When someone asks an incredibly complex question, do they really expect ( Archived) (23)

Apr 16, 2010 5:44 PM CSTWhen someone asks an incredibly complex question, do they really expect
Barrellofart
BarrellofartBarrellofartGrand Rapids, Michigan, USA16 Threads 9 Polls 761 Posts

When someone asks an incredibly complex question, do they really expect(Vote Below)

- (To Vote: select an option above, then press this button)
A simple answer
11
32%
A highly complex answer
8
24%
Personal insights from a worldwide community
5
15%
Attention
10
29%
Total Votes
34
I'm really pretty impressed by the number of polls that go around with questions that, essentially, must be answered by detailed context which simply isn't provided.


So many things that begin, 'What does it mean...' or 'Is it OK if...' are so highly dependent on the individual situation and feeling, yet they're presented as if somehow axiomatic.


I'm not objecting, really. :) I do understand that relating through the experiences of others can be useful, but ultimately, I think the answers lie right where you'll find them either way- In yourself.

I try, and encourage others, to look inside themselves for the answers long and hard- That is where you'll find the most important feelings, an honest reflection of yourself, and a true representation of your own personal values, instead of the post of tradition and scarecrow of advice.

How's everyone? You guys havin' a good day? beer
------ This thread is Archived ------
Apr 16, 2010 5:50 PM CST When someone asks an incredibly complex question, do they really expect
Englishman55
Englishman55Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK31 Threads 2 Polls 6,405 Posts
Barrellofart: I'm really pretty impressed by the number of polls that go around with questions that, essentially, must be answered by detailed context which simply isn't provided.So many things that begin, 'What does it mean...' or 'Is it OK if...' are so highly dependent on the individual situation and feeling, yet they're presented as if somehow axiomatic.I'm not objecting, really. :) I do understand that relating through the experiences of others can be useful, but ultimately, I think the answers lie right where you'll find them either way- In yourself.

I try, and encourage others, to look inside themselves for the answers long and hard- That is where you'll find the most important feelings, an honest reflection of yourself, and a true representation of your own personal values, instead of the post of tradition and scarecrow of advice.

How's everyone? You guys havin' a good day?

For me, when someone asks a highly complex question it means they are seeking to find a partner with equal intelligence.

They are looking to impress a certain type of person.

As I am not a highly intelligent person, or at least have no pretentions above my station, so am not looking to impress, rather be who I am.
I prefer to just move on to something more light hearted
------ This poll is Archived ------
Apr 16, 2010 5:54 PM CST When someone asks an incredibly complex question, do they really expect
englishelegance
englisheleganceenglisheleganceBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK76 Threads 1 Polls 3,025 Posts
Barrellofart: I'm really pretty impressed by the number of polls that go around with questions that, essentially, must be answered by detailed context which simply isn't provided.So many things that begin, 'What does it mean...' or 'Is it OK if...' are so highly dependent on the individual situation and feeling, yet they're presented as if somehow axiomatic.I'm not objecting, really. :) I do understand that relating through the experiences of others can be useful, but ultimately, I think the answers lie right where you'll find them either way- In yourself.

I try, and encourage others, to look inside themselves for the answers long and hard- That is where you'll find the most important feelings, an honest reflection of yourself, and a true representation of your own personal values, instead of the post of tradition and scarecrow of advice.

How's everyone? You guys havin' a good day?


If i ask a question i expect an intelligent answer, i'm not seeking attention, just asking for an answerconfused
------ This poll is Archived ------
Apr 16, 2010 5:55 PM CST When someone asks an incredibly complex question, do they really expect
Barrellofart
BarrellofartBarrellofartGrand Rapids, Michigan USA16 Threads 9 Polls 761 Posts
Englishman55: For me, when someone asks a highly complex question it means they are seeking to find a partner with equal intelligence.

They are looking to impress a certain type of person.

As I am not a highly intelligent person, or at least have no pretentions above my station, so am not looking to impress, rather be who I am.
I prefer to just move on to something more light hearted


Hey, thanks for the input. :D

I think, in hindsight, what I really meant was an incredibly simple question, which really has incredibly complex answers.

You know like, 'When a girl smiles at you and then looks away, what does it mean?' beer
------ This poll is Archived ------
Apr 16, 2010 5:58 PM CST When someone asks an incredibly complex question, do they really expect
tomboygirl
tomboygirltomboygirllarnaca, Larnaca Cyprus3 Threads 1,555 Posts
Barrellofart: I'm really pretty impressed by the number of polls that go around with questions that, essentially, must be answered by detailed context which simply isn't provided.So many things that begin, 'What does it mean...' or 'Is it OK if...' are so highly dependent on the individual situation and feeling, yet they're presented as if somehow axiomatic.I'm not objecting, really. :) I do understand that relating through the experiences of others can be useful, but ultimately, I think the answers lie right where you'll find them either way- In yourself.

I try, and encourage others, to look inside themselves for the answers long and hard- That is where you'll find the most important feelings, an honest reflection of yourself, and a true representation of your own personal values, instead of the post of tradition and scarecrow of advice.

