Do you believe in love at first site? (142)
I don't think I believe in love at first site.....but I think you have to be open to love and be loved.....
LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT??
DEFINITELY YES!!!!
WHERE ARE YOU???
DEFINITELY YES!!!!
WHERE ARE YOU???
somechick: Lust at first sight but love I don't think so.JMO
You got that right Anna ......
Stockholm76: Maybe love at first sniff or bite
Stockholm76: How does one know that they are attracted to someone by first glance? Then if there is attraction what do you do, pursue the person and then ask for a date or just allow the moment to be a moment in time and then move on to the next thing on your agenda? Any testimonies positive would be great!
Yes, I believe in it. I am too romantic, to do it not..
Stockholm76: How does one know that they are attracted to someone by first glance? Then if there is attraction what do you do, pursue the person and then ask for a date or just allow the moment to be a moment in time and then move on to the next thing on your agenda? Any testimonies positive would be great!
I do NOT have a clue,..... but one needs a Dream to follow in life it makes it much easier. so I will keep this one.,
I will know within a few second of seeing you whether or not it will be love somewhere into the future. But, I can not love anyone on first sight. I can lust for you; I can like you; and, surely I would like to be with you, but not love.
Stockholm76: How does one know that they are attracted to someone by first glance? Then if there is attraction what do you do, pursue the person and then ask for a date or just allow the moment to be a moment in time and then move on to the next thing on your agenda? Any testimonies positive would be great!
Attraction at "first glance" is lust and love at first sight is naivete, or just plain stupidity...
You can never know someone to the point of knowing whether Love is really there or not, that's why people hate liars and have difficulties trusting again and again and again and... Yet, where do all those liars come from? "Everyone" I've ever talked to, online or in real life, has told me that they don't like liars and cheaters but I've never, in 30 years, met someone who said: "I'm one of those liars and cheaters."
Just to say that the ones pointing the fingers could be the very ones who are guilty of it.
Stockholm76: How does one know that they are attracted to someone by first glance? Then if there is attraction what do you do, pursue the person and then ask for a date or just allow the moment to be a moment in time and then move on to the next thing on your agenda? Any testimonies positive would be great!
It happened to me once and it was mutual. We lasted six years and I've never experienced a relationship of that quality or depth since.
Grandepensees: Attraction at "first glance" is lust and love at first sight is naivete, or just plain stupidity...
You can never know someone to the point of knowing whether Love is really there or not, that's why people hate liars and have difficulties trusting again and again and again and... Yet, where do all those liars come from? "Everyone" I've ever talked to, online or in real life, has told me that they don't like liars and cheaters but I've never, in 30 years, met someone who said: "I'm one of those liars and cheaters."
Just to say that the ones pointing the fingers could be the very ones who are guilty of it.
You can never know someone to the point of knowing whether Love is really there or not, that's why people hate liars and have difficulties trusting again and again and again and... Yet, where do all those liars come from? "Everyone" I've ever talked to, online or in real life, has told me that they don't like liars and cheaters but I've never, in 30 years, met someone who said: "I'm one of those liars and cheaters."
Just to say that the ones pointing the fingers could be the very ones who are guilty of it.
Yes! When one points their finger, there are three fingers facing back.
Grandepensees: Attraction at "first glance" is lust and love at first sight is naivete, or just plain stupidity...
You can never know someone to the point of knowing whether Love is really there or not, that's why people hate liars and have difficulties trusting again and again and again and... Yet, where do all those liars come from? "Everyone" I've ever talked to, online or in real life, has told me that they don't like liars and cheaters but I've never, in 30 years, met someone who said: "I'm one of those liars and cheaters."
Just to say that the ones pointing the fingers could be the very ones who are guilty of it.
You can never know someone to the point of knowing whether Love is really there or not, that's why people hate liars and have difficulties trusting again and again and again and... Yet, where do all those liars come from? "Everyone" I've ever talked to, online or in real life, has told me that they don't like liars and cheaters but I've never, in 30 years, met someone who said: "I'm one of those liars and cheaters."
Just to say that the ones pointing the fingers could be the very ones who are guilty of it.
I AGREE..I THINK LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT REALLY IS LUST. A VERY STRONG PHYSICAL ATRACTION. HOW CAN YOU LOVE SOMEONE THAT YOU DONT EVEN KNOW.
NO SUCH THING, ATLEAST IT NEVER HAPPENED TO ME...
RLML48: Usually, it is attraction first, so that's called lust?, and then, if we happen to be compatible, then love, but it takes time to find the latter out. So, my answer is no, I don't believe in love at first sight. Just because I like a guy when I first see him, it doesn't mean I'm in love with him, at least, not on the first few minutes of our encounter.
Well said...
YES!
IN MY EPERIENCE, I AM 42, I CAN SAY I WAS TRULY IN LOVE ONLY ONCE IN MY LIFE. DEEP IN LOVE, I HAVE LOVED BUT NEVER LIKE THAT.
I DONT KNOW IF MAYBE I DONT OPEN UP TO LOVE IN FEAR OF LOSING IT AGAIN..
I DONT KNOW IF MAYBE I DONT OPEN UP TO LOVE IN FEAR OF LOSING IT AGAIN..
babydoll67: I AGREE..I THINK LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT REALLY IS LUST. A VERY STRONG PHYSICAL ATRACTION. HOW CAN YOU LOVE SOMEONE THAT YOU DONT EVEN KNOW.
