Friends with benefits (100)
2intrigued: No, I'm sure it's got nothing to do with me.
I wouldn't be so sure. You do have a way to get some men to come to their senses...or change their ways. 
YouMeUs: I wouldn't be so sure. You do have a way to get some men to come to their senses...or change their ways.
Oh, I'm not so sure about that...I doubt I have that kind of influence on men.
2intrigued: Amazing how love can change a man.
2intrigued: No, I'm sure it's got nothing to do with me.
Had nothing to do with my love life or lack of it. It was a completely different kind of love, but it's nice to see people having a laugh. And like I said earlier, it's no wonder people hide in
's and don't show their real personality 
I'll just go back to being me
...2intrigued: Oh, I'm not so sure about that...I doubt I have that kind of influence on men.
Hey now, give yourself more credit! You helped me get off tobacco. 
uptall: Had nothing to do with my love life or lack of it. It was a completely different kind of love, but it's nice to see people having a laugh. And like I said earlier, it's no wonder people hide in 's and don't show their real personality
I'll just go back to being me ...
I'll just go back to being me ...
Oh dear, you truly aren't the same Uptall we've all been accustomed to. Are you alright?
YouMeUs: Hey now, give yourself more credit! You helped me get off tobacco.
True dat and a pleasure to help when I can but I think it was more about sharing an alternative with you to do with it what you will.
uptall: Love has the better of me today Red
mollybaby: I like friends.I like benefits.
I like no strings.
There seems to be some pigeonholing going on, as there seems to be in most relationships.
How in the world can someone know even before they start dating if that internal connection is there, when everyone is pretending it has anything to do with external it seems?
Having been extremely lucky to have had 2 amazing long term relationships in my lifetime, both of them had the same dynamics. In both, neither consisted of agendas, timelines, use of ISM's, or the age old questions like where are we going, what do we do next etc.
To predetermine how any relationship goes is the biggest drawback I have seen to exploring and enjoying fully with another and seems to stop each's essence from flowing as well as stifling all senses to be enlightened. Why most have to have only certain concepts they must follow, only lessens any chance of success, yet many do the same failing things over and over again, and wonder why failure occurs? Seems self analysis is a dying concept for some.
Just go with the flow, both be open and free with their emotions, never need or want but just be, and see where things lead. When agendas etc. lead the way, or the inability for what ever reason to be free fully, failure is the ultimate destination. Just do what both feel open to and see where things may go. When both are open upfront and honest then there will never be a failure, just two adults who actually tried their best, and if it fails no one is hurt, but if it grows, as I know it can be rousing.
How in the world can someone know even before they start dating if that internal connection is there, when everyone is pretending it has anything to do with external it seems?
Having been extremely lucky to have had 2 amazing long term relationships in my lifetime, both of them had the same dynamics. In both, neither consisted of agendas, timelines, use of ISM's, or the age old questions like where are we going, what do we do next etc.
To predetermine how any relationship goes is the biggest drawback I have seen to exploring and enjoying fully with another and seems to stop each's essence from flowing as well as stifling all senses to be enlightened. Why most have to have only certain concepts they must follow, only lessens any chance of success, yet many do the same failing things over and over again, and wonder why failure occurs? Seems self analysis is a dying concept for some.
Just go with the flow, both be open and free with their emotions, never need or want but just be, and see where things lead. When agendas etc. lead the way, or the inability for what ever reason to be free fully, failure is the ultimate destination. Just do what both feel open to and see where things may go. When both are open upfront and honest then there will never be a failure, just two adults who actually tried their best, and if it fails no one is hurt, but if it grows, as I know it can be rousing.
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No, I'm sure it's got nothing to do with me.