Of unforgivable things, which is the worst? ( Archived) (52)

Oct 21, 2008 11:11 AM CSTOf unforgivable things, which is the worst?
Moema
MoemaMoemaBrasilia, Distrito Federal, Brazil45 Threads 3 Polls 730 Posts

Of unforgivable things, which is the worst?(Vote Below)

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Lack of self-confidence
4
2%
Too much self-confidence
5
3%
Lack of hygiene
50
26%
Laziness
16
8%
Mania for cleanliness
1
1%
Lack of humor
10
5%
Need to control
29
15%
Lack of warmth and kindness
54
28%
Too much absent-mindedness
2
1%
Other (name it!)
19
10%
Total Votes
190
Ok they`re all bad, but which is the worst?
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Oct 21, 2008 11:11 AM CST Of unforgivable things, which is the worst?
Moema
MoemaMoemaBrasilia, Distrito Federal Brazil45 Threads 3 Polls 730 Posts
Ok they`re all bad, but which is the worst?
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Oct 21, 2008 11:18 AM CST Of unforgivable things, which is the worst?
jpunk
jpunkjpunkEdinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK43 Threads 7 Polls 1,897 Posts
UNFORGIVABLE THINGS???

WHAT GIVES YOU THE RIGHT TO INCLUDE LACK OF SELF-CONFIDENCE!!!frustrated

I'M SURE THAT THERE'S QUITE A FEW PEOPLE ON HERE (PARTICULARLY WOMEN) THAT HAVE BEEN IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP AND THEIR EX-PARTNER HAS DESTROYED THEIR SELF- CONFIDENCE, AND FIND IT HARD TO TALK TO PEOPLE SO JOINED A DATING SITE!!!

ANOTHER CATEGORY COULD BE LACKING UNDERSTANDING, SOMETHING YOU SEEM TO EXCEL AT!!!!thumbs down very mad
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Oct 21, 2008 11:19 AM CST Of unforgivable things, which is the worst?
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
I'd have to say a need to control you, to me is the worst. In my opinion, they're not giving me credit for being able to make sound, wise decisions... which leads me to believe that they don't trust me as well.

Next in line would be too much self-confidence... they're usually cocky. BIIIIIIG turnoff!! roll eyes roll eyes
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Oct 21, 2008 11:21 AM CST Of unforgivable things, which is the worst?
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
There is only one thing that I find to be unforgivable... that´s lying.
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Oct 21, 2008 11:21 AM CST Of unforgivable things, which is the worst?
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
jpunk: UNFORGIVABLE THINGS???

WHAT GIVES YOU THE RIGHT TO INCLUDE LACK OF SELF-CONFIDENCE!!!

I'M SURE THAT THERE'S QUITE A FEW PEOPLE ON HERE (PARTICULARLY WOMEN) THAT HAVE BEEN IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP AND THEIR EX-PARTNER HAS DESTROYED THEIR SELF- CONFIDENCE, AND FIND IT HARD TO TALK TO PEOPLE SO JOINED A DATING SITE!!!

ANOTHER CATEGORY COULD BE LACKING UNDERSTANDING, SOMETHING YOU SEEM TO EXCEL AT!!!!


I think it was possibly a bad choice of words, jpunk. I think she meant which is the least desirable, for lack of a better way of interpreting it. hug
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Oct 21, 2008 11:22 AM CST Of unforgivable things, which is the worst?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
jbibiza: There is only one thing that I find to be unforgivable... that´s lying.



I'm with you...thumbs up
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Oct 21, 2008 11:24 AM CST Of unforgivable things, which is the worst?
Moema
MoemaMoemaBrasilia, Distrito Federal Brazil45 Threads 3 Polls 730 Posts
jpunk: UNFORGIVABLE THINGS???

WHAT GIVES YOU THE RIGHT TO INCLUDE LACK OF SELF-CONFIDENCE!!!

I'M SURE THAT THERE'S QUITE A FEW PEOPLE ON HERE (PARTICULARLY WOMEN) THAT HAVE BEEN IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP AND THEIR EX-PARTNER HAS DESTROYED THEIR SELF- CONFIDENCE, AND FIND IT HARD TO TALK TO PEOPLE SO JOINED A DATING SITE!!!

