annie_nswCoffs Harbour, New South Wales Australia528 posts
In response to: So guys how would you do it or girs how ya like it done?
My answer •Other please specifiy.Which is simply say to her that "You are thankful for the time she shared with you however it is now time for you to move on and wish her all the best." in your words of course.
CherryBlossom73: Man up first of all...that means you do it in person. Be kind, be gentle, be very honest, and don't put it off more than you have to. Do it....!!! JMO
Be truthful by all means! Don't wait three years to tell her you just want her as a friend and say you didn't tell her sooner because you didn't want to hurt her feelings!
CherryBlossom73Los Angeles, California USA307 posts
geriwinks: Be truthful by all means! Don't wait three years to tell her you just want her as a friend and say you didn't tell her sooner because you didn't want to hurt her feelings!
To be cruel is to be kind, sometimes. 3 years ...oh my...!
Desertguy49South Western Desert, Arizona USA2,259 posts
geriwinks: Be truthful by all means! Don't wait three years to tell her you just want her as a friend and say you didn't tell her sooner because you didn't want to hurt her feelings!
Dating that long !!! Holy cow, most couples these days go through a couple of marriages in three years or less
In response to: So guys how would you do it or girs how ya like it done?
"dump" a "chick"??? what!!!!! How about talk to the "lady", but then, she would know anyway, and she would have already made her way far far away from you..
laura139: cut off total communication....like what's been done to me...
Your not the only one. I have had several woman who just stop answering the emails or offline messages. My 2nd wife said she was going to visit her son several states away for a month or two. Long story short, she called and said she was ready to come home (she drove there), I sent her money to come back. A week later she still wasn't home. I tried calling, no answer, I wrote a letter to her, it came back another week later with return to sender written on it. 6 months later I got an email just saying she was mad that she was no longer on my insurance. Then no contact again for 1 year.
I prefer to just man up and tell her the truth. Total cutting off any communication hurts alot more and longer than just a straight up goodbye ever will.
just want to let you know that if you dump a chick/lady/whatever you called her, if she's nice to you, down to earth but not your type, i would suggest that you take her to dinner and talk things over just like when you started to know her. But if your dumping her just bec you find someone better than her, then dude! maybe someday you get karma. Do you believe a saying "what goes around comes around?". You shouldn't tag her along if you don't have chemistry right from the start of your communication. Liza
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