How's everyone? You guys havin' a good day?


maybe people are not as confident in their judgement as you.
plus i think some are just reaching out to connect with others somehow/anyhow.
------ This poll is Archived ------
Apr 16, 2010 6:00 PM CST When someone asks an incredibly complex question, do they really expect
tomboygirl
tomboygirltomboygirllarnaca, Larnaca Cyprus3 Threads 1,555 Posts
Barrellofart: Hey, thanks for the input. :D

I think, in hindsight, what I really meant was an incredibly simple question, which really has incredibly complex answers.

You know like, 'When a girl smiles at you and then looks away, what does it mean?'


but they are the best questions!i love trying to figure out..
------ This poll is Archived ------
Apr 16, 2010 6:05 PM CST When someone asks an incredibly complex question, do they really expect
Englishman55
Englishman55Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK31 Threads 2 Polls 6,405 Posts
Barrellofart: Hey, thanks for the input. :D

I think, in hindsight, what I really meant was an incredibly simple question, which really has incredibly complex answers.

You know like, 'When a girl smiles at you and then looks away, what does it mean?'

It means she thought she liked you enough to smile, but then saw your response and realised whe was wrong, so turned away.

That's life and my simple answer to it ! dunno
------ This poll is Archived ------
Apr 16, 2010 6:06 PM CST When someone asks an incredibly complex question, do they really expect
Englishman55
Englishman55Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK31 Threads 2 Polls 6,405 Posts
tomboygirl: maybe people are not as confident in their judgement as you.
plus i think some are just reaching out to connect with others somehow/anyhow.

Hello ..... big smile and looking for an intelligent response !

wave

rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
------ This poll is Archived ------
Apr 16, 2010 6:07 PM CST When someone asks an incredibly complex question, do they really expect
Barrellofart
BarrellofartBarrellofartGrand Rapids, Michigan USA16 Threads 9 Polls 761 Posts
Englishman55: It means she thought she liked you enough to smile, but then saw your response and realised whe was wrong, so turned away.

That's life and my simple answer to it !


Thanks again for the input, put it was purely rhetorical and simply meant to demonstrate the previous part of that comment. conversing
------ This poll is Archived ------
Apr 16, 2010 6:19 PM CST When someone asks an incredibly complex question, do they really expect
Barrellofart
BarrellofartBarrellofartGrand Rapids, Michigan USA16 Threads 9 Polls 761 Posts
tomboygirl: maybe people are not as confident in their judgement as you.
plus i think some are just reaching out to connect with others somehow/anyhow.


Quite thoroughly agreed. beer
------ This poll is Archived ------
Apr 16, 2010 6:24 PM CST When someone asks an incredibly complex question, do they really expect
Barrellofart: I'm really pretty impressed by the number of polls that go around with questions that, essentially, must be answered by detailed context which simply isn't provided.So many things that begin, 'What does it mean...' or 'Is it OK if...' are so highly dependent on the individual situation and feeling, yet they're presented as if somehow axiomatic.I'm not objecting, really. :) I do understand that relating through the experiences of others can be useful, but ultimately, I think the answers lie right where you'll find them either way- In yourself.

I try, and encourage others, to look inside themselves for the answers long and hard- That is where you'll find the most important feelings, an honest reflection of yourself, and a true representation of your own personal values, instead of the post of tradition and scarecrow of advice.

How's everyone? You guys havin' a good day?


yes it would be nice to have "something" long and hard inside myself

and that would provide an answer to at least one problemblushing









wave



















I know I know......my night to be naughtycool
------ This poll is Archived ------
Apr 16, 2010 6:36 PM CST When someone asks an incredibly complex question, do they really expect
Barrellofart
BarrellofartBarrellofartGrand Rapids, Michigan USA16 Threads 9 Polls 761 Posts
felixis99: yes it would be nice to have "something" long and hard inside myself

and that would provide an answer to at least one problem


I know I know......my night to be naughty


Requesting permission to answer allll of your question with long, hard answers tonight! wave


Now, is that north-eastern Ohio, or... ? dancing
------ This poll is Archived ------
Apr 16, 2010 7:15 PM CST When someone asks an incredibly complex question, do they really expect
tipaly81
tipaly81tipaly81Moscow, Idaho USA56 Threads 15 Polls 950 Posts
I think if a question is too complex then the asker was unsure how to word it best. We all have had a couple of those moments where you're not quit sure what to say or how to say it. Though I guess it all depends on the person. grin Long enough answer for ya? wink wave
------ This poll is Archived ------
Apr 16, 2010 7:49 PM CST When someone asks an incredibly complex question, do they really expect
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
A blank stare....
------ This poll is Archived ------
Apr 16, 2010 8:17 PM CST When someone asks an incredibly complex question, do they really expect
sophiasummer
sophiasummersophiasummerNorthland, New Zealand112 Threads 6,528 Posts
Barrellofart: I'm really pretty impressed by the number of polls that go around with questions that, essentially, must be answered by detailed context which simply isn't provided.So many things that begin, 'What does it mean...' or 'Is it OK if...' are so highly dependent on the individual situation and feeling, yet they're presented as if somehow axiomatic.I'm not objecting, really. :) I do understand that relating through the experiences of others can be useful, but ultimately, I think the answers lie right where you'll find them either way- In yourself.

