ladyjewel Blog Comments (61)

RE: Are Most Men Being Too Nice Towards Women ..

There has to be a balance in everything we do and in a relationship.
Sure most women including myself love it when a man takes charge of a situation as long as it's for the right reasons.
Eg, If I meet someone and he doesn't do the little things, like walk with you, not ahead, askes for your opinion, not just push his, orders what he thinks you want without asking.
Everyone has something they are insecure about, those are things you can work on together.
Trust and respect, communication and gentle strength, if there's a physical attraction and you grow a mentality stimulating connection, why would she or you look for something else.
I love to be grabbed and kissed senseless anywhere, like he's claiming you, if you hide me from anyone you are not worth being with.
Also if a woman is manipulating her Man he must know she's not worth being with either.

RE: Useless trivia

Useless info, something you learn when you get old.

"Stop trying to impress other people....
They're more screwed up then you think"

RE: problem...as a single attractive man

Hey there, it's 4AM and I am wide awake, so I am just being cheeky and butting in here

Totally agree with doing real life, but I have also been here on and off for years, found 4 amazing Men here over those years that I will remember and cherish forever, people are put in your life for a reason/season, don't ever give up, 'um maybe more than one line would help with the 0 above'
Another one way too young , lol, it comes with getting old

RE: problem...as a single attractive man

You Mr have sexy kind eye's and a lot of women would find you sexy

The only problem with you is that you are too young , just saying

Just for me, my thoughts.

Just for me, my thoughts.

Thank you, yes I am feeling alive again , you make sense

RE: It's My Life (A Short History) Part 3

RE: How to ease the pain after losing someone?

We all feel something for the people who lived a small part of our lives with us, it's only human to regret something.
If you were meant to see those messages before he passed away you would have, they were there for you after he was gone, to show you that some part of the both of you was amazing and worth sharing.

Take the positive and remember the love.
But..let go of the guilt, it was never meant as that when the messages were sent, keep the feeling behind them as small blessings and hold out your hand, let them float into the universe.

RE: Hands up

You are so amazing don't ever let anyone or anything make you see yourself as less.
Not that you need that advice, you're your own woman and you shine

Safe space.

Thank you for your message, always appreciated, am lucky I found a few friends male and female here and that alone is worth coming back here

Safe space.

So agree but having the ability to see the real and still look for Roses is such a human thing to do and I hope I don't loose that.
Sending love and light.
Thank you ladies for gently walking into this space and just being you.

Safe space.

Yes I have found people are put into your path for a reason, it helps you grow and I hope it helps them just as much.

Thank you

Such a beautiful write.

Beautiful

Piece's of us.

Hello again

My daughter lives there has for the last 15 years.
There's problems everywhere and you can never truly say you are safe anyway in this world, when it's your time it's your time.

Was born in Rhodesia/Zimbabwe, my Dad died in that war.
SA has so many problems, but, it is one of the most beautiful places in the world, the wildlife, birds, plants, sea and mountains and breathtaking.
And the people, the real people who just want to live in peace are amazing.

Yes there's horrible people here who are trying to distroy the country, but there's to much good left here as well.

I stay in a small area and watch the 7 huge trees in the garden shower leaves over the ground, look at the doves walking around looking for food and think how lucky I am to see this..
The farms are scary and that is so sad to see

RE: STUMPED

Always take your feelings seriously, If there's the possibility of it hurting anyone else and it might break someone without realising it, then wait.
If the feeling is to strong confront the person or people involved and voice your concerns.
Upfront, direct communication is hard but best .

Hope that helps, but in the end it's you that has to decide.
Sending light and love.

RE: IS THERE AN AFTERLIFE?

No I think you are placed when you can learn the lessons you need to, the challenges given to us are there so we can discover that they don't definitely us, and sometimes this is the most powerful tool to help another.
Look at a lot of people who are born into wealth and beauty, are they really happy?
No matter what life gives you to live with it is given to teach and help even one other person to learn.

Hug trees, squish your toes in mud, breathe in nature and this magic that is Life,.
And alway make someone smile, feed one person, hug one person and the World would be great.

Piece's of us.

Just beautiful, strong word's..thank you for sharing with me

Piece's of us.

I totally agree with you
Very hard to find someone in this world, but to not keep trying means you give up on the possibility of something extraordinary, and that is so sad.

My Mom gave up on her for us and I love her so much, but she is lonely and has so much to offer a partner.. make's me sad..

To the people that matter.

Most people when you uncover the blanket they use to protect them are special, you just need to lift it gently and let them let you in.

RE: The soul remembers not who but what it has been.

Just beautiful

To the people that matter.

The hard stages of our lives feel like we have been crushed, can't breathe and that you are sinking in a well, it's easy to be exhausted and not try, to Just give up, it's hard to get through but live only for the next hour, then the rest of the day, then that week, find something small that makes you smile and hold onto those moments.

One day you WILL feel ok again and I hope you find magic again, never stop believing in magic, it sneeks up and shower's you with star's when you stop looking.

To the people that matter.

Hi there,
Thank you for your comments,
If you know your worth and have the confidence to ignore the negative a lot of people project, you are 80% there

To the people that matter.

Thank you for the message, lovely to meet you
But look at the possitve even though it seems crazy.

Was told crazy is a good thing, all need to be a little crazy.
Have a wonderful day.
Hugs

RE: Let’s Face The Facts

Sigh still only see 9 so how many already?

And thank you

RE: Let’s Face The Facts

Nine
Can't see any more
Hugs

RE: what is wrong ?

Wow you must have had some bad experiances here, i am sorry:-(
And at least you are married and just looking for friends so you have a soul mate already, am glad.

But i have a sister who found her soul mate here and so far i have met some lovely people so keep going and you could find gold:-)
I know i have found someone special so far

RE: The Zodiac And You

Mmwha thats ok we all fit where we are meant tooo

RE: The Zodiac And You

lol mmmmmm could be.
But i must admit i don't decide on someone to love or get to know because of their star sign, but i guess it does matter a bit :-)

RE: The Zodiac And You

I am Libra too, and i believe in it to a point but you get people who are sometimes nothing like their signs?
Hugs

RE: R.I.P margaret thatcher

To a strong woman, RIP