ANOTHER CATEGORY COULD BE LACKING UNDERSTANDING, SOMETHING YOU SEEM TO EXCEL AT!!!!


Wow, where did that come from?
What I mean is a person with no personal opinion about anything. If asked if they liked the movie they just saw, they`d ask you "honey, did we like the movie?" before replying. How would you put that in a better way?
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Oct 21, 2008 11:26 AM CST Of unforgivable things, which is the worst?
Moema
MoemaMoemaBrasilia, Distrito Federal Brazil45 Threads 3 Polls 730 Posts
sweetowen: I think it was possibly a bad choice of words, jpunk. I think she meant which is the least desirable, for lack of a better way of interpreting it.


Not quite, but thanks for giving me a chance. laugh
By the way guys, it`s good for me to practice my English. I am fluent but I often lack words. Please correct me if I say something stupid.
Thanks again!
head banger
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Oct 21, 2008 11:33 AM CST Of unforgivable things, which is the worst?
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
laziness...

My man has to work!laugh

eat it!tongue
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Oct 21, 2008 11:35 AM CST Of unforgivable things, which is the worst?
Moema
MoemaMoemaBrasilia, Distrito Federal Brazil45 Threads 3 Polls 730 Posts
cristina: laziness...

My man has to work!

eat it!


Hey there! thumbs up
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Oct 21, 2008 11:37 AM CST Of unforgivable things, which is the worst?
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
Moema: Hey there!


Hey Moemawave
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Oct 21, 2008 11:38 AM CST Of unforgivable things, which is the worst?
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
cristina: laziness...

My man has to work!

eat it!


It's worse when he's lazy and arrogant. yawn roll eyes


thumbs down
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Oct 21, 2008 11:40 AM CST Of unforgivable things, which is the worst?
jpunk
jpunkjpunkEdinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK43 Threads 7 Polls 1,897 Posts
Moema: Wow, where did that come from?
What I mean is a person with no personal opinion about anything. If asked if they liked the movie they just saw, they`d ask you "honey, did we like the movie?" before replying. How would you put that in a better way?



OK, sorry I might have been a bit harsh with my reply, but I'd think before you write!!professor

Not all are UNFORGIVABLEscold , the lack of self- confidence should have said (according to your reply) lack of self- opinion/personality, you answered it in your reply, so you knew but didn't think!!!scold

Anyway, I'm just a moaning old gitmumbling

I shouldn't tear you apart as your English is a lot better than my Portuguese!!!!rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

A bad start handshake hug grin
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Oct 21, 2008 11:43 AM CST Of unforgivable things, which is the worst?
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
lusciousmile: It's worse when he's lazy and arrogant.


That combination will never touch my hand because it means he is absolutely stupid!grin
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Oct 21, 2008 11:44 AM CST Of unforgivable things, which is the worst?
omurchu22
omurchu22omurchu22Dundalk, Louth Ireland12 Threads 720 Posts
JPUNK said "sorry " jpunk said "sorry" jpunk said"sorry"

Me thinks he likes this lady as ive never seen him like this before grin

by the way i went for humour wave
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Oct 21, 2008 11:49 AM CST Of unforgivable things, which is the worst?
Fallingman
FallingmanFallingmanDublin, Ireland29 Threads 12 Polls 11,436 Posts
Voting Republican in 2008 (other) laugh
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Oct 21, 2008 11:50 AM CST Of unforgivable things, which is the worst?
lanabyte
lanabytelanabyteCharleston, West Virginia USA20 Threads 1 Polls 1,223 Posts
Tough question.

Lack of hygiene would definitely be a problem. But that could always be corrected.

Need to control - depends on what it is he needs to control. His environment/surroundings is one thing, but if he's trying to control everything about me, what I do/think/etc, then we have a problem.

