What's most important thing in the relationship (70)
truheart1941: ..nice hat Ali....shame about the face....
whatever , i am worried what ciny said
ali110: whatever , i am worried what ciny said
..C/C....???? naaa shes alright......she gets the hump sometimes...(moods) talking about humps.....hows your camel....does she still loves you....just asking.......
truheart1941: ..C/C....???? naaa shes alright......she gets the hump sometimes...(moods) talking about humps.....hows your camel....does she still loves you....just asking.......
Moods me never.
Ccincy: Moods me never.
..ooooow yes you do. I come on here and say all nice things to you...and what is your reply........*shove it*.....needi saymore...?????
truheart1941: ..ooooow yes you do. I come on here and say all nice things to you...and what is your reply........*shove it*.....needi saymore...?????
I told you before that I was just trying to keep to the theme of the topics.See you just proved that men never listen or pay attention.
Lot better than adding more fuel to the fire that had already been poured.
Ccincy: I told you before that I was just trying to keep to the theme of the topics.See you just proved that men never listen or pay attention.
Lot better than adding more fuel to the fire that had already been poured.
owwwi see. now .I understand....you wezeled eyed old crow.....(theme...of the topics) keeping up Lot better than adding more fuel to the fire that had already been poured.
truheart1941: owwwi see. now .I understand....you wezeled eyed old crow.....(theme...of the topics) keeping up
My mother didn't raise no dummy.
my mummy never gave me a dummy....but mummy tasted yummy........
truheart1941: ..nice hat Ali....shame about the face....
When did u take profile pic , 1831? 
Ccincy: My mother didn't raise no dummy.
ali110: When did u take profile pic , 1831?
no Ali..1842.....when you were just 21 years old.....in thos days...when you never had a dead rat..under yer nose...... truheart1941: no Ali..1842.....when you were just 21 years old.....in thos days...when you never had a dead rat..under yer nose......
beautiful white vintage shirt , looking good , how sweet ali110: beautiful white vintage shirt , looking good , how sweet
..your vintage face looks good too.....
I think most of us just looking at ideas of each other, like looking at your window shade, but when we see each other cracks open, something moves as an earthquake ...we stay in relationship to grow together or it ends.
I believe,connections are not made by planning things ahead how we think it should be for our selfish convenient reasons but connections are made with the heart, build true growing friendship and making time spent together as a melody that could be replayed over and over without getting bored, seeking out some simple and true feeling of what you have in common, letting Love to make a way...To be fully seen, by somebody, and be unconditionally loved anyhow is a complete circle, where when he tells me 'he loves me' is just a ceremonious complimentary validation of what he already show me every day, in every way, that it grows into faith that in this love there is a strength and a blessing so large that I can travel as far as I wish, without doubts that we can not communicate any glims of a problem arising, which is not meant to be idealised of never going true argument and still getting out alive and stronger together, because in my humble view, it is better to get things out of the chest than to let a lot of stuff make to end relationship and not getting said.
The number one importance is to stop expecting people to be perfect so you can like them for who they are and not for what you want them to be, to combined flaws in a way that allows two separate beings to enjoy together by practising tolerance and flexibilities; as what is worth fighting to be who I am and for all my life principals, if I will miss the opportunity to be with the person who would be worth all the fighting for - except if one is manipulative control freak who wants to take all benefits to serve only self-interest, than 'fighting' is not worth at all.
Another thing I consider very important is; not to search for somebody to complete us but to compliment us, because each of us is responsible for our own fulfilment in completing self and nobody else can or should be expected to provide it for us.
I believe,connections are not made by planning things ahead how we think it should be for our selfish convenient reasons but connections are made with the heart, build true growing friendship and making time spent together as a melody that could be replayed over and over without getting bored, seeking out some simple and true feeling of what you have in common, letting Love to make a way...To be fully seen, by somebody, and be unconditionally loved anyhow is a complete circle, where when he tells me 'he loves me' is just a ceremonious complimentary validation of what he already show me every day, in every way, that it grows into faith that in this love there is a strength and a blessing so large that I can travel as far as I wish, without doubts that we can not communicate any glims of a problem arising, which is not meant to be idealised of never going true argument and still getting out alive and stronger together, because in my humble view, it is better to get things out of the chest than to let a lot of stuff make to end relationship and not getting said.
