Theresa4tgl why thank you ma'am, you are so kind. i do have a rather quirky make up artist that can prepare me for almost any occasion. Dont think my make up artist would like me saying they are quirky. Maybe i should expressive instead of quirky.
aisha I can assure you that the person i have written about will never be graced with my attention ever again. I am glad all is well with you. good friends i think are what we all need, and you always seem to be there when needed, that makes you a good person in my book.
1to1to1 you are far from being a pest. Wise words indeed you share. The lesson i have learnt is to carry with me a portable lie detector. In case of online communication, well i will have to listen more carefully and act straight away on the red flags when i feel they appear.
aisha Your a funny girl, Still teasing me. And how do you propose that we meet for coffee, as you know full well that i have been trying to have a coffee with for years now.
aisha were else could i tell you this, In person maybe? mmm now theres a thought. And i am not afraid to speak the truth in public, And you know what i say to be the truth.
FlyJames, Or could we be living in a world that allows deceit and betrayal to be rife in our societies. Why cant we the people of society demand better from our media, our governments, our law enforcers, Shouldnt it be us the people of this planet that control the wrong doings. Tis a shame there are too many people who just dont care, UNTIL IT HAPPENS TO THEM.
iotaoo What if this person stole someones identity and pretended to be that person. What if the deceit or betrayal of it all was that their ultimate aim was to hurt you, Would you still try and forgive and help them become a better person? What of the person whose identity they stole?
1to1to1 I am of the opinion that these people believe their lies are the truth. I wonder if it is an illness. can it be treated, I will never feel nothing but disdain for these sort of people.
Loulou, If only you knew how many times i have heard those exact same words these past few months. The difference being, you are telling the TRUTH, the other person was LYING. Take it easy at work my dear Loulou
Cocheta And how lovely you are looking today. Again i know life goes on, and i thought i was street smart, but not enough i guess. Another life lesson learnt. The sun will come up tomorrow and the world will continue to revolve, hers to tomorrow.
Zman My very trusted friend, I do agree with what you say. I feel pity for any young children and the innocent people that may have been implicated in any such action.
Theresa4tgl It is hard to fathom i agree. I am not bitter, a little disappointed, but mainly bewildered at the level of deception. I am still unraveling the entire web of deceit. yes it will take time to understand it all, But i will not allow it to control my life. But i would like to know enough to understand what makes people do such things.
1to1to1 Agreed 100% it is the deceit of the lies, what if it were identity theft, what if someone whom you only ever communicate with via the net or phone, you eventually find out that they are not the person they have represented, what then.
iotaoo I never said it was a women, but using your example, What if the deception was so great that the lies were just to enormous for her to change her way, After a while, these people believe that their lies are the truth.
Ken_19 Sounds very similar to my experience. And yes it is all the consequences that come from all the lies, the hurt for any young children that person may have, the innocent and so forth. I do not feel bitter about it all, just bewildered.
namaron does that then mean that we ordinary people should do as some employers do. Do we ask our new friends, lovers whoever to give us permission to do background checks on them. I would rather believe that people are genuine and have no need to lie or cover up things with a lie. After all Friends should be there to support through the good and bad times. how does one build a friendship if a person lies, Shouldnt it be that they trust us that we will be supportive?
namaron that much we know, But what intentions could someone have to lie, if not to betray, to be deceitful, to hurt, i dont think any lie has ever had a happy ending.
Cat, there is an old saying saying, keep your friends close, but keep your enemies closer, (i think that is how it goes) I can not think of a worse situation than being betrayed by a friend or supposed loved one. the deceitfulness of their actions. I think at some stage or another we have all been betrayed by someone we considered close, Still what can we do, we invest our time in befriending these people only to be betrayed at some stage, What is in it for them, what is their mindset. Who knows.
hey pal, just a little as to what you mean by "just to enjoy fantastic brown chicken brown cow" I ask because a person i knew (coloured female) said that was how a white man describes a certain part of a coloured womens anatomy. (yes she was/is American)
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