I am unsure of the greater power concept, but I think if there is such a greater power as many want or need to believe in and it was able to create everything as described in the Bible....... Then a visitation would be very possible.
Christians are the first to say that it is wrong to judge... but are the first to judge! they feel that being a christian is better and that your life is not full without religion... is this not a judgement?!
This judgement is why most of them are trying to convert you.
I once has a girl come to mt house, she wanted to borrow some movies- I had many at the time. I went to the other room to get the movies that she wanted. when I returned, she was standing there nakid.. I told her to get dressed and leave. she said " you are kidding right" I picked up her cloths and said " you can put them on and leave or you can follow them out the door!"
I really didn't know this girl,, if it was that easy.. you know its been spread around everywhere.... no thanks. I value my life more than that.
I see that an extre,ely vast majority answered .."I never" To an extent I do! And honestly there are almost no people that don't to some point. may come up with classifications and post a different poll tomorrow.
Just one example for now: If I see someone falling down drunk, I make the judgement that this is not a person that I want to spend time with.
Most say they dont judge.. but not a very accurate statement.
I had a little chickie that wouldnt lay an egg, so I poured hot water down its little wooden leg, It squawked and it hollered and it begged and it begged, and the poor little chickie layed a hard boiled egg.
Nope, reread earlier statements, But who has never been hurt?
as for the rest... read profiles.. such as Mine... Not here for LDR. but if one finally shows up near me.. then we will see. But even then newbies have a barrier to get thru first because of so many fake profiles. Thats the one thing that sucks about free dating sites. Where people have to pay.. they usually wont have 5 profiles beacuse they would have to pay for each one.
Thats exactly what Im saying! not to rush in. looks like some cant stand to spend time alone.. I kind of think.... If you cant stand to spend time with yourself.. How can you expect someone else to spend time with you.
one should be able to actually enjoy thier life alone first,
But also as far as rushin it! time to recover after a breakup, rushing from one relationship to another is just a setup for doom and hurt.
Living you life is one thing, how we live it is another. I am far from giving up........ Buy I am realistic.. I am not going to try a 1000 mile + relationship. A relationship is hard enough to work thru face to face. I have fun with friends here, but life is right here.
Just seems that most just pee into the wind.. knowing full well where it is going to go.
Why do so many blindly ignore lessons from the past? It is like begging " hurt me,, hurt me... please screw me over" Then crying because they got hurt again.
We read so many profiles and most say exactly the same thing... I am funny, honest, open minded, easy going and honest. so on and so on...... Why do you put so much stock into what others write in a profile of Thread? Do you really need a partner so badly that you are willing to believe everything?
I have seen some very clear minded people here, but have also seen many that are willing and open to be played with and hurt. So Many rushing any kind of a relationship just to feel needed or wanted.
1.What things make you want so badly to be in a deadend relationship?
2.for those who are willing and able to wait for the right one... What do you see different from the above mentioned?
By the time we get it all figured out, We get Alzimers and forget it all. as we get older, we become more aware of what really are the important things. Come to find out, everything we thought was important years ago was illusion. I think Having Quality people around us is one of the most important things. So to answer the question, Since I fairly recently moved here, I just need to get out and make more Quality friends.
RE: Question for Women...
I agree with jb... I think it just ran over the top of my boots