Is love enough? (155)

Dec 19, 2008 4:39 PM CST Is love enough?
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
mortalez: with that one statmente you have shown that you believe love IS enough and you are honest about that statment you are one of the loving caring females dicribed in the pole.



No, I have shown that I do not care about materialistic things...

That I am not shallow and materialistic.

I am a loving caring female, yes, I love to love, care and support.

Love is enough for two people, when they are compatible and meet each others needs emotionally, physically and in all aspects of their personalities, and it survives...
Dec 19, 2008 5:03 PM CST Is love enough?
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
I agree with you, it's not always like that, i was with someone i really loved but if you can't eat or have somewhere to live you staying with them is not always an option regardless how much you love them
Dec 19, 2008 5:08 PM CST Is love enough?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
Love, love, love, love, love!!devil
Dec 19, 2008 5:13 PM CST Is love enough?
laura225
laura225laura225Somewhere, New York USA3 Threads 2 Polls 1,792 Posts
mortalez: if your personalities were so different then love would not come, you could like them, like them alot but not love, and life circumstances are outside to actual love.

you got it - so different that love never came.

quote mortalez
"and life circumstances are outside to actual love."
confused
Dec 19, 2008 5:14 PM CST Is love enough?
laura225
laura225laura225Somewhere, New York USA3 Threads 2 Polls 1,792 Posts
HJFinAZ: Love, love, love, love, love!!

wave Hi Pat
laugh having fun with new system ?
Dec 19, 2008 5:20 PM CST Is love enough?
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
morgan5: I agree with you, it's not always like that, i was with someone i really loved but if you can't eat or have somewhere to live you staying with them is not always an option regardless how much you love them



Hi Morgan

I agree entirely, love will soon fly out the window when money problems start rearing their ugly head.
Dec 19, 2008 5:20 PM CST Is love enough?
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
Love is strange.

How is love *only* enough, for people who aren't materialistic or concerned about where/how a person lives, yet care about things like appearances and clothes ( they shouldn't be dirty or have holes in them)?

I doubt a man living in abject poverty, somewhere in a cardboard box, would afford a decent shirt to wear to a date.

Contradiction.


roll eyes doh
Dec 19, 2008 5:26 PM CST Is love enough?
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
I forgot to mention.

For me, many other things matter, other than feeling like i want to swoon over a man.

Many other things, and i've said this before.
Dec 19, 2008 5:29 PM CST Is love enough?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
laura225: Hi Pat
having fun with new system ?


Hell yeah..........rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Dec 19, 2008 5:30 PM CST Is love enough?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
Is "love" enough for what????devil
Dec 19, 2008 5:33 PM CST Is love enough?
laura225
laura225laura225Somewhere, New York USA3 Threads 2 Polls 1,792 Posts
lusciousmile: Love is strange.

How is love *only* enough, for people who aren't materialistic or concerned about where/how a person lives, yet care about things like appearances and clothes ( they shouldn't be dirty or have holes in them)?

I doubt a man living in abject poverty, somewhere in a cardboard box, would afford a decent shirt to wear to a date.

Contradiction.


Hi Lush,

just go and vote - you are given a choice:

* I'm a man yes/no
* I'm a shallow woman and no
* I'm a materialistic women and no
* I'm a shallow and materialistic women and no

heart wings
Dec 19, 2008 5:35 PM CST Is love enough?
HJFinAZ: Is "love" enough for what????



Probably just enough to get you into trouble.laugh laugh
Dec 19, 2008 5:36 PM CST Is love enough?
laura225
laura225laura225Somewhere, New York USA3 Threads 2 Polls 1,792 Posts
HJFinAZ: Is "love" enough for what????


I don't think, Pat, you'll get your answer in here.

Go look elsewhere, 'coz OP is as selective with replies as with poll questions/options.
Dec 19, 2008 5:37 PM CST Is love enough?
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
mortalez: Is love enough?

* I'm a man and yes.
* I'm a man and no.
* I'm a loving and caring woman and yes.<---- Did you miss the one?
* I'm a shallow materialistic women and no


...and where is the option for a woman who doesn´t believe that love is enough, but it has nothing to do with money? I have loved men where the compatibility to have a relationship just isn´t there.... the goals we have and the future we want are just too different to consider a "forever" together...because I don´t think love is enough the only option left on your poll is shallow and materialistic?

Where is the shallow materialistic button for the guys... the ones who want a slim, big breasted Barbie 20 years younger then he is?

Sorry but this poll stinks and I didn´t vote.
Dec 19, 2008 5:37 PM CST Is love enough?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
lusciousmile: Love is strange.

How is love *only* enough, for people who aren't materialistic or concerned about where/how a person lives, yet care about things like appearances and clothes ( they shouldn't be dirty or have holes in them)?

I doubt a man living in abject poverty, somewhere in a cardboard box, would afford a decent shirt to wear to a date.

Contradiction.





Love, love is strange
Lot of people take it for a game
Once you get it
You'll never wanna quit (no, no)
After you've had it (yeah, yeah)
You're in an awful fix
Many people
Don't understand (no, no)
They think loving (yeah, yeah)
Is money in the hand
Your sweet loving
Is better than a kiss
When you leave me
Sweet kisses I miss

MICKEY:
Silvia...

SILVIA:
Yes Mickey?

MICKEY:
How do you call your loverboy?

SILVIA:
Come 'ere loverboy!!

