hi alf .... off topicing, I'd say that your word (malaka) is extremely popular even here ....
i got to know several guys who knew what it means!! well actually, I called 'em such assuming that they wouldn't know what it means ... in return I got showered in foul words and gestures ....
RE: im just a friend..
yeah it is jack mate ... i just got rejected just as I deserved dear jack mate!