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Jan 7, 2010 3:16 AM CSTWhat Does "Average" Body Size Mean in a Profile?
calmheartseeks
calmheartseekscalmheartseeksSomewhere, California, USA7 Threads 1 Polls 505 Posts

What Does "Average" Body Size Mean in a Profile?(Vote Below)

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a little chunky or overweight
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23%
not skinny and not fat
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52%
nothing great about the body
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18%
fat as a semi truck
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7%
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A lot of people choose "average" to describe their body type. I did because I'm not model skinny but not fat. But what does average mean to you when you read it in a profile? Does it mean the person is like most with a few extra pounds, or just that they are in between? confused
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Jan 7, 2010 3:21 AM CST What Does "Average" Body Size Mean in a Profile?
Odysseus101
Odysseus101Odysseus101Roma, Lazio Italy46 Threads 12 Polls 925 Posts
In terms of dating profiles, "Average" is the new "Overweight"...
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Jan 7, 2010 3:23 AM CST What Does "Average" Body Size Mean in a Profile?
lakelander
lakelanderlakelanderLarnaca, Cyprus2 Threads 200 Posts
A good question.

To me average means a few pounds but everyone's interpretation is different. I met one girl who told me she was average and from her photos she looked average. When we met however it was obvious her idea of a few pounds and mine were different. She was the same height as me but was heavier than me. To me she was fat not average.
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Jan 7, 2010 3:25 AM CST What Does "Average" Body Size Mean in a Profile?
calmheartseeks
calmheartseekscalmheartseeksSomewhere, California USA7 Threads 1 Polls 505 Posts
Odysseus101: In terms of dating profiles, "Average" is the new "Overweight"...


Hmmm. Perhaps, but for this they should choose "a few extra pounds" as the option in the profile instead of "average".
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Jan 7, 2010 3:36 AM CST What Does "Average" Body Size Mean in a Profile?
Blues63
Blues63Blues63Brisbane, Queensland Australia6 Threads 1 Polls 2,934 Posts
No such thing as an average womanapplause wave
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Jan 7, 2010 3:38 AM CST What Does "Average" Body Size Mean in a Profile?
lakelander
lakelanderlakelanderLarnaca, Cyprus2 Threads 200 Posts
calmheartseeks: Hmmm. Perhaps, but for this they should choose "a few extra pounds" as the option in the profile instead of "average".


That's the problem in interpretation though. To me average is a "few extra pounds" to some it seems it's a few extra stone.

Oops!....just remembered you're in the states. 1 stone = 14lbs
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Jan 7, 2010 3:46 AM CST What Does "Average" Body Size Mean in a Profile?
calmheartseeks: A lot of people choose "average" to describe their body type. I did because I'm not model skinny but not fat. But what does average mean to you when you read it in a profile? Does it mean the person is like most with a few extra pounds, or just that they are in between?
yes i often tought that too,confused i do be sayin to myself ur no average man doh get it out of ur head,average too me would be be fair with the % ,and just be honest to urselfgrin
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Jan 7, 2010 3:57 AM CST What Does "Average" Body Size Mean in a Profile?
seekndestroy
seekndestroyseekndestroySeattle, Washington USA15 Threads 4,736 Posts
In response to: What Does "Average" Body Size Mean in a Profile?



if you ask a woman that question the answer is fat

if you ask a dude average means....... well...... average!!!!!doh doh
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Jan 7, 2010 3:59 AM CST What Does "Average" Body Size Mean in a Profile?
bjsss
bjsssbjsssMelbourne, Victoria Australia5 Threads 3,536 Posts
Size means nothing, it`s what`s inside that counts cool
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Jan 7, 2010 4:01 AM CST What Does "Average" Body Size Mean in a Profile?
jeepers
jeepersjeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)57 Threads 10,968 Posts
Odysseus101: In terms of dating profiles, "Average" is the new "Overweight"...
so this means that my #@#@$%# size is average ! rolling on the floor laughing tongue devil
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Jan 7, 2010 4:04 AM CST What Does "Average" Body Size Mean in a Profile?
mossopw
mossopwmossopwWest Midlands, Herefordshire, England UK3 Threads 194 Posts
calmheartseeks: A lot of people choose "average" to describe their body type. I did because I'm not model skinny but not fat. But what does average mean to you when you read it in a profile? Does it mean the person is like most with a few extra pounds, or just that they are in between?


