Is it ok for people in a relationship to hide text messages from each other? (27)
I agree with you. Nothing to hide.
Let's get back to 1982 and stay there!
When I was 20 (1991) there was no cell phones and no internet, oh what happy days!
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Let's get back to 1982 and stay there!
When I was 20 (1991) there was no cell phones and no internet, oh what happy days!
Welcome to cs forums.
Why not Show them all except those among your healthcare team?
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Nothing should be something one wants to hide. I never looked in my husband wallet nor he in mine. I have no idea what is on my guys phone nor him on mine. I was taught to respect privacy by my parents. If a couple are true, then there should be no interest.
"Is it ok for people in a relationship to hide text messages from each other?"
Maybe they don't have an open relationship.
Maybe they don't have an open relationship.
The song "Suspicious minds" comes to mind.
When my partner insists on going through my phone, checking on me etc., I would turn around and run like hell! That, to me, is a red flag, a clear indication of controlling behaviour. I've learned to always listen to my inner voice. One of the few things I regret, is ignoring that voice. I find it easier to forgive others, than to forgive myself.
Nah... I cannot imagine living like that.
When my partner insists on going through my phone, checking on me etc., I would turn around and run like hell! That, to me, is a red flag, a clear indication of controlling behaviour. I've learned to always listen to my inner voice. One of the few things I regret, is ignoring that voice. I find it easier to forgive others, than to forgive myself.
Nah... I cannot imagine living like that.
lifelong relationship is the rarest. Only few lucky people get it.
I don't believe that being in a relationship requires one to tell the other person, or give them access to, everything. Privacy is a valued commodity for everybody. (Not every friendship rises to the level of deceit or cheating, etc....) Why do we even "think" this way? I can remember both my grandparents, who, by the way, were absolutely totally in LOVE with each other, say from time to time, "hey, let's not tell Grandpa/Grandma about this, OK?" Women have long held personal feelings and information of one kind or another from their husbands, and husbands have done so as well. It is OK to have a private life even though married. jmo
diova: The song "Suspicious minds" comes to mind.
When my partner insists on going through my phone, checking on me etc., I would turn around and run like hell! That, to me, is a red flag, a clear indication of controlling behaviour. I've learned to always listen to my inner voice. One of the few things I regret, is ignoring that voice. I find it easier to forgive others, than to forgive myself.
Nah... I cannot imagine living like that.
RIGHT ON!!!!!!!When my partner insists on going through my phone, checking on me etc., I would turn around and run like hell! That, to me, is a red flag, a clear indication of controlling behaviour. I've learned to always listen to my inner voice. One of the few things I regret, is ignoring that voice. I find it easier to forgive others, than to forgive myself.
Nah... I cannot imagine living like that.
If I’m paying my own bill, nobody has a right
to look at a Tex or nothing else, it’s a thing call
trust, I don’t look at nobody phone if I’m in
a relationship
to look at a Tex or nothing else, it’s a thing call
trust, I don’t look at nobody phone if I’m in
a relationship
Depends on the nature of the s/texts.
Oh do tell
I would find it weird. There were many times when my fiancee's phone was flat or vice versa and we would leave the other on charge and just take the one phone. We both had access to all our laptops and computers, emails, and we had shared bank accounts. There's no way I'd ever stay in a relationship where we acted like we were still single...
OutdoorNZ: I would find it weird. There were many times when my fiancee's phone was flat or vice versa and we would leave the other on charge and just take the one phone. We both had access to all our laptops and computers, emails, and we had shared bank accounts. There's no way I'd ever stay in a relationship where we acted like we were still single...
Well she crazy, and you for having shared bank accounts
hint fiancé, y’all not even married just keep a eye on it
cause she may not want you no more and draw all
the money out
Oh and let me add, your username outdoor fits you fine
that’s where you gone be
that’s where you gone be
rohaan: RIGHT ON!!!!!!!