MICKEY:
And if he doesnt answer?

SILVIA:
Ohh loverboy!

MICKEY:
And if he STILL doesnt answer?

SILVIA:
I simply say
Baby,
Oohh baby
My sweet baby
You're the one

TOGETHER:
Baby,
Oohh baby
My sweet baby
You're the one

devil
Dec 19, 2008 5:38 PM CST Is love enough?
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
laura225: Hi Lush,

just go and vote - you are given a choice:

* I'm a man yes/no
* I'm a shallow woman and no
* I'm a materialistic women and no
* I'm a shallow and materialistic women and no


I wanted to vote, but realised there wasn't an 'I'm real, guess! ' option.

laugh

Hi, Laura! hug
Dec 19, 2008 5:44 PM CST Is love enough?
laura225
laura225laura225Somewhere, New York USA3 Threads 2 Polls 1,792 Posts
lusciousmile: I wanted to vote, but realised there wasn't an 'I'm real, guess! ' option.

Hi, Laura!


No, we don't have this option, sorry sad flower

The OP insists it would be too long giggle

Well, the most accurate answer for me in this poll, would be

* I'm a man and yes

should I go ahead and vote?
Dec 19, 2008 5:48 PM CST Is love enough?
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
laura225: No, we don't have this option, sorry

The OP insists it would be too long

Well, the most accurate answer for me in this poll, would be

* I'm a man and yes

should I go ahead and vote?



Well, Laura, if you don't mind living in a card board box, dressed as a man, in love with his man, then i think that's the option for you. giggle

We need to have some tea now, you and i.


rolling on the floor laughing doh hug
Dec 19, 2008 5:51 PM CST Is love enough?
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
jbibiza: ...and where is the option for a woman who doesn´t believe that love is enough, but it has nothing to do with money? I have loved men where the compatibility to have a relationship just isn´t there.... the goals we have and the future we want are just too different to consider a "forever" together...because I don´t think love is enough the only option left on your poll is shallow and materialistic?

Where is the shallow materialistic button for the guys... the ones who want a slim, big breasted Barbie 20 years younger then he is?

Sorry but this poll stinks and I didn´t vote.


Now J, tell us what you really think.

I can see where you are coming from.

The poll is flawed, definitely.

Is love enough?

Just to make my position clear, though.

Love is not always enough, sometimes it can be, if I loved a man who fell into poverty, then I am going to support him and be there, sometimes when you are truly in love, and that is deep love that has grown and developed over time, whatever the timescale, then of course, I would not back out of that because of poverty.

I do not attach power to money, I do not have that much myself, enough to support my children, my home and that is enough.

Love is not about money, it is about love and two people who choose to be together, if that means the pennies are tight then so be it...

Your post, as always is brilliant.
Dec 19, 2008 6:00 PM CST Is love enough?
laura225
laura225laura225Somewhere, New York USA3 Threads 2 Polls 1,792 Posts
lusciousmile: Dana won't be too happy with this.

This thread is so contradicting, and it's not the Op alone doing this.

Some tea might help now.



Hey, americans prefer coffee, don't they?


laugh you noticed? handshake

They do, but with such perceptive girl - anything, sotea would be just fine grin
Dec 19, 2008 6:07 PM CST Is love enough?
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
No, love is not enough.

There needs to be trust as well.

Without that. There is nothing.

Nothing at all.sad flower
Dec 19, 2008 6:39 PM CST Is love enough?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
venere08: No, love is not enough.

There needs to be trust as well.

Without that. There is nothing.

Nothing at all.


And money..........Don't forget, "she" must have money...grin
Dec 19, 2008 6:41 PM CST Is love enough?
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
venere08: No, love is not enough.

There needs to be trust as well.

Without that. There is nothing.

Nothing at all.



Hi Ven...

Exactly...
Dec 19, 2008 6:42 PM CST Is love enough?
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
HJFinAZ: And money..........Don't forget, "she" must have money...


You are mad.

And her own house, do not forget own house too...
Dec 19, 2008 6:46 PM CST Is love enough?
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
Sommerauer71: Hi Ven...

Exactly...


Something has just happened, that has devastated me.

Due to that person not having the trust I so needed from them.

It is a very time for me right now.

Hi Sommer.sad flower
Dec 19, 2008 6:47 PM CST Is love enough?
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
venere08:
It is a very time for me right now.

Hi Sommer.


sorry, 'a very sad time'
Dec 19, 2008 6:48 PM CST Is love enough?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
Sommerauer71: You are mad.

And her own house, do not forget own house too...


doh DAMN!!!!!!!!! I knew I forgot something..frustrated Old & senile ya know..sigh
Dec 19, 2008 6:48 PM CST Is love enough?
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
HJFinAZ: And money..........Don't forget, "she" must have money...


No HJ, It is not the money. I know some very wealthy people.

Some are men. That has never been the draw card for me.

sad flower
Dec 19, 2008 6:55 PM CST Is love enough?
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
venere08: Something has just happened, that has devastated me.

Due to that person not having the trust I so needed from them.

It is a very time for me right now.

Hi Sommer.



I am sorry to hear that Ven...

You know where I am, if you need an ear to make it easier to negotiate...
Dec 19, 2008 6:55 PM CST Is love enough?
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
HJFinAZ: DAMN!!!!!!!!! I knew I forgot something.. Old & senile ya know..


That is ok, Pat, I will keep you on the straight and narrow.

House and her own car...

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