The number one importance is to stop expecting people to be perfect so you can like them for who they are and not for what you want them to be, to combined flaws in a way that allows two separate beings to enjoy together by practising tolerance and flexibilities; as what is worth fighting to be who I am and for all my life principals, if I will miss the opportunity to be with the person who would be worth all the fighting for - except if one is manipulative control freak who wants to take all benefits to serve only self-interest, than 'fighting' is not worth at all.
Another thing I consider very important is; not to search for somebody to complete us but to compliment us, because each of us is responsible for our own fulfilment in completing self and nobody else can or should be expected to provide it for us.
Ccincy: Hi ali,100%Trust,Honesty,Respect,Communication,Loyalty,Happiness,Compromise,Safety, Committment cause without any of it there really is no relationship to begin with.
I wonder is there such thing as 100% trust, specially when looking for a relationship in maturity of age, where part of us wants to experience it all as if is a first time love, while the other part of us already have a foot on the brake...
A squeaky bed
Dedovix: A squeaky bed
Change the mattres. No good to sleep on a bed where springs huting your back and can't even imagine you are able to do anything else on the old bed.
sleeping ???
who said anything about sleeping
who said anything about sleeping
rainbowdream2017: I wonder is there such thing as 100% trust, specially when looking for a relationship in maturity of age, where part of us wants to experience it all as if is a first time love, while the other part of us already have a foot on the brake...
Let me tell you something if there hadn't been 100% trust in my marriage I wouldn't had been married to my late husband as long as I had been.It would been a farce of a marriage.
rainbowdream2017: I think most of us just looking at ideas of each other, like looking at your window shade, but when we see each other cracks open, something moves as an earthquake ...we stay in relationship to grow together or it ends.
I believe,connections are not made by planning things ahead how we think it should be for our selfish convenient reasons but connections are made with the heart, build true growing friendship and making time spent together as a melody that could be replayed over and over without getting bored, seeking out some simple and true feeling of what you have in common, letting Love to make a way...To be fully seen, by somebody, and be unconditionally loved anyhow is a complete circle, where when he tells me 'he loves me' is just a ceremonious complimentary validation of what he already show me every day, in every way, that it grows into faith that in this love there is a strength and a blessing so large that I can travel as far as I wish, without doubts that we can not communicate any glims of a problem arising, which is not meant to be idealised of never going true argument and still getting out alive and stronger together, because in my humble view, it is better to get things out of the chest than to let a lot of stuff make to end relationship and not getting said.
The number one importance is to stop expecting people to be perfect so you can like them for who they are and not for what you want them to be, to combined flaws in a way that allows two separate beings to enjoy together by practising tolerance and flexibilities; as what is worth fighting to be who I am and for all my life principals, if I will miss the opportunity to be with the person who would be worth all the fighting for - except if one is manipulative control freak who wants to take all benefits to serve only self-interest, than 'fighting' is not worth at all.
Another thing I consider very important is; not to search for somebody to complete us but to compliment us, because each of us is responsible for our own fulfilment in completing self and nobody else can or should be expected to provide it for us.
thanks for sharing letting us poor men know what lady wants from the relationship... having less experience in relationship what i observed is that .....either nothing is important or all things are important. Things and needs of partner get changed with the time. Here everything depends on person/partner you are dealing with. If he/she loves you and wants to be with you then you are lucky you partner will get happy with small thing you do for them but if they are not interested in you anymore....you can never make them happy..... this is not an expert opinion things might be just opposite what i saidI believe,connections are not made by planning things ahead how we think it should be for our selfish convenient reasons but connections are made with the heart, build true growing friendship and making time spent together as a melody that could be replayed over and over without getting bored, seeking out some simple and true feeling of what you have in common, letting Love to make a way...To be fully seen, by somebody, and be unconditionally loved anyhow is a complete circle, where when he tells me 'he loves me' is just a ceremonious complimentary validation of what he already show me every day, in every way, that it grows into faith that in this love there is a strength and a blessing so large that I can travel as far as I wish, without doubts that we can not communicate any glims of a problem arising, which is not meant to be idealised of never going true argument and still getting out alive and stronger together, because in my humble view, it is better to get things out of the chest than to let a lot of stuff make to end relationship and not getting said.
The number one importance is to stop expecting people to be perfect so you can like them for who they are and not for what you want them to be, to combined flaws in a way that allows two separate beings to enjoy together by practising tolerance and flexibilities; as what is worth fighting to be who I am and for all my life principals, if I will miss the opportunity to be with the person who would be worth all the fighting for - except if one is manipulative control freak who wants to take all benefits to serve only self-interest, than 'fighting' is not worth at all.
