------------------------------WOMEN ------------------------- are like APPLES ----------------------on trees. The BEST ones ---------------------are at the TOP of the tree. --------------------MOST men DON'T want to reach -------------------for the GOOD ONES because they -----------------are AFRAID of falling and getting HURT. ----------------- Instead they pick the ROTTEN apples ------------------from the ground that aren't as GOOD, -----------------but are EASY. The apples on TOP think -----------------something is wrong with THEM when in ------------------reality, they're AMAZING. They just -------------------have to wait for the RIGHT man to ---------------------come along, THE ONE who is ---------------------------BRAVE enough to -------------------------------CLIMB all --------------------------------the way -------------------------------to the TOP ------------------------------of the TREE
JAN_is: That´s true, but if the OP is referring to appearance then yes of course it is much easier to date. Whether those dates are successful and lead to a real relationship will ultimately depend on more than looks though.
------------------------------WOMEN ------------------------- are like APPLES ----------------------on trees. The BEST ones ---------------------are at the TOP of the tree. --------------------MOST men DON'T want to reach -------------------for the GOOD ONES because they -----------------are AFRAID of falling and getting HURT. ----------------- Instead they pick the ROTTEN apples ------------------from the ground that aren't as GOOD, -----------------but are EASY. The apples on TOP think -----------------something is wrong with THEM when in ------------------reality, they're AMAZING. They just -------------------have to wait for the RIGHT man to ---------------------come along, THE ONE who is ---------------------------BRAVE enough to -------------------------------CLIMB all --------------------------------the way -------------------------------to the TOP ------------------------------of the TREE
A problem with many VERY beautiful people is that they are already madly in love with themselves. On the other side of the coin I have heard it said, very beautiful girls are not asked out very much because their beauty scares men into not asking them out.
JeanMarlowMiddle of Nowhere, California USA815 posts
singin4U: A problem with many VERY beautiful people is that they are already madly in love with themselves.
I think this is an unfair stereotype.
singin4U: On the other side of the coin I have heard it said, very beautiful girls are not asked out very much because their beauty scares men into not asking them out.
I think it is true to some extent that if you are very pretty, some guys will think you are not going to respond positively if they show an interest.
demonfairy: Dating and relating is not easy no matter what you look like. You can be the best looking thing around and still get no dates, it depends on your personality and attitude how far you get in life.
Too true, you can't build a relationship because you just look better than others.
But good-looking people get more acquaintances than the other part of nice people, somehow people are kinder to them. Hard to explain, but I spent almost 10 years being very much overweight and now when I am back to my normal self I can say that there are so many shallow people out there who can rant that they are looking for a soul, but in reality they fall only for appearance.
maryrachelleBathurst, New Brunswick Canada1,370 posts
Of course being beautiful makes dating easier.Being beautiful makes everything in life easier.Studies have shown that even in the workplace an attractive person will receive promotions and praise far more then an unattractive person.
JAN_is: That´s true, but if the OP is referring to appearance then yes of course it is much easier to date. Whether those dates are successful and lead to a real relationship will ultimately depend on more than looks though.
shottaz: i got hit with the ugly stick, an i don't have a problem getting a date, its how you present yourself to a woman an whether she likes you or not.
JAN_is: Maybe that has a lot to do with the fact that women in general are not so obsessed with looks and place more importance on other things than a lot of men do.
We are much more forgiving and willing to climb the "ugly" tree.
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This can be true for men too...
------------------------------WOMEN
------------------------- are like APPLES
----------------------on trees. The BEST ones
---------------------are at the TOP of the tree.
--------------------MOST men DON'T want to reach
-------------------for the GOOD ONES because they
-----------------are AFRAID of falling and getting HURT.
----------------- Instead they pick the ROTTEN apples
------------------from the ground that aren't as GOOD,
-----------------but are EASY. The apples on TOP think
-----------------something is wrong with THEM when in
------------------reality, they're AMAZING. They just
-------------------have to wait for the RIGHT man to
---------------------come along, THE ONE who is
---------------------------BRAVE enough to
-------------------------------CLIMB all
--------------------------------the way
-------------------------------to the TOP
------------------------------of the TREE