NO SUCH THING, ATLEAST IT NEVER HAPPENED TO ME...
NO SUCH THING, ATLEAST IT NEVER HAPPENED TO ME...
It seems that a lot of people confuse fantasy with real life and poetry with real feelings.
Grandepensees: It seems that a lot of people confuse fantasy with real life and poetry with real feelings.
AS FAR AS I GO I DONT REALLY WANT TO FALL IN LOVE LIKE THAT. I TRY TO KEEP IT REAL, PUT UP THE SHIELD AND SOMETOMES RUN TO THE HILLS..LOL
LOVE USUALLY LEADS TO TONS OF UNECASARY PAIN....FOR FOOLS.
What is "Love" ?
If a guy looks at some nice tight uh-huh ....and sais quietly to himself " I'de Loooooove to get some of THAT ! " .........
Is that not "Love" ??
If a guy looks at some nice tight uh-huh ....and sais quietly to himself " I'de Loooooove to get some of THAT ! " .........
Is that not "Love" ??
jvaski: What is "Love" ?
If a guy looks at some nice tight uh-huh ....and sais quietly to himself " I'de Loooooove to get some of THAT ! " .........
Is that not "Love" ??
If a guy looks at some nice tight uh-huh ....and sais quietly to himself " I'de Loooooove to get some of THAT ! " .........
Is that not "Love" ??
YOUR HORRIBLE,
NOPE.
babydoll67: AS FAR AS I GO I DONT REALLY WANT TO FALL IN LOVE LIKE THAT. I TRY TO KEEP IT REAL, PUT UP THE SHIELD AND SOMETOMES RUN TO THE HILLS..LOL
LOVE USUALLY LEADS TO TONS OF UNECASARY PAIN....FOR FOOLS.
LOVE USUALLY LEADS TO TONS OF UNECASARY PAIN....FOR FOOLS.
Finally someone who agrees with me!
Grandepensees: Finally someone who agrees with me!
BABE IM GLAD YOU UNDERSTAND....IF YOU TOUCH FIRE AND GET BURNT, WOULD YOU TOUCH IT AGAIN? NO NO NO
I LEARNED THE HARD WAY, AND I WILL NOT REPEAT HISTORY...
SO NOW I LEARNED TO HAVE FUN AND NOT FEEL A THING. WELL LOVE..
babydoll67: BABE IM GLAD YOU UNDERSTAND....IF YOU TOUCH FIRE AND GET BURNT, WOULD YOU TOUCH IT AGAIN? NO NO NO
I LEARNED THE HARD WAY, AND I WILL NOT REPEAT HISTORY...
SO NOW I LEARNED TO HAVE FUN AND NOT FEEL A THING. WELL LOVE..
I LEARNED THE HARD WAY, AND I WILL NOT REPEAT HISTORY...
SO NOW I LEARNED TO HAVE FUN AND NOT FEEL A THING. WELL LOVE..
Great ..........Another self-proclaimed " Ice Queen "....
Its your love energy--- if you choose to share it with gusto and the other person feels likewise --- Sparks fly
CuspofMagic: Its your love energy--- if you choose to share it with gusto and the other person feels likewise --- Sparks fly
If she's wearing a welder's outfit with a shield - the sparks hit the ground around her.......
This is going to contribute to global warming ...
Grandepensees: Nice words... You should be a poet... I bet you believe in " love for ever after"
I'm glad you still can fool yourself at your age
I'm glad you still can fool yourself at your age
You could take a lesson by what I suggested .....I've got twenty times your experience ......
jvaski: If she's wearing a welder's outfit with a shield - the sparks hit the ground around her.......
CuspofMagic: if they make for a slow burning fire then perhaps all the rest will ensue
I think sparks refer to excitement of new romance and connection.
If they're there , the fire be sure to happen.
( can't believe I just said that , I'm getting ill inside )
jvaski: I think sparks refer to excitement of new romance and connection.
If they're there , the fire be sure to happen. ( can't believe I just said that , I'm getting ill inside )
If they're there , the fire be sure to happen. ( can't believe I just said that , I'm getting ill inside )
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That is something only you can answer for yourself. It's a personal experience that others experience as well. To put it in a nutshell, it's a feeling you get and I don't have the words to justify this sense of "love at first site" appropriately.
Then if there is attraction what do you do, pursue the person and then ask for a date or just allow the moment to be a moment in time and then move on to the next thing on your agenda? Any testimonies positive would be great!
I'll go and talk to her to get a better sense---then just go with the natural flow from there. If I don't exploit this opportunity, I'll regret it. Life is being and being is believing. Who wants to live with a pile of regrets and should have's?
I'll say this in my experience of these "love at first sight" connections. They are awesome and can lead to great things. Conversely, they can also lead to bad things. We live and learn. Nothing falls into our laps and happiness does not magically happen, especially in a relationship. You have to work for it, manage it wisely, and maintain it with efficient and harmonic effort...unconditional love! To assume that "love at first sight" connections means that the relationship will be in any way easier in the long run and that only good things will magically fall into place, then you are kidding yourself. Everything is possible at any given moment.