Which would you do? you can't choose both! ( Archived) (41)

Sep 9, 2009 12:28 PM CSTWhich would you do? you can't choose both!
sky_eyes
sky_eyessky_eyesTucson, Arizona, USA2 Threads 1 Polls 73 Posts

Which would you do? you can't choose both!(Vote Below)

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Marry for love
77
88%
Marry for money
11
12%
Total Votes
88
I just thought this would be an interesting question. When I was married I married for love. It was a very hard struggle financially but being a hopeless romantic.....I would choose love over money again if I had to.
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Sep 9, 2009 12:29 PM CST Which would you do? you can't choose both!
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
Lovesmitten
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Sep 9, 2009 12:30 PM CST Which would you do? you can't choose both!
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
Love.Money only goes so far.smitten
sky_eyes: I just thought this would be an interesting question. When I was married I married for love. It was a very hard struggle financially but being a hopeless romantic.....I would choose love over money again if I had to.
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Sep 9, 2009 12:31 PM CST Which would you do? you can't choose both!
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
sky_eyes: I just thought this would be an interesting question. When I was married I married for love. It was a very hard struggle financially but being a hopeless romantic.....I would choose love over money again if I had to.


marry twice.....uh oh
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Sep 9, 2009 12:31 PM CST Which would you do? you can't choose both!
almera03
almera03almera03portsmouth, Hampshire, England UK11 Threads 3,913 Posts
Loooooooooooove
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Sep 9, 2009 12:33 PM CST Which would you do? you can't choose both!
sky_eyes
sky_eyessky_eyesTucson, Arizona USA2 Threads 1 Polls 73 Posts
Polarbutterfly: Love.Money only goes so far.


Money can't buy love either. But the only things guys have ever bought me were a flower here and there, the occasional meal(that i didn't have to cook or pay for) or a card. i'm still waiting for romance.
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Sep 9, 2009 12:33 PM CST Which would you do? you can't choose both!
saseez
saseezsaseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia1,590 Posts
gee would have to be luvvvvvvvvv and a lot of it to make me marry again laugh
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Sep 9, 2009 12:35 PM CST Which would you do? you can't choose both!
sky_eyes
sky_eyessky_eyesTucson, Arizona USA2 Threads 1 Polls 73 Posts
saseez: gee would have to be luvvvvvvvvv and a lot of it to make me marry again


I totally agree with that! I'm not sure I'm the marrying type anymore. Or more like I don't know if any guy would consider me marriage material even if i did want to remarry.
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Sep 9, 2009 12:37 PM CST Which would you do? you can't choose both!
LoveableOne
LoveableOneLoveableOneMelbourne, Victoria Australia67 Threads 4,079 Posts
sky_eyes: Money can't buy love either. But the only things guys have ever bought me were a flower here and there, the occasional meal(that i didn't have to cook or pay for) or a card. i'm still waiting for romance.


uh huh me too men have feelings as well...


Ya love..
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Sep 9, 2009 12:42 PM CST Which would you do? you can't choose both!
WhovianGeneva
WhovianGenevaWhovianGenevaGeneva, Switzerland28 Threads 1 Polls 466 Posts
Love, What Else ?
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Sep 9, 2009 12:43 PM CST Which would you do? you can't choose both!
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
I'm speechless....uh oh
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Sep 9, 2009 12:43 PM CST Which would you do? you can't choose both!
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
Well I have all the money I need; so love was the best answer for me. Hell it would the same answer if I didn't have any.
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Sep 9, 2009 12:43 PM CST Which would you do? you can't choose both!
ContraryCol
ContraryColContraryColcrawley, West Sussex, England UK15 Threads 1 Polls 601 Posts
Hello sky eyes and saseez.
hug
Love always.
heart wings
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Sep 9, 2009 12:44 PM CST Which would you do? you can't choose both!
leonjs48
leonjs48leonjs48michigan, Michigan USA1 Threads 299 Posts
i vote for love
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Sep 9, 2009 12:44 PM CST Which would you do? you can't choose both!
sky_eyes
sky_eyessky_eyesTucson, Arizona USA2 Threads 1 Polls 73 Posts
I know men have feelings. most men don't show it so easily though. My ex-hubby said one of the good things i did for him was to bring out his emotions. It takes a real man to admit having emotions.....and a bigger one to show them. I just want to find a guy who will look at me and not just see grade A top choice meat! I want a guy who can see every depth of me.
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Sep 9, 2009 12:45 PM CST Which would you do? you can't choose both!
Ziva1
Ziva1Ziva1In the middel of nowhere.., Lapland Finland60 Threads 3,813 Posts
love....goes further than money...grin bouquet
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Sep 9, 2009 12:45 PM CST Which would you do? you can't choose both!
sky_eyes
sky_eyessky_eyesTucson, Arizona USA2 Threads 1 Polls 73 Posts
ContraryCol: Hello sky eyes and saseez.

Love always.


