EarthAngelinLoveGod's Country, North Carolina USA218 posts
benny86: Let us find out the most heartless method of dumping?
To have your significant other leave the relationship without communicating with you why he/she wanted out, or what problems he/she were having in the relationship, that you may not have been aware of; for lack of communication on his/her part. However, he/she for sure shared his/her thoughts with an old supposed friend.
Seems very cowardly, selfish, and irresponsible to treat someone that way no matter who did it to who?
DarkAngel_4Lifegoldsboro, North Carolina USA154 posts
EarthAngelinLove: To have your significant other leave the relationship without communicating with you why he/she wanted out, or what problems he/she were having in the relationship, that you may not have been aware of; for lack of communication on his/her part. However, he/she for sure shared his/her thoughts with an old supposed friend.
Seems very cowardly, selfish, and irresponsible to treat someone that way no matter who did it to who?
.... I think if your going to end it with some one why not just end it ... and walk away!!! .leaving as little hurt as possible.. after all life is too short.. just my opinion ..
englisheleganceBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK3,025 posts
benny86: Let us find out the most heartless method of dumping?
The most heartless way in my opinion is the spineless way. However much a person doesn't want to see another person the only way for me is the honest way.JMO
All of the options are heartless and will hurt equally.
It´s very difficult to finish with someone, particularly if you are someone with feelings and respect for others, and you know they will be upset, but everybody deserves some kind of explanation, face to face preferably.
I hate the face to face thing. They get soooooooooo mad. Everyone says they hate drama but my ex gf's seem to require it. The phone is safe and saves on my lawn.
bob1959: I hate the face to face thing. They get soooooooooo mad. Everyone says they hate drama but my ex gf's seem to require it. The phone is safe and saves on my lawn.
bob1959: I hate the face to face thing. They get soooooooooo mad. Everyone says they hate drama but my ex gf's seem to require it. The phone is safe and saves on my lawn.
Not true imo, face to face has to be better and fairer, though much more difficult. I would imagine people get more mad if they´re dumped in the heartless ways described in the OP. The lawn could be the least of your problems!
deadbutwhyeast, Eastern Province Saudi Arabia1,295 posts
bob1959: I hate the face to face thing. They get soooooooooo mad. Everyone says they hate drama but my ex gf's seem to require it. The phone is safe and saves on my lawn.
True.... from your perspective because you were the one who was breaking up, I guess For her perspective, being dumped is better in person, since she gets a chance to kick you in the nuts
I'm hearing impaired. Use an Aid. Take it out to sleep? Ex Wife said "I'm leaving You. I can talk to my Lover in Bed". After divorce he dumped her. He could hear but not listen.
Hearltess yes...You and your guy are walking in the mall. You turn to him as say loudly "How could you! How could you". I couldn't believe my own eyes!" YOU and MY MOTHER!!!! HOW COULD YOU?"
nanners2863: dumping someone on a cs forum....not good..
Easy......Phone his/her Partner, and tell them to tell their partner that they had better get round to your place and pick their gear up as you have dumped it outside......AND IT'S OVER....
patmac: Easy......Phone his/her Partner, and tell them to tell their partner that they had better get round to your place and pick their gear up as you have dumped it outside......AND IT'S OVER....
"Good morning love, just calling to ask you to ask your husband to pick up his trousers and packet of unused rubbers..please tell him I'm dumping him. Have a nice day."
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