Another thing I consider very important is; not to search for somebody to complete us but to compliment us, because each of us is responsible for our own fulfilment in completing self and nobody else can or should be expected to provide it for us.
rainbowdream2017: I think most of us just looking at ideas of each other, like looking at your window shade, but when we see each other cracks open, something moves as an earthquake ...we stay in relationship to grow together or it ends.
I believe,connections are not made by planning things ahead how we think it should be for our selfish convenient reasons but connections are made with the heart, build true growing friendship and making time spent together as a melody that could be replayed over and over without getting bored, seeking out some simple and true feeling of what you have in common, letting Love to make a way...To be fully seen, by somebody, and be unconditionally loved anyhow is a complete circle, where when he tells me 'he loves me' is just a ceremonious complimentary validation of what he already show me every day, in every way, that it grows into faith that in this love there is a strength and a blessing so large that I can travel as far as I wish, without doubts that we can not communicate any glims of a problem arising, which is not meant to be idealised of never going true argument and still getting out alive and stronger together, because in my humble view, it is better to get things out of the chest than to let a lot of stuff make to end relationship and not getting said.
The number one importance is to stop expecting people to be perfect so you can like them for who they are and not for what you want them to be, to combined flaws in a way that allows two separate beings to enjoy together by practising tolerance and flexibilities; as what is worth fighting to be who I am and for all my life principals, if I will miss the opportunity to be with the person who would be worth all the fighting for - except if one is manipulative control freak who wants to take all benefits to serve only self-interest, than 'fighting' is not worth at all.
Another thing I consider very important is; not to search for somebody to complete us but to compliment us, because each of us is responsible for our own fulfilment in completing self and nobody else can or should be expected to provide it for us.
You said some Valid and true points I believe,connections are not made by planning things ahead how we think it should be for our selfish convenient reasons but connections are made with the heart, build true growing friendship and making time spent together as a melody that could be replayed over and over without getting bored, seeking out some simple and true feeling of what you have in common, letting Love to make a way...To be fully seen, by somebody, and be unconditionally loved anyhow is a complete circle, where when he tells me 'he loves me' is just a ceremonious complimentary validation of what he already show me every day, in every way, that it grows into faith that in this love there is a strength and a blessing so large that I can travel as far as I wish, without doubts that we can not communicate any glims of a problem arising, which is not meant to be idealised of never going true argument and still getting out alive and stronger together, because in my humble view, it is better to get things out of the chest than to let a lot of stuff make to end relationship and not getting said.
The number one importance is to stop expecting people to be perfect so you can like them for who they are and not for what you want them to be, to combined flaws in a way that allows two separate beings to enjoy together by practising tolerance and flexibilities; as what is worth fighting to be who I am and for all my life principals, if I will miss the opportunity to be with the person who would be worth all the fighting for - except if one is manipulative control freak who wants to take all benefits to serve only self-interest, than 'fighting' is not worth at all.
Another thing I consider very important is; not to search for somebody to complete us but to compliment us, because each of us is responsible for our own fulfilment in completing self and nobody else can or should be expected to provide it for us.
Ccincy: Let me tell you something if there hadn't been 100% trust in my marriage I wouldn't had been married to my late husband as long as I had been.It would been a farce of a marriage.
U spent a successful marraige life with your Husband Ciny Ccincy: Let me tell you something if there hadn't been 100% trust in my marriage I wouldn't had been married to my late husband as long as I had been.It would been a farce of a marriage.
guysimple: thanks for sharing letting us poor men know what lady wants from the relationship... having less experience in relationship what i observed is that .....either nothing is important or all things are important. Things and needs of partner get changed with the time. Here everything depends on person/partner you are dealing with. If he/she loves you and wants to be with you then you are lucky you partner will get happy with small thing you do for them but if they are not interested in you anymore....you can never make them happy..... this is not an expert opinion things might be just opposite what i said
I do not see any poor man here. I am no expert myself, only know what I want or don't want. My advice;
It's best not to be with a person that doesn't give you loving feelings as nothing will ever be 'good enough'
no matter if you turne and twist your life around, it be just waist of energy and time, as you said,you can never make them happy and don't even attempt to but just run as fast you can and never look back !
ali110: You said some Valid and true points
Thank you Ali.
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Hi ciny