Men...what kind of woman do you prefer? Be honest. (118)
DUBLINGUY1973: Yeah but not all couples who are married years are just married because of a piece of paper though. Some are actually married because they are happy.
afree but the world is a different place there wisdom is just out of time2tall: well in my opinion the spark is there on clapping eyes on the person, ive had a few relationships but i know i only loved once... butterflies come and go but the spark is there forever
Well that initial spark and chemistry are not necessarily the same thing in my opinion. Chemistry is more about a rapport with another person than an initial attraction. I'm not sure how much chemistry you can build in a minute though....JMO
DUBLINGUY1973: Well that initial spark and chemistry are not necessarily the same thing in my opinion. Chemistry is more about a rapport with another person than an initial attraction. I'm not sure how much chemistry you can build in a minute though....JMO
well each to there own
2tall: auld ireland?
staying locked in misory because of the church, appearance, kids,
no thanks
thats a very rare minority of people
jmo
staying locked in misory because of the church, appearance, kids,
no thanks
thats a very rare minority of people
jmo
well my mother got pregnant with my oldest brother when she was 15. my grandmother made her marry my father. they are together 34 years now and are very happy. if times were different back then im sure they wouldnt of got married but saying that then i mightened of been my mothers best 21st birthday present ever
flick1980: well my mother got pregnant with my oldest brother when she was 15. my grandmother made her marry my father. they are together 34 years now and are very happy. if times were different back then im sure they wouldnt of got married but saying that then i mightened of been my mothers best 21st birthday present ever
DUBLINGUY1973: Well that initial spark and chemistry are not necessarily the same thing in my opinion. Chemistry is more about a rapport with another person than an initial attraction. I'm not sure how much chemistry you can build in a minute though....JMO
chemistry is an almost instant reaction ive loved twice and both times i knew after a couple of minutes that i was onto somethingjimbo79: chemistry is an almost instant reaction ive loved twice and both times i knew after a couple of minutes that i was onto something
Yeah but all i am saying is that i think it rarely happens that way. Well not in experience anyway....
My parents are married 40 years next year and they have had their ups and downs but I think I can safely say they are still very happy and not just still together out of obligation.
flick1980: well my mother got pregnant with my oldest brother when she was 15. my grandmother made her marry my father. they are together 34 years now and are very happy. if times were different back then im sure they wouldnt of got married but saying that then i mightened of been my mothers best 21st birthday present ever
Oh and Flick, I'm sure your mother would disagree with you about that
DUBLINGUY1973: Yeah but all i am saying is that i think it rarely happens that way. Well not in experience anyway....
My parents are married 40 years next year and they have had their ups and downs but I think I can safely say they are still very happy and not just still together out of obligation.
And isn't that something great to aspire to.My parents are married 40 years next year and they have had their ups and downs but I think I can safely say they are still very happy and not just still together out of obligation.
i voted for the top one i always go for the ones thats has problems and i dont know why
Graham
Graham
Not too clingy or afraid to break a nail. Knows how to make a man feel like a man. She should be a woman: not 75% man and 25% woman. Intelligent, yes. But not the type who feel she can string along all the guys or girls in the neighbourhood and still expect me not to find out. Huh?
ooohhhh .. I love'em all..
wexlady41: Following on from the Being Alone thread some of us ladies would like to know what it is men prefer. Feel free to be as honest as you like. It's just for our own information.
And ladies..let's not get all defensive if some of the men say something we don't like.
Let the fun begin!!!!!
And ladies..let's not get all defensive if some of the men say something we don't like.
Let the fun begin!!!!!
Well i like a lady to be kind and honest,loyal and i can have a good laugh with and doesnt take life to seriously and likes me for me.
a good woman knows where she at lookin after her man
how many chauvanist pigs does it take to clean a toilet
none its a womans job he he
how many chauvanist pigs does it take to clean a toilet
none its a womans job he he
Spiritual. Independent. Self-aware.
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Aware of others without being unduly influenced by them.
Healthy.
Serous enough to laugh at her quriks-and mine!
Naughty if and when the situation calls for it.
Fond of the finer things without being bound by their materialistic nature.
Comfortable in her body.
And finally, a woman who is aware of the transience of everything while knowing how to get the most out of it in a fun-filled and joyful way.
&
Aware of others without being unduly influenced by them.
Healthy.
Serous enough to laugh at her quriks-and mine!
Naughty if and when the situation calls for it.
Fond of the finer things without being bound by their materialistic nature.
Comfortable in her body.
And finally, a woman who is aware of the transience of everything while knowing how to get the most out of it in a fun-filled and joyful way.
Iamthinking: Spiritual. Independent. Self-aware.
&
Aware of others without being unduly influenced by them.
Healthy.
Serous enough to laugh at her quriks-and mine!