Overweight, larger then what they would like to be, Hell the list goes on confused
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Jan 7, 2010 4:14 AM CST What Does "Average" Body Size Mean in a Profile?
mossopw
mossopwmossopwWest Midlands, Herefordshire, England UK3 Threads 194 Posts
There is another way to look at it ! The person could be very large and going to a slimming club looks around and thinks Hell I am just "Average" rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 7, 2010 4:18 AM CST What Does "Average" Body Size Mean in a Profile?
Happiness67
Happiness67Happiness67Sydney, New South Wales Australia1 Threads 127 Posts
seekndestroy: if you ask a woman that question the answer is fat

if you ask a dude average means....... well...... average!!!!!
It really is one of those adjectives that is open to a lot of interpretation...is it "average" meaning what an average body shape should be like or is it "average" meaning what the average current body is actually like? confused Then you've got the Australianism of saying something is pretty average meaning it's a bit crap. laugh
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Jan 7, 2010 4:30 AM CST What Does "Average" Body Size Mean in a Profile?
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
Words mean nothing if there is no picture to back them up. If it is only head shot photos that are provided then be suspicious if "average" is specified .....professor
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Jan 7, 2010 4:33 AM CST What Does "Average" Body Size Mean in a Profile?
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
bjsss: Size means nothing, it`s what`s inside that counts


I think she would beg to differ if he only has a 3 incher .....rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 7, 2010 4:33 AM CST What Does "Average" Body Size Mean in a Profile?
jeepers
jeepersjeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)57 Threads 10,968 Posts
RDM59: Words mean nothing if there is no picture to back them up. If it is only head shot photos that are provided then be suspicious if "average" is specified .....
I agree, and what is proportional ? confused
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Jan 7, 2010 4:37 AM CST What Does "Average" Body Size Mean in a Profile?
Happiness67
Happiness67Happiness67Sydney, New South Wales Australia1 Threads 127 Posts
jeepers: I agree, and what is proportional ?
Well, I take that to mean in the right proportions height for weight - ie neither skinny nor fat
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Jan 7, 2010 4:43 AM CST What Does "Average" Body Size Mean in a Profile?
lakelander
lakelanderlakelanderLarnaca, Cyprus2 Threads 200 Posts
Maybe the site should do like some others and ask you to input your height and weight.

I know some people might not want to put it on their profile but it could be an option rather than mandatory. After all I don't see the point in hiding it if you're looking to meet someone. If you get to the meeting stage they will know anyway.

If someone is not going to be attracted to you because you are tall, short, fat, thin then wouldn't it be better to know that from the start so that neither of you waste each others time.
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Jan 7, 2010 4:44 AM CST What Does "Average" Body Size Mean in a Profile?
jeepers
jeepersjeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)57 Threads 10,968 Posts
Happiness67: Well, I take that to mean in the right proportions height for weight - ie neither skinny nor fat
wave Thank you. How's that filterbox going ? wink
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Jan 7, 2010 4:53 AM CST What Does "Average" Body Size Mean in a Profile?
Happiness67
Happiness67Happiness67Sydney, New South Wales Australia1 Threads 127 Posts
jeepers: Thank you. How's that filterbox going ?
Why did you end up in there?? confused
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Jan 7, 2010 5:04 AM CST What Does "Average" Body Size Mean in a Profile?
seekndestroy
seekndestroyseekndestroySeattle, Washington USA15 Threads 4,736 Posts
Happiness67: It really is one of those adjectives that is open to a lot of interpretation...is it "average" meaning what an average body shape should be like or is it "average" meaning what the average current body is actually like? Then you've got the Australianism of saying something is pretty average meaning it's a bit crap.


well here is my theory....

average is a comparative, quantitative word... meaning that in order to find out what average is you have to know what the "best" and the "worst" are...

so men see that the best is the super fit male model type and the worst is Quasimodo's ugly brother that needs a crane to lift him out of bed... so to us, average is in the middle and thus it means that someone who is not toned and could stand to loose a few pounds, but can still bend down to tie his shoes

women on the other hand, seem to think that the best is her cute friend who is just big boned but still has curves and the worst is her other cute friend who simply has to make sure to wear clothes to hide her lovely plumpiness... therefore ANYTHING in between is average... hence, average for one of yall can mean anything from invisible when standing sideways to Shamu's cousin who cant live in captivity cos there aint a pool big enough for her !!!!

