.


me too

I have no children but have dated men with children in the past, it didn't work because of the children, so no more. I even lived with one with a teenage son in the house, it was hell, hell, hell. even the mother of the boy interfering sometimes.
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Feb 11, 2014 8:43 AM CST Dating, With / Without Children, That is the Question
equiya
equiyaequiyaunknown, Ontario Canada2 Threads 4,055 Posts
HotrodLarrys: We all have variations of Age and Status in Life.... I felt this would be an interesting Topic, With Many Opinions, Please respect Your Neighbor meaning ( No Fighting allowed )

Example: Myself, I have raised My Children, And 53, My Preference would be to meet someone to spend time with, Without Children...( ME Time) But somewhere in the back of My Heart, If I met the right person, I may consider Dating someone with Older Children,

Are You still Raising Children at your age, and How do you feel that would Convert Into A relationship for You, at YOUR AGE!

Anything is Possible...

Whole point being, You may meet Your Match on this Thread!



Good Luck.....

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Yes, that's me.
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Feb 11, 2014 9:00 AM CST Dating, With / Without Children, That is the Question
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
I'd become sceptical of any childless woman over the age of 35. If she is/was fertile, then she has sacrificed lifes purpose to lifes pleasure which brings her sense of loyalty to anything beyond herself into question.
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Mar 1, 2014 3:55 PM CST Dating, With / Without Children, That is the Question
Alexandro10
Alexandro10Alexandro10monceaux, Hauts-de-France France36 Threads 17 Polls 1,180 Posts
HotrodLarrys: We all have variations of Age and Status in Life.... I felt this would be an interesting Topic, With Many Opinions, Please respect Your Neighbor meaning ( No Fighting allowed )

Example: Myself, I have raised My Children, And 53, My Preference would be to meet someone to spend time with, Without Children...( ME Time) But somewhere in the back of My Heart, If I met the right person, I may consider Dating someone with Older Children,

Are You still Raising Children at your age, and How do you feel that would Convert Into A relationship for You, at YOUR AGE!

Anything is Possible...

Whole point being, You may meet Your Match on this Thread!



Good Luck.....

Service Fees are Minimal!



I really honestly hope so !!

I'm looking for a dating relationship in prospective for a serious one.

I am 47 years old , never got married and have no children.

Why?

cause I would like to hope so that I haven't find yet the right one!

Obviously I would accept her children, but I would like to hope , that she wants children from me too.

If she doesn't want children, that's a bigger problem

thumbs up
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Mar 1, 2014 4:04 PM CST Dating, With / Without Children, That is the Question
Kendall42
Kendall42Kendall42Astoria, New York USA12 Threads 285 Posts
Dedovix: Im not excluding that option ...just didn`t want to be the first who mentions it


This gets the stare of death.
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Mar 1, 2014 4:10 PM CST Dating, With / Without Children, That is the Question
Kendall42
Kendall42Kendall42Astoria, New York USA12 Threads 285 Posts
If I'm into a person I'm into the whole package and if that includes kids I'm good with that.

I have children and if someone were to say they couldn't date me cause I have kids, then I know for damn sure that is someone I don't want to be around.
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Mar 1, 2014 4:13 PM CST Dating, With / Without Children, That is the Question
Alexandro10: I really honestly hope so !!

I'm looking for a dating relationship in prospective for a serious one.

I am 47 years old , never got married and have no children.

Why?

cause I would like to hope so that I haven't find yet the right one!

Obviously I would accept her children, but I would like to hope , that she wants children from me too.

If she doesn't want children, that's a bigger problem



Hopefully You will Meet The One that Matches Your criteria.....

Seems Our Desires in a Mate is determined by so many Factors as we get older, When Young and Dating, It seemed much easier in my opinion..wave
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Mar 1, 2014 4:16 PM CST Dating, With / Without Children, That is the Question
shell1964
shell1964shell1964Marion county, Florida USA7 Threads 1,184 Posts
my children are grown and i perfer the same in a man..im looking for a man with a 50 year old son..laugh
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Mar 1, 2014 4:17 PM CST Dating, With / Without Children, That is the Question
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
Kendall42: If I'm into a person I'm into the whole package and if that includes kids I'm good with that.

I have children and if someone were to say they couldn't date me cause I have kids, then I know for damn sure that is someone I don't want to be around.


Good for you and I agree. thumbs up
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Mar 1, 2014 4:21 PM CST Dating, With / Without Children, That is the Question
Kendall42: If I'm into a person I'm into the whole package and if that includes kids I'm good with that.

I have children and if someone were to say they couldn't date me cause I have kids, then I know for damn sure that is someone I don't want to be around.


Yes, we are all different ages, and stages of Life...
Having Raised My Kids, And Yes I do Love Kids, It is just not in My Stage of life to Raise any More, If I were Younger, I wouldn't see it a Problem...

But I Hope You Find the one that is at the same Stage of Life that You are at!hug wave
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Mar 1, 2014 4:24 PM CST Dating, With / Without Children, That is the Question
shell1964: my children are grown and i perfer the same in a man..im looking for a man with a 50 year old son..



Do You want the Paw, Or the Son?uh oh laugh wave
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Mar 1, 2014 4:27 PM CST Dating, With / Without Children, That is the Question
Alexandro10
Alexandro10Alexandro10monceaux, Hauts-de-France France36 Threads 17 Polls 1,180 Posts
HotrodLarrys: Hopefully You will Meet The One that Matches Your criteria.....