Naughty if and when the situation calls for it.
Fond of the finer things without being bound by their materialistic nature.
Comfortable in her body.
And finally, a woman who is aware of the transience of everything while knowing how to get the most out of it in a fun-filled and joyful way.
&
Aware of others without being unduly influenced by them.
Healthy.
Serous enough to laugh at her quriks-and mine!
Naughty if and when the situation calls for it.
Fond of the finer things without being bound by their materialistic nature.
Comfortable in her body.
And finally, a woman who is aware of the transience of everything while knowing how to get the most out of it in a fun-filled and joyful way.
Can I use this to describe myself on my profile????
LadyBlackAdder: SDB, we are sisters
I was just about to say the same thing
I was just about to say the same thing
well Mrs Black Adder
we could be twins even
and hey if that is what he is looking for now he has a choice
LadyBlackAdder: My dear, there is no choice. He could do no better than you
Just treat him well, and when you are done with him, wash him and send him on to me
Just treat him well, and when you are done with him, wash him and send him on to me
ah now by the time I am done with him there won't be much left, so you should go first! really, I insist
I see this thread is potentialy turning into one hell of a sticky mess.
kidatheart: I see this thread is potentialy turning into one hell of a sticky mess.
Yes, I fear I did get a bit carried away and did some hijacking. My most abject apologies. I am light headed waiting for the time to go to the Cork meet
kidatheart: No, not all, just 99.95%. I'll bet the .05% are really mean and miserable lepers too.
why make yerselves sound so negative jus goina dig a bigger hole
DUBLINGUY1973: Okay this is how i see it......
In most situations (and notice i said MOST and NOT all in case i get shot here) when a woman meets a man, she likes him and sees potential for him to be her perfect man. Then after a while she sets about moulding him into what she wants. When he doesn't change, the woman gets frustrated.
However, when a man meets a woman, he likes her and hopes she doesn't change because he thinks she is grand as she is. She does change though because she always wants to better herself and the man gets frustrated.
Men tend to be very laid back, sometimes too laid back (maybe even lazy)and a lot of women can't accept that.
Oh and as for the control thing, most men i think are all for compromise but they hate being bossed around and controlled. The trouble lies is that most women think that they need that push but men hate being told what to do. Believe it or not, they are not looking for another mammy.
But hey.......that's just my opinion. What do i know?
In most situations (and notice i said MOST and NOT all in case i get shot here) when a woman meets a man, she likes him and sees potential for him to be her perfect man. Then after a while she sets about moulding him into what she wants. When he doesn't change, the woman gets frustrated.
However, when a man meets a woman, he likes her and hopes she doesn't change because he thinks she is grand as she is. She does change though because she always wants to better herself and the man gets frustrated.
Men tend to be very laid back, sometimes too laid back (maybe even lazy)and a lot of women can't accept that.
Oh and as for the control thing, most men i think are all for compromise but they hate being bossed around and controlled. The trouble lies is that most women think that they need that push but men hate being told what to do. Believe it or not, they are not looking for another mammy.
But hey.......that's just my opinion. What do i know?
I was having a look through this thread and thought the above quote was so true....there are very few men that want a woman to change at all from when they first meet but I dont believe the same can be said of most women
However I do think that the woman wants to change the man in her own mind so as to enhance the relationship in her mind, rather than any malicious reason.
With reference to an earlier post, I do believe that guys would like their woman to have at least a little bit of vulnerability, they're looking for a feminine and not a male personality.
As it might say in those relationship books, they're looking for a "refuge" after being out chasing lions all day !!
Women might think this is pathetic or not relevant to the modern world, but the statistics for separated, divorced and single adults in the western world says otherwise.
As the old saying goes, the first 3 things that a woman sees on entering the church on wedding day are the aisle, the alter and him - I'll alter him
confident
wexlady41: Following on from the Being Alone thread some of us ladies would like to know what it is men prefer. Feel free to be as honest as you like. It's just for our own information.
And ladies..let's not get all defensive if some of the men say something we don't like.
Let the fun begin!!!!!
I like the bodies to be somewhat still warm....And ladies..let's not get all defensive if some of the men say something we don't like.
Let the fun begin!!!!!
There you are .... Us men are such simple souls!!
Thank you MiLady
Thank you MiLady
wexlady41: Following on from the Being Alone thread some of us ladies would like to know what it is men prefer. Feel free to be as honest as you like. It's just for our own information.
And ladies..let's not get all defensive if some of the men say something we don't like.
Let the fun begin!!!!!
And ladies..let's not get all defensive if some of the men say something we don't like.
Let the fun begin!!!!!
A mixture of the first two options
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staying locked in misory because of the church, appearance, kids,
no thanks
thats a very rare minority of people
jmo