Would you date a Russian girl? (118)

Sweety,your not the only one with family unfairness issues... Some people may have more issues than yourself but they might be too shy to admit it...so it really comes back to individual how each of us handles some life unpleasant experiences.
I like the quote about bitterness... to make from lemons = lemonade. Chear up...We're never stop learning...

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hahahahahaha l don't need cheer up l am very happy, whatever happened is in the past and it does not bother me because it cannot be changed, however it cannot be forgotten for many reasons.

O.K. Don't cheer up...
Stay happy go lucky...alone. I have no doubt that your the one who knows what's best for you. I just know one thing;if you want to see changes in people or in the world ...be that change you want to see...

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No, l do not need to 'cheer up' because l am not unhappy, if you were here or could see then you would know.

"Change", l think people do not change, they may do over very many years or through an illness or serious accident. I think you have been in various relationships and when things go wrong you hear or say things like "I am sorry, l will 'change' and it will never happen again". Never listen to this because its all lies, the person saying those words is clutching at straws because they know they did wrong and are hoping to salvage something.

Like the guy is a wife beater he will do all he can to make the woman forgive him................Never Do!, it will happen again, the woman just needs to pack her bag and leave immediately.

Now, l cannot "change" simply because l do not wish to, my happiness depends on 'me' doing the best for me and its what l have done for five years and you are correct in that l do know what is best for me.

I haven't been in various relationships.
Except having my own life experiences...crossing big ocean and facing life changes...I have learned much from my various job experiences that continue enriching me to keep open mind and to be no judgemental towards people I come across to...
You made good point...I know that only person we can try to change is self.
We all carry some baggages from past...but try not to effect your present and future by bringing up bad memories to new experiences in potential relationship... if you ever considered one.
Wish you can free yourself from bitterness...

Are u Russian yourself Joseph?

Why is your English so weird?

Why do all your pics show just your face?

I would sum this up as a form of misdirected sophism. It serves no practical positive goal for most people undergoing or that have passed through the many problems a family/ relatives or of a wife or husband can inflict upon someone. We survive those times and people as we have some warnings of what is coming...you know it's going to go badly when you wake up and the damn birds are singing Leonard Cohen songs...If one gets depressed, hey, it's a brilliant excuse to behave as badly as you like, especially when it comes to family. The greater part of every family is always odious. If there are one or two good ones in the lot, consider yourself lucky. Distant relatives...in every sense of distant, are usually the best kind to have, the further, the better. In this 'open age', most of us could easily speak of how miserable most of us are due to growing up in a dysfunctional family Having a family in many cases, is like having a bowling alley installed into your brain. Family, relatives are the crab grass in the lawn of life; like an octopus from whose tentacles we never quite escape; or as Oscar Wilde once put it, they are a sort of aggravated form of the public. Relatives/ family are a lot of tedious/ obnoxious people who don't know how to live or when to die. Some are like fudge; mostly sweet, with a few nuts. Those seem to be, rather well balanced for a 'family diet' They are the 'bright side' of family life. Always look for the bright side of life. (Thank you, Eric Idle!)

Maybe he takes pictures of face when his naked. Still it's better any picture than no picture at all.