Hi rohaan,Unhealthy jealousy leads to insecurity and lack of trust. This could turn into a toxic relationship. Harbouring those little boats of insecurities over a period of time could destroy relationships, leaving you exhausted and drained. Almost like living with a narcissist. Some believe jealousy is the epitome of love. To me, it's quite the opposite.
From time to time, I value my freedom and solitude. More importantly, I know my value and don't give discounts.
Guess that's why I'm still on my own.
I'm doomed
Packersbabe1: Well she crazy, and you for having shared bank accounts
hint fiancé, y’all not even married just keep a eye on it
cause she may not want you no more and draw all
the money out
It's hard to imagine being in a relationship where your partner's honesty is a concern ... why even stay together?hint fiancé, y’all not even married just keep a eye on it
cause she may not want you no more and draw all
the money out
Packersbabe1: Oh and let me add, your username outdoor fits you fine
that’s where you gone be
Yeah ok lol - believe it or not, there are good people out there : )that’s where you gone be
I would only check if he was acting strange and things seem different. You kind of know in your stomach when something isn’t right. Otherwise I would trust them and no intrude.
OutdoorNZ: It's hard to imagine being in a relationship where your partner's honesty is a concern ... why even stay together?
It’s starts out as good, just keep and eye onthat joint account, you can be honest with
each, but you don’t have to have a joint account together
Outdoor, your profile doesn’t say you’re engaged
so it look like to me, you’re not being honest
so it look like to me, you’re not being honest
Packersbabe1: Outdoor, your profile doesn’t say you’re engaged
so it look like to me, you’re not being honest
She passed away in 2019 - the year we were to be married.... and yes it still feels like I'm cheating being here...so it look like to me, you’re not being honest
OutdoorNZ: She passed away in 2019 - the year we were to be married.... and yes it still feels like I'm cheating being here...
Sorry to hear that, but if you go back and read what you
wrote, you said fiancé and y’all share a bank account
but your profile say something different, you’re not
cheating, she passed 4years ago
outdoor you been posting sense 2015
but I’m gone leave that alone
but I’m gone leave that alone
Packersbabe1: Sorry to hear that, but if you go back and read what you
wrote, you said fiancé and y’all share a bank account
but your profile say something different, you’re not
cheating, she passed 4years ago
Yes we did - actually her name is still on our accounts.wrote, you said fiancé and y’all share a bank account
but your profile say something different, you’re not
cheating, she passed 4years ago
Each culture differs in this
OutdoorNZ: I would find it weird. There were many times when my fiancee's phone was flat or vice versa and we would leave the other on charge and just take the one phone. We both had access to all our laptops and computers, emails, and we had shared bank accounts. There's no way I'd ever stay in a relationship where we acted like we were still single...
There's more than one way to look at this. Relationships frequently fail because one or both parties feel their individuality (which includes right to privacy) has been compromised. If there is suspicion and/or jealousy in a relationship then it is already crap.diova: Hi rohaan,
Unhealthy jealousy leads to insecurity and lack of trust. This could turn into a toxic relationship. Harbouring those little boats of insecurities over a period of time could destroy relationships, leaving you exhausted and drained. Almost like living with a narcissist. Some believe jealousy is the epitome of love. To me, it's quite the opposite.
From time to time, I value my freedom and solitude. More importantly, I know my value and don't give discounts.
Guess that's why I'm still on my own.
I'm doomed
You are NOT doomed. You are very sage. There is absolutely nothing wrong with defending and protecting yourself. Remember the adage "TO THINE OWN SELF BE TRUE". It is still as valid as ever. Blessings to you.....Unhealthy jealousy leads to insecurity and lack of trust. This could turn into a toxic relationship. Harbouring those little boats of insecurities over a period of time could destroy relationships, leaving you exhausted and drained. Almost like living with a narcissist. Some believe jealousy is the epitome of love. To me, it's quite the opposite.
From time to time, I value my freedom and solitude. More importantly, I know my value and don't give discounts.
Guess that's why I'm still on my own.
I'm doomed
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