doh
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Jan 7, 2010 6:52 AM CST What Does "Average" Body Size Mean in a Profile?
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
Well in the USA I think average for a women is considered a size 14 in a dress. So as long as us guys realized that is the starting point for some, we might have some clue as to how millions of us figure it out.
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Jan 7, 2010 6:54 AM CST What Does "Average" Body Size Mean in a Profile?
jeepers
jeepersjeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)57 Threads 10,968 Posts
Happiness67: Why did you end up in there??
dunno
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Jan 7, 2010 10:40 AM CST What Does "Average" Body Size Mean in a Profile?
Juneau
JuneauJuneauBlairgowrie, Tayside, Scotland UK87 Threads 34 Polls 2,947 Posts
Big_John: Well in the USA I think average for a women is considered a size 14 in a dress. So as long as us guys realized that is the starting point for some, we might have some clue as to how millions of us figure it out.


dunno dunno confused I am getting very confused on this poll! Isn't "average" meant to be "not skinny but not fat"?? I put Average on my profile, but most people seem to think it means overweight! How does that work????

Also, average sizes of women vary from country to country, so average in one country can be completely different in another country! And...professor what happens if you are one size on one part of your body and another size somewhere else!! rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

It's pretty meaningless stuff really. As people have said on here, if there are up to date photos you can judge for yourselves!

Can I ask... if "Average" is slightly overweight, but you are not overweight, what should you put? I am definitely not overweight, but nor am I skinny! help help

Couldn't they put an option on for: "Marilyn Munro"!! rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 7, 2010 11:36 PM CST What Does "Average" Body Size Mean in a Profile?
katt1017
katt1017katt1017Southern, New Hampshire USA67 Threads 10 Polls 1,384 Posts
I've seen people on here calling themselves average that most would consider morbidly obese.

Check your BMI people:



Mine is 19.5

I've known people that were really "a few extra pounds" that looked damned fine. Not everyone needs to be a toothpick.

The main thing is to be a healthy weight and to take care of yourself. Then you will feel and look your best.
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Jan 7, 2010 11:42 PM CST What Does "Average" Body Size Mean in a Profile?
AsleepInNJ
AsleepInNJAsleepInNJCherry Hill, New Jersey USA53 Threads 3 Polls 2,862 Posts
mine is 20.6 but that BMI chart really doesn't take any other factors into account other than heigth and weight. such as i'm 27 years older than you. will your BMI be 19.5 then? rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 7, 2010 11:43 PM CST What Does "Average" Body Size Mean in a Profile?
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
Around 8 inches...




ooops you said body......uh oh
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Jan 7, 2010 11:50 PM CST What Does "Average" Body Size Mean in a Profile?
katt1017
katt1017katt1017Southern, New Hampshire USA67 Threads 10 Polls 1,384 Posts
AsleepInNJ: mine is 20.6 but that BMI chart really doesn't take any other factors into account other than heigth and weight. such as i'm 27 years older than you. will your BMI be 19.5 then?


I would doubt it. I'd be very happy to have it be 20.6 at that point.

My parents have both put on a few pounds over the years. Both can split and stack firewood long after most people my age have gone back in the house to lie down and rest. I hope I can do that too.
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Jan 7, 2010 11:52 PM CST What Does "Average" Body Size Mean in a Profile?
viva007
viva007viva007HYDERABAD, Telangana India41 Threads 8 Polls 7,447 Posts
calmheartseeks: A lot of people choose "average" to describe their body type. I did because I'm not model skinny but not fat. But what does average mean to you when you read it in a profile? Does it mean the person is like most with a few extra pounds, or just that they are in between?
not a hot one but ok
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Jan 7, 2010 11:53 PM CST What Does "Average" Body Size Mean in a Profile?
AsleepInNJ
AsleepInNJAsleepInNJCherry Hill, New Jersey USA53 Threads 3 Polls 2,862 Posts
katt1017: I would doubt it. I'd be very happy to have it be 20.6 at that point.

My parents have both put on a few pounds over the years. Both can split and stack firewood long after most people my age have gone back in the house to lie down and rest. I hope I can do that too.


splitting and stacking firewood rules. thumbs up cheers
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Jan 8, 2010 12:58 AM CST What Does "Average" Body Size Mean in a Profile?
QuietStormF
QuietStormFQuietStormFSouthern Ontario, Ontario Canada25 Threads 610 Posts
In my opinion.. average means that you are happy with the weight that you are.. seriously who really cares? been skinny,average and what I considered to be fat.. and now too thin to fit in my jeans,, Looks and weight are superfluous in the long run.. It really IS what is INSIDE that counts.. because if you're not happy within yourself.. no matter how you look.. you can't be happy with anyone,.. violin Just a little lesson I have learned along the way.. teddybear
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