But overall, I have to choose lack of humour. It is my personality to find humour in almost everything. Someone who didn't have a sense of humour would definitely clash with me. He'd probably think I was making fun of him, when in reality that's something I would never do.
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Oct 21, 2008 11:51 AM CST Of unforgivable things, which is the worst?
lanabyte
lanabytelanabyteCharleston, West Virginia USA20 Threads 1 Polls 1,223 Posts
omurchu22: JPUNK said "sorry " jpunk said "sorry" jpunk said"sorry"

Me thinks he likes this lady as ive never seen him like this before

by the way i went for humour

rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 21, 2008 11:51 AM CST Of unforgivable things, which is the worst?
pahotman
pahotmanpahotmanMonroeville, Pennsylvania USA43 Posts
If you can't laugh I feel that you have NO CHANCE.A woman without humor would be like dating a female like "Monk" on the TV show.
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Oct 21, 2008 11:52 AM CST Of unforgivable things, which is the worst?
Lying and cheating.
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Oct 21, 2008 12:27 PM CST Of unforgivable things, which is the worst?
Moema
MoemaMoemaBrasilia, Distrito Federal Brazil45 Threads 3 Polls 730 Posts
You tell him girl...make him notice how lovely educated and what a wonderful catch are ....

Hmm, YOU`ve noticed!!!
Haha
devil
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Oct 21, 2008 12:47 PM CST Of unforgivable things, which is the worst?
omurchu22
omurchu22omurchu22Dundalk, Louth Ireland12 Threads 720 Posts
lanabyte: I will defend your honour, Brother!(bidding starts at 2$)


cheers .Its okay he loves me really......I have to say that as i dont have $2

spent my last few euros paying the painters who are decorating the east wing of the house as the steam from the newlybuilt indoor swimming pool was causing problems....so dont talk to me about being poor devil

rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 21, 2008 1:12 PM CST Of unforgivable things, which is the worst?
lanabyte
lanabytelanabyteCharleston, West Virginia USA20 Threads 1 Polls 1,223 Posts
omurchu22: .Its okay he loves me really......I have to say that as i dont have $2

spent my last few euros paying the painters who are decorating the east wing of the house as the steam from the newlybuilt indoor swimming pool was causing problems....so dont talk to me about being poor

Geesh! C'mon people! Ok, I'll reduce starting bid to 1$. Who wants to start?
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Oct 21, 2008 1:14 PM CST Of unforgivable things, which is the worst?
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
i cant vote

i dont find any of these unforgiveable




dunno
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Oct 21, 2008 2:48 PM CST Of unforgivable things, which is the worst?
hopefulinmn
hopefulinmnhopefulinmngrove city, Minnesota USA1 Posts
Although the need to control is bad, the respective person could be just as un-controllable. Don't allow someone to control you. I would have to above and beyond any of these, lying and cheating would be the most unforgiveable! scold
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Oct 21, 2008 3:36 PM CST Of unforgivable things, which is the worst?
joemed6886
joemed6886joemed6886Rossville, Indiana USA1 Posts
I was pretty amazed to find the lack of cheating in the list of unforgivable items. Just about everyone that I know has been effected by this devastating act. Am I alone in this?
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Oct 21, 2008 3:39 PM CST Of unforgivable things, which is the worst?
lanabyte
lanabytelanabyteCharleston, West Virginia USA20 Threads 1 Polls 1,223 Posts
joemed6886: I was pretty amazed to find the lack of cheating in the list of unforgivable items. Just about everyone that I know has been effected by this devastating act. Am I alone in this?

Lack of cheating? I would think that would be a good thing. It's the cheating I hate. dunno

But, yes, I agree. I think it's a given though. Does anyone actually like being cheated on? I sure didn't. sad
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Oct 21, 2008 4:15 PM CST Of unforgivable things, which is the worst?
Lillym
LillymLillymSliema, Majjistral Malta33 Threads 3,391 Posts
I would have to say lying and cheating but its not in the list...dunno

That to me is truly unforgivable...
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Oct 21, 2008 5:46 PM CST Of unforgivable things, which is the worst?
Flourish
FlourishFlourishLower Hutt, Wellington New Zealand1 Threads 41 Posts
Fallingman: Voting Republican in 2008 (other)


Good answer!!

Man, I hope they get it right this time...
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Oct 21, 2008 5:55 PM CST Of unforgivable things, which is the worst?
archer666
archer666archer666lagos, Faro Portugal6 Threads 225 Posts
jbibiza: There is only one thing that I find to be unforgivable... that´s lying.


I'm with you hun.
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