Seems Our Desires in a Mate is determined by so many Factors as we get older, When Young and Dating, It seemed much easier in my opinion..


Yeah man, you got that right .....thumbs up
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Mar 1, 2014 4:29 PM CST Dating, With / Without Children, That is the Question
shell1964
shell1964shell1964Marion county, Florida USA7 Threads 1,184 Posts
wave
HotrodLarrys: Do You want the Paw, Or the Son?
I was thinking TAG team..laugh hmmm It is me time..rolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 1, 2014 4:30 PM CST Dating, With / Without Children, That is the Question
2girlsnocup
2girlsnocup2girlsnocupunknown, Greater London, England UK28 Threads 1 Polls 2,621 Posts
Obstinance_Works: I'd become sceptical of any childless woman over the age of 35. If she is/was fertile, then she has sacrificed lifes purpose to lifes pleasure which brings her sense of loyalty to anything beyond herself into question.


Or she may be gay roll eyes

I was right about you entertaining me with the crap you post grin
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Mar 1, 2014 4:31 PM CST Dating, With / Without Children, That is the Question
Glatlol
GlatlolGlatlolDublin, Ireland2 Threads 5,358 Posts
One left at home, an 18 year old who is going to College this year so will be a couple of years before I can pack her bags. The others are over 21 so dont live with me anymore.

Been there, done that as the saying goes so I wouldnt date a guy who has young children, have turned down dates for this very reason.

Am at a stage in my life where I have time for myself and would prefer a guy to be at the same stage.
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Mar 1, 2014 4:37 PM CST Dating, With / Without Children, That is the Question
shell1964: I was thinking TAG team.. It is me time..


help My Paw has Not been with us for Nearly 40 years...blues


But Life Goes on!hug
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Mar 1, 2014 4:48 PM CST Dating, With / Without Children, That is the Question
montemonte
montemontemontemonteunknown, New Jersey USA114 Threads 4 Polls 5,631 Posts
When I started dating my daughter was 10 years old. I had no intention of every marrying again until she was an adult and off to college. My reasoning for that was if a new marriage went down the tubes I didn't want her to be in the middle of it. By the time she was an adult I was no longer interested in marriage and I'm definitely not interested in it now.

When I dated there were two serious relationships and both were good with giving my daughter time and she liked both men. Thing is, I didn't after dealing with them for a couple years.

The one thing they new was that she would always come first but I didn't have to tell them that. They just knew it from our lifestyle.
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Mar 1, 2014 4:49 PM CST Dating, With / Without Children, That is the Question
shell1964
shell1964shell1964Marion county, Florida USA7 Threads 1,184 Posts
HotrodLarrys: My Paw has Not been with us for Nearly 40 years... But Life Goes on!
comfort wow sorry to hear that you were young when he passedsad flower my parents are both still with us here and i the youngest child of three..i do cherish having them still even though they do some crazy things as they grow older..grin
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Mar 1, 2014 5:03 PM CST Dating, With / Without Children, That is the Question
1969soul
1969soul1969soulDublin, Ireland26 Posts
Obstinance_Works: I'd become sceptical of any childless woman over the age of 35. If she is/was fertile, then she has sacrificed lifes purpose to lifes pleasure which brings her sense of loyalty to anything beyond herself into question.

man, do you think all this stuff on your own, or you get help?dunno dunno
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Mar 1, 2014 5:06 PM CST Dating, With / Without Children, That is the Question
1969soul
1969soul1969soulDublin, Ireland26 Posts
1969soul: man, do you think all this stuff on your own, or you get help?


I don't have kids and I don't want kids. I've dated guys with kids and didn't work for the kids. No one should tell another what their loyalties should be.
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Mar 1, 2014 5:12 PM CST Dating, With / Without Children, That is the Question
shell1964: wow sorry to hear that you were young when he passed my parents are both still with us here and i the youngest child of three..i do cherish having them still even though they do some crazy things as they grow older..

My Mom also passed in 03, Sadly, But I just have to Live with it, But Glad You still have your Parents...applause
I was also the Youngest of 5...

Now 4.... pointing
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Mar 1, 2014 5:14 PM CST Dating, With / Without Children, That is the Question
Jaymack
JaymackJaymackMonaghan, Ireland37 Threads 800 Posts
HotrodLarrys: We all have variations of Age and Status in Life.... I felt this would be an interesting Topic, With Many Opinions, Please respect Your Neighbor meaning ( No Fighting allowed )

Example: Myself, I have raised My Children, And 53, My Preference would be to meet someone to spend time with, Without Children...( ME Time) But somewhere in the back of My Heart, If I met the right person, I may consider Dating someone with Older Children,

Are You still Raising Children at your age, and How do you feel that would Convert Into A relationship for You, at YOUR AGE!

Anything is Possible...

Whole point being, You may meet Your Match on this Thread!



Good Luck.....

Service Fees are Minimal!
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Mar 1, 2014 5:17 PM CST Dating, With / Without Children, That is the Question
1969soul: I don't have kids and I don't want kids. I've dated guys with kids and didn't work for the kids. No one should tell another what their loyalties should be.


Yes Many times it can be hard for the Kids...
Been there!mumbling laugh
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