I try, and encourage others, to look inside themselves for the answers long and hard- That is where you'll find the most important feelings, an honest reflection of yourself, and a true representation of your own personal values, instead of the post of tradition and scarecrow of advice.

How's everyone? You guys havin' a good day?


If you can ask the question=s, then you have certainly skirted the rim, (Is it confirmation we seek?) dunno angel
------ This poll is Archived ------
Apr 16, 2010 8:20 PM CST When someone asks an incredibly complex question, do they really expect
CherryBlossom73
CherryBlossom73CherryBlossom73Los Angeles, California USA1 Threads 307 Posts
It's probably a case of expecting a miracle.
------ This poll is Archived ------
Apr 16, 2010 9:01 PM CST When someone asks an incredibly complex question, do they really expect
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
katt1017: Did you mean solar system or universe? Unless there is one hell of a long string of Christmas tree lights up there I think there may be more than one sun in the galaxy let alone the universe.


Solar system...oops---my badlaugh
------ This poll is Archived ------
Apr 16, 2010 11:03 PM CST When someone asks an incredibly complex question, do they really expect
deacon6347
deacon6347deacon6347Amado, Arizona USA10 Threads 757 Posts
When is the last time you've seen an incredibly complex question on here? And that in itself is an incredibly complex question, ought to require several days of thought and many hours of searching back through old posts..........devil
------ This poll is Archived ------
Apr 16, 2010 11:06 PM CST When someone asks an incredibly complex question, do they really expect
Barrellofart: Requesting permission to answer allll of your question with long, hard answers tonight! Now, is that north-eastern Ohio, or... ?


sweety it 's west central ohio
------ This poll is Archived ------
Apr 16, 2010 11:06 PM CST When someone asks an incredibly complex question, do they really expect
Barrellofart: Requesting permission to answer allll of your question with long, hard answers tonight! Now, is that north-eastern Ohio, or... ?


sweety it 's west central ohio
------ This poll is Archived ------
Apr 16, 2010 11:09 PM CST When someone asks an incredibly complex question, do they really expect
LonelyMontse08
LonelyMontse08LonelyMontse08San Pedro Sula, Honduras15 Threads 797 Posts
Englishman55: For me, when someone asks a highly complex question it means they are seeking to find a partner with equal intelligence.

They are looking to impress a certain type of person.

As I am not a highly intelligent person, or at least have no pretentions above my station, so am not looking to impress, rather be who I am.
I prefer to just move on to something more light hearted


Englishman55 in my opinion a person that can express as good as you do has a highly intellegence, so don't say you are not a highly intellegint person, greetings...

I am the kind of girl that usually ask complex questions, but only because I am curious on knowing people point of view on the things I am asking, only to ask the question and start a conversation or continue one, not to prove any other thing
------ This poll is Archived ------
Apr 16, 2010 11:16 PM CST When someone asks an incredibly complex question, do they really expect
sophiasummer
sophiasummersophiasummerNorthland, New Zealand112 Threads 6,528 Posts
Great day thankyou, went to my friends land and we all picked olives, Yeah! and it was an over cast day today but very cool.
Lots of laughs and revelries. Nice...
cool
------ This poll is Archived ------
Apr 17, 2010 2:18 AM CST When someone asks an incredibly complex question, do they really expect
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
felixis99: there are numerous suns


I meant in the solar system. Somebody already pointed that out and I made a post to clear that up. The guy tried to convince me there was a second sun behind Jupiter btw lol....
------ This poll is Archived ------
Apr 17, 2010 2:44 AM CST When someone asks an incredibly complex question, do they really expect
Englishman55
Englishman55Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK31 Threads 2 Polls 6,405 Posts
LonelyMontse08: Englishman55 in my opinion a person that can express as good as you do has a highly intellegence, so don't say you are not a highly intellegint person, greetings...

I am the kind of girl that usually ask complex questions, but only because I am curious on knowing people point of view on the things I am asking, only to ask the question and start a conversation or continue one, not to prove any other thing

Hi Montse and thankyou for your kind words.

What I have found is that with the art of communication, if one asks a highly intelligent question in an open forum it will illicit responses from an intelligent person, but if you are asking a question directly to one person then that question needs to be tailored to the individuals level of intelligence.

There is no point asking an intelligent question of someone, if you use words or long sentences they will not understand etc.
They will not understand the question, let alone be able to give a coherant response.

hug
------ This poll is Archived ------

This Poll is Archived

This Poll is archived, so you will no longer be able to post to it. Poll get archived automatically when they are older than 3 months.
Message #318

Stats for this Poll

34 Votes
1,243 Views
23 Comments
Created: Apr 2010
Last Viewed: 3 hrs ago
Last Commented: Apr 2010
Last Voted: Jul 2017

Share this Poll

We use cookies to ensure that you have the best experience possible on our website. Read Our Privacy Policy Here