no! It made me nervous with all those not wished people who not said simple hello and already want jump to on-line speaking when I'm busy and don't have time for that at all. I value too much my time for waste it by chat with men who I not find as interesting and perspective for relationship... Sounds selfish?... OK, then I'm selfish :)
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
Amrita: no! It made me nervous with all those not wished people who not said simple hello and already want jump to on-line speaking when I'm busy and don't have time for that at all. I value too much my time for waste it by chat with men who I not find as interesting and perspective for relationship... Sounds selfish?... OK, then I'm selfish :)
Many women kept it switched off, and the rest complained about it almost constantly. It just kept popping up and often with pics of men's todgers as the main view. Either that or it was used by scammers and other low-lifes whom no one really wanted to talk with anyway. No wonder CS stopped using it.
No I don't care for it to come back, I thought maybe it was broken as I stopped getting the scammers that way...didn't know you could actually turn it off....wasn't here that much, well because I got the dang scammers all the time. Now I like to play with the scammers...it's like a kitty playing with a mouse!! Ooooh they get so mad at me
crazyblondeone: No I don't care for it to come back, I thought maybe it was broken as I stopped getting the scammers that way...didn't know you could actually turn it off....wasn't here that much, well because I got the dang scammers all the time. Now I like to play with the scammers...it's like a kitty playing with a mouse!! Ooooh they get so mad at me
I have Play a Few Good Ones on them too!
Tho Yes, If IM was where both had to agree it would be great, but just as you were writing something, someone would automatically Be on your Screen.. So If Two agreed to talk, and had to both agree, it would be nice to have it back, but needs a Agree to talk button!
GingerBe: Many women kept it switched off, and the rest complained about it almost constantly. It just kept popping up and often with pics of men's todgers as the main view. Either that or it was used by scammers and other low-lifes whom no one really wanted to talk with anyway. No wonder CS stopped using it.
That was my first experience with C/S Ginger. That was before I figured out how to switch it off.
Amrita: no! It made me nervous with all those not wished people who not said simple hello and already want jump to on-line speaking when I'm busy and don't have time for that at all. I value too much my time for waste it by chat with men who I not find as interesting and perspective for relationship... Sounds selfish?... OK, then I'm selfish :)
If you don't like it don't USE it! We have all kinds of freedoms that we choose to either exercise or not. BTW, if you're not that into men, there are other sites where you might feel more at home. Be Well.
Raynew1959Barrington, New Hampshire USA2,218 posts
Didn't care for it as it never worked properly anyways. Whenever I got a chat request, it was 20 minutes old and the one who requested the chat would be long gone.
I prefer getting to know someone here in the forums or through email before going to an IM
I shut mine off and never noticed it was gone. It was annoying because it made it impossible to concentrate or leave and the guys on there always lived in another state, wnated to talk all night and had nothing real to talk about. Bla bla bla bla all night long.
Witchaywoman: I shut mine off and never noticed it was gone. It was annoying because it made it impossible to concentrate or leave and the guys on there always lived in another state, wnated to talk all night and had nothing real to talk about. Bla bla bla bla all night long.
I find the womans vote a bit perplexing. On many a ladies profile they say that they like meeting new people. Yet, they prefer not to have IM more than men. I guess thats why I'm here.
mazzd03: I find the womans vote a bit perplexing. On many a ladies profile they say that they like meeting new people. Yet, they prefer not to have IM more than men. I guess thats why I'm here.
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