I don't think men should judge us for it, nor us them. If it's mutual, consensual, and felt good, then no harm no foul to either party. And you decide where to go from there.
druidess6308: I don't think men should judge us for it, nor us them. If it's mutual, consensual, and felt good, then no harm no foul to either party. And you decide where to go from there.
rasgumby: I just cant have any respect for a woman that would sleep with me on the first date!!!
But if SHE slept with YOU on the first date, that means YOU slept with HER on the first date, as well. Does that make you any better than her? Do you respect yourself? Should she not respect you?
sweetowen: But if SHE slept with YOU on the first date, that means YOU slept with HER on the first date, as well. Does that make you any better than her? Do you respect yourself? Should she not respect you?
NO NO.. you missed my point! main word being ME... If she sleeps with me so quick.. she has no standards at all
LACaliSouthern California, California USA936 posts
DragonBlue: Tell me how you feel about a woman who sleeps with you on the first date, even though you wanted her to.
Frankly, I couldn't get past a man sleeping with me on the first date. I could never respect him after that. I'd never feel the same. I'd just want to use him to satisfy my needs then toss him to the curb.
LACali: Frankly, I couldn't get past a man sleeping with me on the first date. I could never respect him after that. I'd never feel the same. I'd just want to use him to satisfy my needs then toss him to the curb.
babymiloWollongong, New South Wales Australia64 posts
DragonBlue: Tell me how you feel about a woman who sleeps with you on the first date, even though you wanted her to.
We are referring to 2 consenting mature adults seeking what is normal behaviour. Both were thinking the same thing and as long as both agree that was an possible expectation or outcome that is fine.
sweetowen: But if SHE slept with YOU on the first date, that means YOU slept with HER on the first date, as well. Does that make you any better than her? Do you respect yourself? Should she not respect you?
You were on my mind when I went to bed last nite and,I respected you when I got up this mornin'!
i have had this happen alot lately, and i honestly dont think any less of them, in fact it makes me want them more , to further explore there body and how she responds to various things, that way you find out sooner what she likes.
DragonBlue: Tell me how you feel about a woman who sleeps with you on the first date, even though you wanted her to.
Sleeping with someone on the first date is, to me, not a big deal. Yeah, I am aware that it may present health concerns and for a woman there is the personal image to consider but some people do not "get it" all the time and when chemistry is present why waste it on some perceived disrespect? I went on a weekend date with someone whom I thought wouldn't do it on the first date so when it came to sleep in the same bed I respected what I thought was he wishes and then she complained about it later. Seriously! I've realized that what some people profess to adhere to don't sometime stick to it or have any intention to. How to know? We don't. And so we move on.
DragonBlue: Tell me how you feel about a woman who sleeps with you on the first date, even though you wanted her to.
He best not think anything...cause If I'm a ho...soooooooo is he baby...the pendulum swings both ways...hey women don't sleep together on the first date by themselves.....
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