hoolet: If you don´t wanna kiss the other person within a very short time....then it´s not gonna happen. I´m talking about seconds.
You might do it later from a sense of obligation but it´s not from the heart!!!!
I believe it's not. I also believe that older people expect it to be okay, as I've seen this many times. However, it's also true that waiting until one feels that something is there. in your mind, just for a moment swap the ideas of an older person dating a person much younger, and yes I can see the older one wanting to plant a kiss. But i'm not so sure that it's welcome or necessarily proves a win or a loss. I'm tactile but I would want to kiss out of mutual love etc., and not "It's now or never" because if it's never that should be okay. Kissing or holding hands on a first date is fine if the two people have an attraction and can feel they are going somewhere. If there's nothing - forget the kiss and respect the other person.
Depends on the girl. 1st to 3rd date usually. If after the 3rd date no kiss has happened, then why did the 3rd date get arranged anyway? Some ppl (male and female) have been brainwashed by twisted religious propaganda and that would seriously delay a simple kiss, but for mentally stable ppl, 1st to 3rd is healthy.
I think that if two people like each other can have love even the first date, there is no rule, this is the best thing in the life that we're free to feel passions wthout convention...
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