Odette67: I never thought I was beautiful when I was young, people said I was, so did my Mum, well she would, I used to be shy, didn't like my long leg's, didn't like my nose etc.
Men would stare at me but were scared to aproach me saying I was out of their league, I was lonely in a crowd.
Woman didn't like me, they thought I would go off with their husbands/boyfriends.
It can be lonely being beautiful, even though I used to think I was ugly, I am so much happier now being older. I don't give a damn anymore, and my confidence is off the radar.
Well was teeneger, times ago, i thought the beauty was outside, i mean, the standart girls, most of the media, television show. I grow up a little bit and could pay attention, between that.
The beauty, it really inside, i mean, if we keep clean our mind or hurt and thoughts, this way, all of us are beautiful.
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
elienebrazil: Well was teeneger, times ago, i thought the beauty was outside, i mean, the standart girls, most of the media, television show. I grow up a little bit and could pay attention, between that.
The beauty, it really inside, i mean, if we keep clean our mind or hurt and thoughts, this way, all of us are beautiful.
Well you are lucky you are beautiful inside and outside
I've dated really goodlooking guys, but found their souls to be very ugly so then they didn't look so good to me after that. So they may find dating and meeting people easier but in the long run who wants to be with an ugly soul? Not me!
daisy333Sydney, New South Wales Australia514 posts
BlainX: They have to have better luck than me?
I think it's easier for beautiful people if they have the confidence to go with it. It's actually the confidence that most find appealing about so-called beautiful people especially with guys. They get noticed more often and perhaps get asked out more.
Looks only get you so far though. I've known classically 'beautiful' people whose personalities were so repugnant that they were ugly to me when I looked at them.
Yes, beautiful people have it easier, everyone loves a Barbie and Ken...but very very good looking men, remind me of that beautifully wrapped present u got that only had underwear and socks in it.....
Very "good looking man" most often know it, and r not really worth the trouble they r going to give u....I don't want my man to be better looking than me.....LOL Not that much room in the mirror...
chococherrieSomewhere over the Rainbow, Indonesia5,647 posts
Buffy327: Yes, beautiful people have it easier, everyone loves a Barbie and Ken...but very very good looking men, remind me of that beautifully wrapped present u got that only had underwear and socks in it.....
Very "good looking man" most often know it, and r not really worth the trouble they r going to give u....I don't want my man to be better looking than me.....LOL Not that much room in the mirror...
haha i so agree i think the good looking guys know they good looking and so full of it!
Well I think looks attract us first, although beauty is in the eye of the beholder so thats hard to define, But after initial attraction, its inner beauty, chemistry,and common ground from there.
I wouldn't say I am beautiful, but I ain't bad either. It depends upon the vibes I am giving off. If I am having a good time, smiling, laughing and the body language also says this then I really don't have a problem meeting people. But if I am in a bad mood and look like it...well I don't get response. Simple as that.
shottaz: i got hit with the ugly stick, an i don't have a problem getting a date, its how you present yourself to a woman an whether she likes you or not.
daisy333: I think it's easier for beautiful people if they have the confidence to go with it. It's actually the confidence that most find appealing about so-called beautiful people especially with guys. They get noticed more often and perhaps get asked out more.
Looks only get you so far though. I've known classically 'beautiful' people whose personalities were so repugnant that they were ugly to me when I looked at them.
the most attractive thing a woman can wear is confidence
They may initially, but can still struggle to find that connection. I had a roommate and she was gorgeous ... she was always fending off guys, but the irony was, that the guy she was crazy over, was standoffish to her and although she tried to get over him, she was an emotional wreck. She probably could have any guy she wanted, but alas the one she wanted, didn't want her.
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i can attest to that