Hello. How are ya today?
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Sep 9, 2009 12:45 PM CST Which would you do? you can't choose both!
LoveableOne
LoveableOneLoveableOneMelbourne, Victoria Australia67 Threads 4,079 Posts
sky_eyes: I know men have feelings. most men don't show it so easily though. My ex-hubby said one of the good things i did for him was to bring out his emotions. It takes a real man to admit having emotions.....and a bigger one to show them. I just want to find a guy who will look at me and not just see grade A top choice meat! I want a guy who can see every depth of me.


Good! Heck I even believe a real man cries, for he isnt afraid to show emotion! :)
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Sep 9, 2009 12:45 PM CST Which would you do? you can't choose both!
I'd have to go for money $$$, tried the "love" thing twice, and it didn't work! Maybe the $$$ would! rolling on the floor laughing
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Sep 9, 2009 12:46 PM CST Which would you do? you can't choose both!
saseez
saseezsaseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia1,590 Posts
ContraryCol: Hello sky eyes and saseez.

Love always.
Hey col wave
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Sep 9, 2009 12:47 PM CST Which would you do? you can't choose both!
sky_eyes
sky_eyessky_eyesTucson, Arizona USA2 Threads 1 Polls 73 Posts
Ziva1: love....goes further than money...


If I had true love I'd say I'd be very successful. Some might laugh, but I'm kinda close to being the "all you need is love" type...lol
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Sep 9, 2009 12:48 PM CST Which would you do? you can't choose both!
Lagoona22
Lagoona22Lagoona22Bugibba, Majjistral Malta161 Threads 11 Polls 10,711 Posts
I'd never marry for money...I know I'd be miserable...but if I married someone destitute, she'd have to be pretty hot..aren't we all fools for beauty??...suuuuuurrrre thang..rolling on the floor laughing
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Sep 9, 2009 12:51 PM CST Which would you do? you can't choose both!
WhovianGeneva
WhovianGenevaWhovianGenevaGeneva, Switzerland28 Threads 1 Polls 466 Posts
sky_eyes: I know men have feelings. most men don't show it so easily though. My ex-hubby said one of the good things i did for him was to bring out his emotions. It takes a real man to admit having emotions.....and a bigger one to show them. I just want to find a guy who will look at me and not just see grade A top choice meat! I want a guy who can see every depth of me.


That's so right. I've got really a hard work to be able to let them free....
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Sep 9, 2009 12:52 PM CST Which would you do? you can't choose both!
sky_eyes
sky_eyessky_eyesTucson, Arizona USA2 Threads 1 Polls 73 Posts
i don't think i'll ever get remarried....for a couple reasons....some of you know about my exbf but another thing is that i received cash assistance because i'm unable to work. if i were to get remarried i'd lose my assistance and be totally dependent....and i'm not going to be dependent on a guy.
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Sep 9, 2009 12:55 PM CST Which would you do? you can't choose both!
OUTRAGEOUS
OUTRAGEOUSOUTRAGEOUSPanama, Panama44 Threads 1 Polls 1,768 Posts
Since I have no money, he'll have to marry me for love...

If I had money, I wouldn't get married. If he had money, I would be so inlove with him smitten smitten smitten but I wouldn't get married either...

Common law marriages are just as good, and you keep the "boyfriend/girlfriend" excitement longer...
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Sep 9, 2009 12:56 PM CST Which would you do? you can't choose both!
sky_eyes
sky_eyessky_eyesTucson, Arizona USA2 Threads 1 Polls 73 Posts
I don't know about other places but Arizona doesn't recognize common law marriages.
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Sep 9, 2009 1:22 PM CST Which would you do? you can't choose both!
OUTRAGEOUS
OUTRAGEOUSOUTRAGEOUSPanama, Panama44 Threads 1 Polls 1,768 Posts
OUTRAGEOUS: Since I have no money, he'll have to marry me for love...

If I had money, I wouldn't get married. If he had money, I would be so inlove with him but I wouldn't get married either...

Common law marriages are just as good, and you keep the "boyfriend/girlfriend" excitement longer...


Really? uh oh What about handfasting? wow

I guess I won't be living in Arizona, then...dunno

Wide, wide world...

but really, I'm not seeking marriage...three time's the charm...
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Sep 9, 2009 1:25 PM CST Which would you do? you can't choose both!
Sojourner
SojournerSojournerAndorra la Vella, Andorra31 Threads 2 Polls 472 Posts
mbcasey: Love
thumbs up
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Sep 9, 2009 1:26 PM CST Which would you do? you can't choose both!
snuggs99
snuggs99snuggs99Dover, New Jersey USA8 Threads 329 Posts
Ziva1: love....goes further than money...



That depends on who you marry. Love is the politically correct answer but there are many women who are gold diggers. I would never marry again. Don't need marriage at my age. If the right man comes along, we won't need a piece of paper to tell us to be loyal to each other.
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Sep 9, 2009 1:27 PM CST Which would you do? you can't choose both!
sky_eyes
sky_eyessky_eyesTucson, Arizona USA2 Threads 1 Polls 73 Posts
Ya I'm moving out of Arizona in January so I won't have to deal with that. There's no handfasting recognized either.
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Sep 9, 2009 1:27 PM CST Which would you do? you can't choose both!
geordie1007
geordie1007geordie1007glasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK25 Posts
got to be loveteddybear
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